The summer is quickly coming to an end, which only means one thing: colleges all over the country are gearing up for the fall semester. This is exciting for those of us who are going back after a long summer of separation from the place we get to call home for four years. But for those who are heading off to college for the first time, the excitement is like nothing else. Being a college freshman means having freedom. It means getting the opportunity to make decisions for yourself and finally becoming your own person. These are all great things, but we often forget that with more freedom, there is the need for more responsibility. College freshmen, here is my advice to you.

On academics

Go to class. Seriously, if not knowing enough material to pass the final is not enough motivation, then go because you’re actually paying for it. If you’re ever laying in bed trying to decide whether or not you should go to class, just do the math. You are paying a scary amount of money just to go sit in the classroom or lecture hall. Just go. Also, read your books. I wish I had someone aside from my professors to tell me that this was important as a freshman. The motivation to read for classes isn’t always there, but if your professor asks you to do it, you probably should.

On family

Call your mom. Call your mom, dad, grandma, grandpa, siblings, or whomever it may be that you left at home. I so often get caught up in my day-to-day and realize that it has been a week, and no one from home has heard from me. Your family is so often your greatest encouragers, but only if you will let them be. Take time out of your crazy schedule and pick up the phone. Trust me, you’ll be glad that you did.

On money

You can spend it, it’s really okay. Sometimes I look back on my freshman year, realize how much I missed out on because I didn’t want to spend the money. Saving money is important, but taking advantage of your four years is important too, so find a good balance. To spend money, you have to have money, so get a job! If you have the time to commit to a part-time job, do it. On top of having a little extra spending money, having a job will help you to develop time management skills.

Most importantly, have the time of your life. I wouldn’t trade my college experience for the world, and I am really sad that it’s coming to an end. Make friends that will last a lifetime, dress up and go out to dinner, have game nights, watch movies, stay up late, sleep all day, drink lots of coffee, and get involved. These next four years will be some of the best years, but they go by quickly. So don’t waste them—make the most of them! And don’t forget to call your mom.