Yes, Adults Can Cosplay Too, And No, We Are Not Freaks Because Of It

Let people enjoy their hobbies.


A local newsgroup did some wonderful coverage on an event that I and many of my friends attended recently. They showcased so many cosplays and put some positive light on one of the largest conventions in Alabama. It was amazing to see the range of skills and abilities local and non-local cosplayers brought to my city.

However, not everyone in the city was too impressed with over 8,000 people attending the event and wearing costumes from various anime series, video games, comics, and TV series. Some happened to leave some colorful comments and opinions on something many of us enjoy doing in our free time.

Cosplayers have always been seen as immature and jobless for some reason. Maybe it's because we primarily cosplay characters that are not our age, or they think of it as we can't move on from Halloween. What these people do not see is the money, time and energy that goes into making a cosplay. I honestly cannot blame them for that, many people that have not looked into the hobby are clueless on that aspect. Cosplay, though, has recently only become more mainstream with TV shows surrounding it and it appears more and more on social media, even if it has been here since 1939. This has led to cosplay gaining both more interest and receiving more hate.

I have learned valuable skills through cosplay. From running a business to networking to more practical skills such as sewing, woodwork, budgeting and resin casting. I am able to apply these skills to other things besides just cosplaying. I feel as if I am much better off than some adults who are still going completely into debt, not working/trying to improve their lives, and still bullying others for having a hobby.

While many attendees were under the age of 18, so many were above the age of 18. Many of us have jobs ranging from bartenders to teachers to medical professionals and everything in between. Cosplay for us, is a hobby, a way to escape from the craziness of the world even for just a day. It is a creative outlet and a way to find new friends we might otherwise not meet. It is a way for people to come together for a weekend from all over the country and sometimes the world, for fun and crazy adventures.

Some even found work within the cosplay community, such as Cubster Cosplay Photography who takes photos, like the one on the cover photo, of MorrisWorld, Zombie Fishie Cosplay, Little Red Fox Cosplay, and JustcallmeZer0 after they spent hours and hours on building the cosplays. These photographers often up in 20+ hours over the weekend and then even more after the con on top of their normal daily life. Others work as vendors and artist selling merchandise and goods to attendees. A few may even discover a new passion for voice acting or developing and network to achieve their dreams.

In the end, it has always baffled me on how someone's hobby just causes someone to react in this way. Of course every group has it's bad eggs, cosplayers are no exception, but for the most part, it is full of wonderful people. I have watched other cosplayers band together for someone going through hard times. I have seen cosplayers comfort those at conventions that break down crying due to anxiety or protecting those who do not feel safe. The cosplay community is full of so many people that help to hype up others when starting a business or starting a new cosplay.

I get that not everyone is not going to understand how much cosplaying has brought people out of dark times. I get that not everyone will understand that cosplayers are not people who still live in their mom's basement. That is okay. I can never condone some of these comments made by people who refuse to try to understand. Though, hopefully soon, people will see cosplaying no different than those who dress up for sporting events, attending a home and garden show, or any other type of hobby that is now more widely accepted.

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10 Abnormally Normal Things About College

Some stuff just doesn't fly in the real world.

College is a weird, weird place. For whatever reason, the young adults who are supposed to be cultivating their minds with all of the worldly knowledge available to them, seem to get away with quite a bit using the justification "it's college." Even the best students live abnormally while on the alien planet that is a university. So, while to us college students it may just seem like another day, here are ten things that are only normal in college.

1. Straight up theft.

In the future, if I walk into my forty-something-year-old neighbor's home and see a collection of stolen signs, stuff from the local restaurant, and property from the construction site down the road, I would definitely be concerned about the character of my neighbor. However, in college, people proudly display campus signs, traffic cones, or dining hall napkin dispensers that they have impressively commandeered - it's a cheap decoration and a great conversation starter.

2. All-nighters.

Maybe with the exception of parents of little babies, very few people willingly stay up for close to 24 hours on end. In the real world, if a friend came to you and said that they literally did not sleep the previous night, it's completely logical to be worried. On the other hand, when a friend in college says that he was up all night you laugh a little, give him an understanding pat on the back, and walk with him to the coffee line.

3. Atrocious eating habits.

Sometimes you don't have time to eat. Sometimes you order pizza at 2 in the morning. Sometimes you eat three dinners. Sometimes you diet. All I can say, is thank goodness that our metabolisms are decently high at this age.

4. Breaking and entering.

In high school, you hopefully knew everyone who entered your home. After college, hopefully, that's still the case. However, when you live in the middle of thousands of bored college students, people knock at your door, walk into parties, cut through your yard, and stop by without invitation or hesitation. It keeps life fun, but still not normal.

5. Calling mom when stuff goes down.

I really doubt a time will ever come that I don't need to call my mom for guidance on how to do something. But, hopefully the frequency of those calls with go down a little bit post-graduation. Maybe after four years of doing it on my own, I'll know how to fill out government forms, cook real dinners, and get stains out. But for now, I'm going to keep calling while I still can without seeming totally pathetic.

6. Being intoxicated at weird times.

Drunk at noon on a Friday is the quintessence of an alcoholic at any time - unless it's college. Not that this is necessarily a good thing, and it certainly doesn't apply to everyone, but there aren't many other places where people would instantly assume someone is intoxicated if they're acting even a little weird. I've even seen people drink in the library....

7. The messed up dating scene.

There are people who meet the love of their life at college and live happily ever after. They are people who meet the supposed love of their life at college and never talk to them again after Sunday. There are people who use Tinder. Hormones are high, freedom is bountiful, and football players are cute - what else needs to be said?

8. A warped sense of time.

The career I'm pursuing will require me to be at work by 7 am, five days a week. I am fully aware of this. Now, will I enroll in an 8 am next semester? Absolutely not - I'm not a demon. In college, nights often start at 10 p.m., dinners are eaten at 4, and mornings can begin anywhere from 8 to 2. We don't get that whole 9-5 idea.

9. Costumes... for no apparent reason.

High schoolers have a dress code. Adults have dignity. College students have fun. Here, people will wear a corn costume to get on ESPN, a fanny pack to get into a fraternity, or a tutu to match a theme party. Is it actually a weird thing, though? No one even blinks an eye.

10. Insanely close friends.

Name another point in your life when you live with your friends, study with your friends, drive with your friends, eat with your friends, go out with your friends, and even grocery shop with your friends. I'll wait. At college, it's easy for friends to seem like family because you're with them constantly. Love it or hate it, it's weird about college.

So, enjoy this weirdness while you can - it won't last forever!


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The Top 3 Lifestyle Changes I Made In College

The mistakes I corrected which stood between me and satisfaction.


2019 has been a year of unparalleled growth for me. In 2018 I could have said the same. I spent extended periods of time analyzing the factors of my life which left me, in some ways, feeling unfulfilled. Here are the top 3 lifestyle changes that I made in college which left me feeling happier than ever.

1. Cut out the toxic people. 

A house is worthless without a solid foundation. The people which you call your friends are largely the foundation for your confidence and social life. Sometimes, we recognize that these people are overall anchors on our psyche; condescending narcissists whose confidence rests on making others feel inadequate. The first step to building self-confidence is to get these people out of your life immediately. Once you solidify this foundation, you will soon realize how pitiful these people are, and growth you had been capable of without them.

2. Do you even lift?

Not only has my physical condition improved from going to the gym, so has my mental strength. As my physical form has improved, my confidence has risen. We have spent millions of years evolving to physically exert ourselves. Our modern lifestyle has left many of us without this crucial key to endorphins and proper brain chemistry; a factor which has promoted never before seen rates of depression and anxiety. Lifting weights have left me feeling better than I can remember, with endorphins and testosterone at an all-time high.

For years, I either avoided the gym or found excuses to stop. The reason I never committed to fitness was largely a lack of interest in self-betterment, but also a feeling of cluelessness in the subject. I recommend utilizing the "Beginner's Health and Fitness Guide" linked here. This guide breaks down fitness in an incredibly easy to understand way. This information is not published by someone trying to sell you something. It was written by input from numerous online fitness enthusiasts and refined for accuracy as well as simplicity. This guide has helped me and many others in online communities start down the road to improved physical and mental health through fitness.

3. Do as much as possible, even when you don't feel like it. 

I squandered years of my short life secluding myself to a comfort bubble. While in college, I have realized that happiness largely rests on occupying yourself with new and real experiences as frequently as possible. Time which would have previously been wasted on my phone, the television, or playing online games was shifted to trying new things. As often as possible, I have pushed myself to undertake activities such as learning to snowboard, grabbing food with people from college whom I had just met, going hiking with strangers and our mutual friend, traveling solo, etc. Pushing myself further from my comfort bubble every day has been exceptionally conducive to not only living life to a greater degree but also decreasing the anxieties which we all experience.

What can you fix in your current life to build the lifestyle you dream of?

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