It feels like it was just yesterday when I was a freshman at Darton State College in Albany, Georgia. (It really feels like a decade ago.) I had no clue what I was getting myself into. I really didn't want to be stuck in my hometown so I opted to try college. It was a lot of fun, but I almost flunked after my first year. Over time, I learned how to prioritize my time and maximize my opportunities that college afforded me. Going into my last semester as a student, I wanted to share a few tips for incoming who have the same mentality entering college as I did.
1. Find a mentor.
It’s important to find somebody older than you (upperclassman, advisor, professor, etc.) that you can go to for anything as you acclimate yourself to this environment. Don’t assume you have everything figured out, reach out to someone with experience who can help you navigate life.
2. Use your money wisely.
I spent the majority of my money on food and partying. Therefore, I had to depend on my parents a lot more than I wanted to. You have financial freedom, but it’s important to prioritize your needs rather than your wants. Then you won’t be financially restricted early in your first year.
3. Go to class.
Your mom isn’t there to wake you up every morning. The temptation is to pick and choose what days you go to your classes. Don’t play that game. Your participation and attendance counts. It could be the difference between a F and a C-grade.
4. Get involved.
Don’t waste time. Get involved. Find out about different programs and organizations on campus. Meet new people and learn as much as possible. Your voice matters. Take risks.
5. Don't be too hard on yourself.
If you don’t know what field you want to pursue after high school it’s okay. Investigate different interests you have and find out what you're really passionate about. This takes time, but it’s worth it. Enroll in different courses to see what fits your gifts the best.
6. Don't party every Thursday/Friday/Saturday.
This is what I tried to do and I was broke and about to drop out of school. I love a good time, but don’t be engulfed in the party culture to the point where you forget what you’re actually in school for. Keep your priorities straight. Don't go if you have test the next morning. Don’t let partying be a distraction to your progression as a student.
7. Always persevere.
There will be dark days when you don’t think you’ll finish what you started. Don’t leave school until you get what you went there for. Don’t compare yourself to others and their journey through school. Focus on your progression as a student and a person. You’ll find a lot of peace and contentment that way. Celebrate the victories, learn from the mistakes, and keep pushing. It’ll be worth it.
