Hey, high school seniors.
It's me, the second semester college freshman.
I know I'm probably the last person you want to be hearing from as you count down the days to graduation, but hear me out. I've been told I have some pretty good advice.
1. Take lots of pictures.
I know this is probably the last thing you want to hear from me, especially if your parents and teachers have been telling you the same thing. It's true though. I've only been out of high school for seven to eight months and I'm already regretting not taking more pictures during high school. People might think it's silly to take pictures with your friends at every football game or during every Spirit Week activity, but trust me, you'll want them.
2. Don't shy away from the dorm life just because of the communal bathroom situation.
Honestly, the bathroom situation isn't even that bad. The most people I've seen in the bathroom at one time is four. I feel like the dorm life is crucial to your college experience. I've made more friends in my dorm building than I have in my classes. The dorm life makes your social life a lot better and helps with your organizational skills (especially if you're a messy person like me).
3. Befriend your RA's.
The RA's need to be your best friends. If you're having problems with people on your floor or in your classes, you're more than likely going to go to your RA's for help. Wouldn't it make sense to be friends with them? They can put in a good word for you if you're trying to work in Housing. They can help you get out of trouble if you find yourself in some. Your RA's need to be your best friends.
4. Don't start counting down the days to graduation just yet.
If you're like me, you've probably been counting down the days to graduation since senior year started (or maybe even before then). I here to tell you that you should stop doing that. I know you're excited to walk across the stage and out of those high school doors for the last time. However, while you're busy marking off the days on your calendar, your final high school moments are flying by right before your eyes. Your last football game. Your last pep rally. Your last days of classes. You're going to regret not paying more attention through these moments. I know I do.
5. And finally, don't be too upset if you don't stay friends with everyone you're friends with in high school.
Once you get to college, you're going to be more focused on making friends at your new school rather than keeping up with everyone from your high school. I'm pretty sure I only keep up with about four people from my graduating class. Don't be upset. It's natural.
Well, high school seniors, that's my advice to you. Enjoy your final moments of high school. Look forward to college. You'll make new friends. You'll do well in your classes. I'm excited for you.
Sincerely,
A second-semester college freshman.
