Xochitl's Accent

Xochitl's Accent

For my sister

She produces sounds that link her soul to her land – distance is nothing but a number.

She stands tall. Her accent is so strong that the English “chocolate” swishes past her articulators the same way “chocolate” does in Español. And even when the white supremacists give her that look of disgust as they whisper that her voicing is wrong, she negates their ignorance. Her mind whispers “me vale madres” as her tongue continues to dance.

She stands proud. Honored of the melanin that takes over her skin: a perfect mixture of mamá and papá – the caramel drizzle draped over the vanilla white. Her thin black hair flowing through her roots.

Her tongue sways back and forth producing the five vowels that raised her, refusing to conform to the complexity of the English tongue. It knows how to dance to the quick pace of a rolling r; it connects with her Latina curves as she moves her hips from side to side at the vibrations of a good bachata tune.

Her mouth waters to the smell of mole and enchiladas, her lips close as her tongue prepares to move when her vocal cords voice the word “bueno” in response to the ringtone of her phone. Her tone is loud and firm, revealing her confidence in her speech.

She’s a woman of knowledge. Her accent makes her unique, not wrong.

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Yes, she wants to be heard too.


2018 is sort of a trap for this woman. She believes in women with all of the fire inside of her, but it is hard for her to offer support when people are making fools of themselves and disguising it as feminism.

The fact of the matter is that women possess qualities that men don't and men possess qualities that women don't. That is natural. Plus, no one sees men parading the streets in penis costumes complaining that they don't get to carry their own fetus for nine months.

1. She really loves and values women.

She is incredibly proud to be a woman.

She knows the amount of power than a woman's presence alone can hold. She sees when a woman walks into a room and makes the whole place light up. She begs that you won't make her feel like a "lady hater" because she doesn't want to follow a trend that she doesn't agree with.

2. She wants equality, too

She has seen the fundamental issues in the corporate world, where women and men are not receiving equal pay.

She doesn't cheer on the businesses that don't see women and men as equivalents. But she does recognize that if she works her butt off, she can be as successful as she wants to.

3. She wears a bra.

While she knows the "I don't have to wear a bra for society" trend isn't a new one, but she doesn't quite get it. Like maybe she wants to wear a bra because it makes her feel better. Maybe she wears a bra because it is the normal things to do... And that's OK.

Maybe she wants to put wear a lacy bra and pretty makeup to feel girly on .a date night. She is confused by the women who claim to be "fighting for women," because sometimes they make her feel bad for expressing her ladyhood in a different way than them.

4. She hates creeps just as much as you do. .

Just because she isn't a feminist does not mean that she is cool with the gruesome reality that 1 in 5 women are sexually abused.

In fact, this makes her stomach turn inside out to think about. She knows and loves people who have been through such a tragedy and wants to put the terrible, creepy, sexually charged criminals behind bars just as bad as the next woman.

Remember that just because she isn't a feminist doesn't mean she thinks awful men can do whatever they want.

5. There is a reason she is ashamed of 2018's version of feminism.

She looks at women in history who have made a difference and is miserably blown away by modern feminism's performance.

Not only have women in the past won themselves the right to vote, but also the right to buy birth control and have credit cards in their names and EVEN saw marital rape become a criminal offense.

None of them dressed in vagina costumes to win anyone over though... Crazy, right?

6. She isn't going to dress in a lady parts costume to prove a point.

This leaves her speechless. It is like the women around her have absolutely lost their minds and their agendas, only lessening their own credibility.

"Mom, what are those ladies on TV dressed up as?"

"Ummm... it looks to me like they are pink taco's honey."

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Only Two Years After 2016, The 2018 Election Gives Women A Lot More Hope

With women winning in record-breaking ways this election cycle, it's been proven that we're ready to continue to increase gender equality in American politics.


Even though not all the results are in from the midterm elections on November 6, a record number of women will be serving in Congress come January. Women served as the force through which the Democrats were able to gain control of the House of Representatives, and worked relentlessly on midterm campaigns. Women's involvement this cycle is unprecedented, perhaps indicating that women are fired up enough to take a more active role in the political world. It's safe to say that many women were upset not to see a woman finally obtain the United States' Presidency in 2016, and maybe this is the way American women are choosing to rise up.

The women who won represent an incredibly diverse picture of America, improving representation for minorities other than just gender. Sharice Davids and Deb Haaland will become the first Native American women ever elected to Congress. Rashida Tlaib and Ilhan Omar will be the first Muslim women to hold Congressional seats. Veronica Escobar and Sylvia Garcia are the first Hispanic women to be elected representing Texas. These women represent a new wave of intersectional feminism and the ways in which minorities are working together in light of Trump's administration. This is a positive movement towards a much more representative Congress.

Women also flipped states under Republican control, for example in Kansas and Michigan. State legislatures are incredibly important going into the 2020 presidential election. This is primarily due to the redrawing of voting districts, which will take place before the presidency is up for grabs. This election put women in an influential position that is unprecedented in American politics, making it clear that women plan to make a big impact come November of 2020.

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Congress is supposed to be the most representative branch of the federal government in the United States, but it often fails to accurately represent sects of the American population such as women, LGBTQ populations, and ethnic and religious minorities. While we are nowhere near accurate proportions, Congress became a much truer picture of America on Tuesday, proving that at least part of the American public is ready for a major change.

Part of what makes women in government so important is that without good female role models holding leadership positions, young women won't see a place for themselves in the political realm. If we ever hope to have a female president, girls have to be brought up seeing powerful women who are actively making a change and holding their own in a currently male-dominated sphere of society. I have to say that, after the devastation of falling short of a woman becoming president in 2016, the milestone is seeming just a little closer. It is inspiring to watch women mobilize the way that they have, and I'm sure many other young women feel motivated to make a change in our world.

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