Quarantine has gotten me in my feels, wishing the times were simpler. Music always brings me back so what better way to reminisce than to jam out to some of my old jams!
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23 Pandemic-Approved Date Ideas That'll Send Sparks Flying From Six Feet Apart
There's a safe way to date right now and yes, it includes masks.
15 September
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While some people would rather opt out of dating altogether during the pandemic so they don't have to wear a mask on a first date, others are choosing to listen to both guidelines and their heart in order to find love during the time of coronavirus (COVID-19).
Should you be one of the individuals welcoming romance right now, there are pandemic-approved dates you can go on that still adhere to guidelines (and yes, you'll have to wear a mask).
<p>Here are 23 date ideas perfect for a socially distant date.</p><p><div class="powrload_9edb92"></div>
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1. See a movie at the drive-in.
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<p>Depending on what the weather is like around where you live, the time left to do this may be limited, but if you're able to bring a few blankets and/or stay in your car with a little heat, drive-in movie dates can still be on the table through the fall.</p>
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2. Watch a movie in your yard.
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<p>Again, weather plays a part in this idea, but think about how to make the outdoor movie cozy even as the temperatures start to drop. Bundle up in some extra blankets and start a fire nearby to keep you toasty while you watch your favorite rom-com together.</p>
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3. Drink wine and look at the stars.
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<p>No matter the season, you can look up and see the stars. Grab a glass (or a few) of your favorite wine and chat under starlight. As always, throw on a comfy sweatshirt or coat if you need to, but don't let that stop you from heading outside to take in the night sky with your boo.</p>
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4. Grab ice cream together and take it to go.
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<p>Honestly, ice cream is a year-round dessert and I don't want to hear any buts about it, OK? No, but seriously, cold or not, grab a cone or even gallon of ice cream and walk somewhere close to eat it. Make sure you're buying your own though, as romantic as it is to share... there's a pandemic.<span></span></p>
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5. Go on a hike.
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<p>Fall hikes are truthfully even more special than the ones in the summer. Opt for a place with tons of fall foliage worth seeing and go there. Trust me, you'll be so happy you did!</p>
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6. Have a picnic in a park.
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<p>I don't know about you, but when I hear the word "picnic" I immediately think it's a huge ordeal — an appetizer, the main meal, snacks, drinks, utensils, cups, blanket, etc. But it doesn't have to be so extravagant! You can literally order a pizza, bring a bottle of wine with some cups, eat, drink, and be merry.</p>
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7. Rent kayaks or a canoe.
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<p>Weather permitting, this is always a fun date option and even if it starts to get chilly, as long as they're still renting or you own your own kayak or canoe, why not take your date on the water?</p>
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8. Go to an outdoor winery or brewery.
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<p>Wineries and breweries are always a good choice and if you're looking for a fun, pandemic-approved idea to drink outdoors while remaining socially distant, this is the idea for you.</p>
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9. Social distance at the beach.
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<p>Though this one is limited to locations where it's warm year-round, a beach date is truly a plus. But, if you live somewhere warm enough for beachgoers to flock to the water together, make sure you're <em>actually</em> following guidelines. Not just while you're sitting, but also while you're in the water and walking to/from your spot. </p><p>Wear a mask when you're passing people, OK?</p>
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10. Ride through some bike trails.
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<p>I strongly believe bike dates are underrated. Maybe it's because nobody's ever asked me on one since New York Citi Bikes are a little more intimidating than, say, biking by the beach, but biking is casual yet romantic and takes the pressure off of having to fill every silence with small talk.</p>
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11. Have a bonfire in your backyard.
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<p>When in doubt bonfires and s'mores are your answer. That's if, of course, you're legally allowed to have a fire in your yard. Either way though, s'mores are an option — just work some magic over a grill or something. Get creative, it's cute!</p>
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12. Have a DIY paint night outside.
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<p>If you don't already have the materials, order a <a href="https://amzn.to/3mrGTyr" target="_blank">paint and paintbrush set</a> and a pack of <a href="https://amzn.to/3hHieSZ" target="_blank">canvases</a> — voila! A DIY paint night for the two of you to paint the night away outside at a public park, your porch, or even your backyard.</p>
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13. Take a virtual cooking class together.
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<p><a href="https://www.airbnb.com/s/experiences/online" target="_blank">Cook up the romance virtually</a>! This one works whether you want to join separately from the comfort of your own homes or you'd rather do so from one kitchen to stay close to each other but away from others.</p>
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14. Rollerblade or skate.
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<p>A big trend I've seen more of while people are quarantined is rollerblading and skating. Even if you've never done it before, it could be a lot of fun (and a good laugh) to give it a try with someone you're dating.</p>
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15. Have a game night outdoors.
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<p>Game nights never get old, especially if you are trying <a href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/best-couples-games" target="_blank">exciting new games</a> together.</p>
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16. Walk (preferably with a dog) and talk.
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<p>A simple walk and talk is also always an option, especially if you're just getting to know someone and don't want to commit too much effort into planning the perfect pandemic date. Bring your dog along and make it as long or short as you'd like! This date idea is pressure-free.</p>
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17. Play tennis.
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<p>The perfect option for the athletic couple is a one-on-one tennis match. Plus, you can wear a very cute tennis outfit, and I LOVE that for you!</p>
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18. Do a classic coffee/tea date.
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<p>Never underestimate the power of a simple date. Don't fix what's broken, right? And the classic coffee/tea date is a tale as old as time — and it works! Just sit a little further apart.</p>
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19. Have a barbecue.
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<p>Turn up the heat in your grill and cook up your favorite foods. The process of grilling and eating together is romantic.</p>
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20. Take a virtual yoga class together.
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<p>You can both be in your separate homes while you do this <em>or</em> you can set up your laptop in an open spot at the park, set up your mats six feet apart, and have at it together!</p>
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21. Play golf or go mini-golfing.
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<p>Golf or mini-golf dates are sure to score a hole-in-one. Because even if you're not very good at it, it's a great activity to keep the mood light and the energy just competitive enough.</p>
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22. Go swimming.
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<p>It may be a little chilly, but if you dare to dive in for love, swimming is another exciting option no matter where you live — but especially somewhere warm so you don't catch hypothermia.</p>
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23. Catch the sunset.
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<p>When in doubt, let the sun do the work to set the ambiance. Consider watching it from a location neither of you have been but have heard great things about to further up the romance factor.</p>
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In our patriarchal society, men hide from their feelings, but toxic masculinity is literally killing men. They swallow the pain and move on so that they can look, feel, and act "tough."
But, strength is derived from asking for help and voicing your struggle and, trust me, working on your mental health is one hell of a struggle. The real way to "man up" is to acknowledge the downfalls in unjust societal norms. Mental health problems do not mean that a man is weak, they are neurologically-based disorders that require professional treatment.
<p>No one talks about the stigma that comes with emotional men, but <a href="https://afsp.org/suicide-statistics/" target="_blank">men die by suicide at a higher rate</a> than women and it's being pushed under the rug. <br></p><p>Suicide is a male-dominant problem, and here are 11 things you can do to help:</p><p><div class="powrload_9edb92"></div>
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1. Reach out to your guy friends and remember to support them.
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2. Encourage all genders and sexualities to talk about mental health.
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<a href="https://save.org/about-suicide/suicide-facts/" target="_blank">
3. Educate yourself about the facts.
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<a href="https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/" target="_blank">
4. Share resources on your social medias.
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5. Normalize therapy for all genders and sexualities.
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<p><br>Men are "<a href="https://www.healthline.com/health-news/how-can-we-reduce-mens-mental-health-stigma#The-stigma-men-face" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">far less likely to seek mental health treatment than women</a>," yet therapy is for everyone. If someone had a fever, they would go get help — the same goes for mental health. </p>
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6. Talk to friends and family about toxic masculinity.
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<a href="https://www.sprc.org/populations/men" target="_blank">
7. Include all genders in suicide awareness.
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<a href="https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/suicide/symptoms-causes/syc-20378048" target="_blank">
8. Know the symptoms and look out for them.
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<a href="https://www.ihs.gov/suicideprevention/howtotalk/" target="_blank">
9. Listen to how you talk about mental health and learn the most adaptive verbiage.
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10. Create safe spaces for hard conversations.
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<a href="https://www.stateofmindsport.org/" target="_blank">
11. Get involved in awareness campaigns and organizations.
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11 Things Your Boyfriend Should Do Before He Drops $499 On A PS5
Let's start with spending less time gaming and more time with you.
18 September
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Scrolling through Twitter this week had me rolling on the floor laughing as I read some of the hilarious tweets from ladies who, whether in a relationship or not, shared reactions to the news that PlayStation 5 is on its way
I've been asking my man for money every few days. I'm saving it for his PS5. He is about to pay for his own shit.
— BreYonna (@_ItsMissBre) September 17, 2020
i just bought my boyfriend a ps5, does this mean i get a wedding ring now???
— sav (@iamsavyyy) September 16, 2020
As this "buy your boyfriend a PS5" joke takes off across the internet, let's just say, there are a few things your BF should be doing before dropping $499 on the new gaming system — or, if the tweets are real for some, before you buy it for him as a gift.
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1. Spend less time gaming and more time with you.
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2. Commit to doing a couples challenge with you.
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<p><strong>SEE ALSO:</strong> <a href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/30-day-couples-challenge" target="_blank">This 30-Day Couples Quarantine Challenge Will Literally Make You Closer Than Ever</a></p>
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3. Learn to put the toilet seat back down.
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4. Clean up his sh*t that's lying around.
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5. Promise to watch "The Bachelorette" with you this season.
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6. Post a couples picture on Instagram professing his love for you.
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7. Cook you dinner.
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8. Spice things up in the bedroom.
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<p><strong>SEE ALSO:</strong> <a href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/fun-sex-ideas" target="_blank">10 Most Popular Ways To Spice Things Up In The Bedroom, According To New Survey</a></p>
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9. Save up money for expensive purchases they might make in the future (*cough cough* perhaps an engagement ring).
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10. Figure out your love languages together and do something for the other person based on the results.
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<p><strong>SEE ALSO:</strong> <a href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/love-language-quiz" target="_blank">Take This Quiz To Find Out Your Love Language, So You Know Exactly What You Need In Love</a></p>
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11. Surprise you!
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Sorry, But 'I Don’t Care About Politics' Is Not A Valid Excuse For NOT Voting
The younger generation of voters is so crucial to the upcoming election because our vote is going to shape the world that we are about to enter as adults.
14 September
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When I ask my friends if they are voting this term most of them respond with "no" followed by an explanation of "I don't care enough," "It doesn't affect me," or "I don't keep up with politics," etc. I get it, as a college student I know that there are many other things to be concerned about like school, relationships, work, and friends. I also understand that keeping up with politics can seem like trying to keep up with an over-exaggerated reality show that has way too many seasons. Not to mention most news stations and websites are biased so it's hard to decipher if what you hear is true or fake.
However, despite all of this annoyance, as the next generation of Americans, we have to remember that we owe it to ourselves, our families, and to our futures to care.
<p>Here are some reasons that you should reconsider voting.</p><p><div class="powrload_9edb92"></div>
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1. Politics do affect us.
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<p>We are no longer high school students living with our parents. We are now college students studying to get a job, start a family, and be financially independent. The people who hold office and the policies they endorse are going to affect the job market, economy, student debt, and the environment which will all in fact have a direct impact on us.</p>
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2.We should vote because we have the privilege.
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<p>We often take it for granted that we have the ability to vote and forget that many people from other countries don't have that same luxury. If nothing else, vote because you are lucky enough to have that right and start the habit of voting because small elections matter, too!</p>
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3.Voting does make a difference.
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<p>The younger generation of voters is so crucial to the upcoming election because our vote is going to shape the world that we are about to enter as adults. Also, if young people and students don't show that their vote is important, politicians wont concern themselves with our needs. The more representation in the polls the more impact our voice has!</p>
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<p>Yes, I've heard many times that people aren't voting because they do not like either candidate. I am not saying I disagree, but nevertheless you should still vote if not for the candidate then for the policies and laws they endorse. The president is not the only person in office that makes decisions, and in fact, the people they support and appoint to other offices are just as important — if not more important.</p>
</div></p><p class="" style="text-align: center;">* * *<br></p><p>Here is a <a href="https://www.bestcolleges.com/resources/voting-in-college/" target="_blank">link</a> that will explain to you how to vote as a college student and please remember to vote even if you're really hungover and have a test the next day :))))) </p><div class="post-pager js-listicle-pager" data-listicle-style="" data-async_load_parameters="platform=desktop&display_ads=1&settings=%7B%22enter_url%22%3A+null%2C+%22no_post_section%22%3A+null%2C+%22ads_breaks%22%3A+%5B3%5D%2C+%22prevent_last_break_repetition%22%3A+false%2C+%22use_numeration%22%3A+false%2C+%22show_columns_on_mobile%22%3A+null%2C+%22ads_order%22%3A+%5B3%2C+3%2C+3%2C+3%2C+3%5D%2C+%22turn_into_posts%22%3A+null%2C+%22list_breaks%22%3A+null%2C+%22reorder_voting%22%3A+null%2C+%22cooldown_in_seconds%22%3A+null%2C+%22pagination_order%22%3A+null%2C+%22source%22%3A+%22engine_settings%22%2C+%22next_post_url%22%3A+null%2C+%22up_down_voting%22%3A+false%2C+%22allow_url_change%22%3A+null%2C+%22numeration_sort%22%3A+-1%2C+%22allow_url_update%22%3A+null%2C+%22use_pagination%22%3A+false%2C+%22body_text_above%22%3A+false%2C+%22use_ads%22%3A+true%2C+%22items_as_posts%22%3A+false%2C+%22multiple_answers%22%3A+null%2C+%22no_redirect%22%3A+null%2C+%22is_guest_voting_allowed%22%3A+null%2C+%22layout_type%22%3A+null%2C+%22voting_extra_fields%22%3A+null%7D">
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Founders Of Color Q&A: BFFs Tasia Sli And Anna Yang On Empowering Women Through Their Lingerie
They've been all about community from the start.
18 September
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Tasia Sli and Anna Yang met in quintessential New York fashion at a chic rooftop event, inquisitive Yale grad Anna gravitating towards model/entrepreneur Tasia.
<p>The two came together like magnets, and haven't separated since. From the dawn of their community, "Something To Wine About," which was built to bring women from all walks of life together over wine to their inclusive lingerie brand, their shared brand as best friends and businesswomen has always been about bringing women together with the goal of uplifting and empowering one another.</p><p>Their lingerie brand, <a href="https://www.flawedfabulously.com/shop-our-ig" target="_blank">Flawed Fabulously</a>, isn't about neglecting and ignoring the things we call our flaws, but accepting them and loving them on ourselves and each other.</p><p><a href="https://www.flawedfabulously.com/shop-our-ig" target="_blank">Flawed Fabulously</a> is the manifestation of Tasia and Anna's years of community building, and this is their story.</p><h2>What is the story you hope to tell with Flawed Fabulously?</h2><p><strong>Tasia:</strong> I came up with it because I always had weight problems. My weight always fluctuated. It was so difficult to find a cute bra that was supportive if you were bigger. It was either that you had support and it was cute or that it was cute and no support. That's when I started altering my bras to make them more comfy. </p><p>So Flawed Fabulously, the idea started in 2013 to help a friend to stitching or altering and I'd make it for them. I've just always wanted to have women, whether you're a size A or DD, I want you to embrace your flaws.</p><p><div id="div-gpt-2647709515-content-ad" class="ad"><script>
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</div></p><p>I was depressed when I was overweight and happy when I wasn't. Back then, plus-size models weren't a thing and it wasn't glamorized. I just want women to be comfortable and to find pieces that inspire you to not dictate your worth by the number on the scale. </p><p>I want people to embrace what society would see as flaws.</p><h2>What have been your biggest challenges and highlights as entrepreneurs?</h2><p><strong>Tasia: </strong>It would probably be my health issues. Every time Anna would push me to start working again, my health problems would kick in and there would be a hospital stay. It's so unpredictable. </p><p><strong>Anna:</strong> The highlight would definitely be the transformation we've seen with the women we've worked with. When someone does a photoshoot with us, they come in nervous but when they leave, they're glowing. I watch someone get a compliment from Tasia and they totally transform. </p><p>Before I met Tasia, I was not that confident. That's why I loved the idea of bringing women together with her to feel beautiful. What Flawed Fabulously is all about is leaning in to what makes you different. </p><p>From the start, it's been about people of color and women of different sizes.</p><p><strong>Tasia: </strong>And, all the projects we've taken part in are very focused on building a strong female society in which we all build each other up. What gels us together is that Anna and I have the same mission to want to see other women grow.</p><h2>How do you feel social media and community building has changed your business?</h2><p><strong>Tasia: </strong>I think for me, since I started using Instagram, I have had a large following from the modeling I did in South Africa. As of recent, I feel like it's actually been amazing for marketing. </p><p>I don't think I've had any negative experiences because Instagram kind of helps us target our specific audience. I'm on my phone often and on Instagram often so it also helps with keeping an eye out for our competition. <strong></strong></p><p><strong>Anna: </strong>I enjoy our partnership together because I had a skincare company I'm going to bring back this fall but one of the toughest things for me was having to post and comment every day. For me, that was so hard and then I met Tasia and I loved that she can engage with people on social media in her sleep. </p><h3>What advice would you give to the upcoming generation of entrepreneurs coming from marginalized communities?</h3><p><strong>Tasia:</strong> I'd say, do not rush into things. I feel like at the beginning when I started, I had this idea for so long. I thought I could just throw some money in and everything would work out. I knew what I wanted and I was looking for a quick turnover and rocket in sales. </p><p>When I didn't get what I wanted, it kind of depressed me because I had such high expectations. </p><p>Have a goal, but also understand that good things take time. Don't set your standards compared to what someone else has. Don't put that much pressure on yourself. Work hard and let the universe take over. </p><p>I've become so spiritual the past couple of months, and I am a true believer that if you work hard, the universe will let things happen when it's supposed to happen.</p><p><strong>Anna:</strong> To piggyback off of that, we learned the hard way that entrepreneurship is a marathon. </p><p>It's all about your ability to embrace the journey and obstacles. I used to run into obstacles and think, I have no idea what I'm going to do. I've now been thinking, I'm so excited and can't wait to see what's next. </p><p>We have the mindset now that we know this is going to take some time and embrace the journey. </p><h2><strong>What can we expect from the future of Flawed Fabulously?</strong></h2><p><strong>Tasia:</strong> When we started, it was just lingerie and swimsuits but as of recently we've launched bottoms and a sports bra so we will have a fitness section and we'll soon have a fashion section. So, we'll just be bringing out new branches of what we have.</p><p><strong>Anna: </strong>We'll also have a family and friend ambassador content to really expand on the community building around the world. </p><p>We want our content to be <em>of</em> real women <em>for</em> real women. We want to see how you feel sexy at home.</p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image">
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I'm Hispanic And Latina But Let's Be Honest — America's Hispanic Holidays Aren't For Hispanics Or Latinos
Because, let's be honest: these holidays aren't meant for Hispanics or Latinos.
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"Do you have big parties on Cinco de Mayo?"
<p>You really can't fault anyone for what they say in grade school. When you're 8 – 13, you're expected to say stupid things. It's almost a requirement. So I couldn't get mad in the third grade when someone asked if I threw a Cinco de Mayo party every year. I didn't even get mad when I was asked the same in high school. Admittedly, I thought it was a dumb question but I didn't get mad, you know? </p><p><strong>Instead, I gave the same response I gave in the third grade: "Cinco de Mayo's not a thing for us." I have the same attitude towards Hispanic Heritage Month as I do Cinco de Mayo. </strong></p><p>If you ask me to go to a Cinco de Mayo party, I'll go. Yes, I'll be the buzzkill at the party explaining to you that May 5 is, in fact, not <a href="https://www.nationalgeographic.com/culture/2018/09/mexico-independence-day-confusion-cinco-de-mayo/" target="_blank">Mexico's Independence Day</a> but the day of a Mexican victory at the <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Battle_of_Puebla" target="_blank">Battle of Puebla</a>, but I'll go. Who would turn down a party, right?</p><p><strong>Because let's be honest: these holidays aren't meant for Hispanics or Latinos. Yeah, this next month is supposed to be a celebration of Hispanic contributions to this country, but it's not for... us. </strong></p><p><div id="div-gpt-2647538965-content-ad" class="ad"><script>
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5 Things To Buy The Book Lover In Your Life That Will Make Them Love You ALMOST As Much As They Love Books
The best gifts to get that book lover in your life.
18 September
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Two of my favorite things in life are reading and books. Obviously, they go hand-in-hand. In my life, I've realized that there is nothing better than learning about the current world or getting fully immersed in another world. Reading can inspire, teach, and entertain you.
For me, the feeling of opening a book and smelling that fresh book smell can't compete with anything else.
<p>I just love getting all cozied up and sinking into a good book. Recently, I've found <a href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/reading-2645955618" target="_blank">my passion for reading</a> again, recognized the books that have<a href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/books-not-adult-genre-must-read" target="_blank"> altered my life</a>, and paid extra attention to <a href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/quotes-for-hope-in-uncertain-world" target="_blank">quotes from books</a> that make an everlasting impression on my life. </p><p>Now, I want to share the things that helped me perfect my reading experience and might be able to help you, too. Part of rediscovering my love for reading was finding out the best ways to get into the reading mindset. </p><p>Reading, to me at least, is never as simple as just opening a book. Getting into the reading mood takes a lot of time - things like the smells, sounds, and settings around me make or break if I'm able to get into a book or not. Even if you're not that picky when it comes to being able to read, these are things every book lover will enjoy:</p><p><div class="powrload_9edb92"></div>
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<p>Lighting is everything. One of the reasons I stopped reading was because I didn't have enough light in my new bed. Once I got this, it totally changed the game, and now I read every night before bed. </p>
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<p>Bookmarks are fun ways to keep track of where you are in the book but with a personalized touch. I love finding bookmarks that showcase my personality or have quotes that inspire me. Get creative and find one you will treasure. This makes it easier not to lose, so you won't be scrambling to use a receipt to save your place next time. </p>
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<p>Candles are another way to personalize your reading experience and make it more fun. I love a court of candles because you can get candles that smell like your favorite book characters from almost every fandom. Not to mention, they have a variety of smells that will help put you in a calming and relaxing mood that will get you reading. </p>
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<p> I get most of my reading done in my bed. I need my reading experience to be of ultimate comfort. A blanket makes or breaks a comfy situation. </p>
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<p>Having your own book stamp is another fun way to personalize your reading experience and put the fun back into reading. I love getting new books and stamping them. In a way, you become a part of each story by leaving your own personal mark.</p>
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Chrissy Teigen Accidentally Revealed The Gender Of Her Third Baby, And Oh BOY, I Am So Excited For Her
Did Chrissy just announce the gender of baby #3 in the most nonchalant way possible?
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Expecting mother and wife to singer/songwriter John Legend may have accidentally slipped up and revealed the gender of her and Legend's third baby today on her Instagram story.
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</div></blockquote></div><p>Teigen is currently on <a href="https://www.usatoday.com/story/entertainment/celebrities/2020/09/16/chrissy-teigen-difficult-pregnancy-bed-rest/3476593001/" target="_blank">extensive </a>bed rest while carrying her third child due to a weak placenta that isn't providing all the necessary nutrients to the baby. She admits that she has always had complications in regard to her placenta with her two previous pregnancies, as well.<br></p><p><strong>She took to Instagram to explain her current state, but she accidentally slipped up and gave us a VERY big clue about her third baby's gender.</strong></p><p>"It's so weird because the baby is really, really healthy, and he's big." She immediately covers her mouth and captions the story "hahahahaha might as well tell you."</p><p> Could this really be the gender reveal for baby number three? Could Chrissy and Legend be expecting their second son or was this meant to throw us off?</p><p><strong>The couple recently shook the internet in mid-August with their pregnancy announcement in John Legend's new song "Wild."</strong> <br></p><p>In the past, they have slyly announced their pregnancies and the gender of their babies. In 2015, the couple admitted they had trouble conceiving and <a href="https://www.whattoexpect.com/news/family/john-legend-chrissy-teigen-ivf-ppd-journey/" target="_blank">went through IVF</a> to have their first child, Luna. </p><p><div id="div-gpt-2647702014-content-ad" class="ad"><script>
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20 Books About Latin And Hispanic Heritage Absolutely Everyone Should Have On Their Bookshelf
Any ally of the community needs to be reading these incredible reads.
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I go through phases when it comes to what I like to read. I am typically reading two books at any given time: one serious nonfiction and one escapist fiction novel to have on hand and open up depending on my mood.
What remains consistent, however, amongst most of my fellow bibliophiles is a desire to try new and different authors and genres. I, as an Indian woman, have been partial to reading books written by fellow Indian and Desi writers since I first got a library card.
<p>In the past several years, my book-loving friends and I have been making a collective effort to read books written by minority authors. From Isabel Allende's magical realism to Juan Carlos Onetti's short stories, our hands have been reaching for the Latin authors on our bookshelves more than usual this Hispanic Heritage Month.</p><p>The books on this list aren't just fun reads by Latinx and Hispanic authors — they're educational resources on the unique struggles of immigration, oppression, and more we all need to be educated on in order to be the best allies of the community we can be.</p><p><div class="powrload_9edb92"></div>
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<p>Four sisters growing up in two cultures flee the Dominican Republic to come to New York City in 1960 to navigate learning a new language, hairstyles, fashion, and more while telling stories of home to keep their culture alive amongst each other.</p>
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I Asked 46 Women What They Thought About The Term 'Plus-Size', And Here's What They Had To Say
It's 2020, where change is inevitable and norms are not only questioned, but challenged.
17 September
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We live in a world where it's become customary to push boundaries, break rules, and question standards upheld by society. Though try as we might, some of these standards are harder to conquer than others — body image is one of the top contenders.
For years, the body positivity movement has pushed for the acceptance of all marginalized body types not represented or celebrated in the media. Recently, we've gotten better at appreciating and accepting all body types, but one thing that's still lingering is the stigma of body image in the fashion industry — more specifically, the term "plus-size."
<p>To gain more insight on the matter, I asked a series of questions that pertained to what 46 women of all ages and body types thought about the term "plus-size." Here's what they had to say. </p><p><div class="powrload_9edb92"></div>
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First, the age range of the survey.
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p>Jordyn Leach, Survey Results</p></small>
<p>This is something that affects girls and women of all ages, so the wide age range of participants was expected. The participants were between 16 and 69 years old, with the most prominent amount of women being in their early to late 20s. As you can see, this can be perceived as a hot topic that encompasses multiple generations, from baby boomers to Generation Z. </p>
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What kind of connotation do you think the term "plus-size" has?
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p>Jordyn Leach, Survey Results</p></small>
<p>I think that this data speaks for itself. When we hear "plus-size," we normally don't associate it with something positive unless it's a party pack of our favorite snack foods. </p><p>In the fashion industry, "plus-size" includes anything above the "straight" sizes, <a href="https://www.dia.com/blog/wear/guide-plus-size-sizing/#:~:text=Straight%20sizes%20generally%20go%20from,be%20a%20size%2012%2D32." target="_blank">which generally cap at 14</a>. Likewise, in the modeling industry, "plus-size" is recognized as <a href="https://www.bistromd.com/womens-health/why-is-size-six-the-new-plus-size" target="_blank">anything higher than 6-8</a>, depending on where you look. </p><p>I asked the participants to explain their answer, negative or positive, in a follow-up question and 48 percent expressed that "plus-size" doesn't sound appealing. 19 percent mentioned that "plus-size" can be interpreted as something separate from the "norm" that society has set. 30 percent expressed that they understand why "plus-size" is used, especially compared to other less appealing options, but that it still segregates curvy or well-endowed women in the public eye. </p><p>11 percent expressed that because they love their body type, "plus-size" simply helps them find their clothes faster. </p><p>9 percent of the participants pointed out an important fact — health and size are not the same thing. You can be voluptuous with thick thighs and a slim waist (much like Marilyn Monroe), muscular with tone and definition, or somewhere in the middle all while being as healthy as a horse, and you can still fall into the "plus-size" category because of outdated sizing systems. </p>
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Do you think "plus-size" borders on fat shaming?
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p>Jordyn Leach, Survey Results</p></small>
<p>I found it interesting that the results of this question were almost an even split. </p><p>But first, I would like to add some context as to why this question was included. Though this could be something easily interpreted from the term standing alone, <a href="https://www.today.com/style/man-wears-girlfriend-s-clothing-call-out-body-shaming-sizes-t91931" target="_blank">there was a story back in 2016</a> of a boyfriend trying to make a point that women's clothing is built on body shaming and sexism (which will be addressed later) by trying on his girlfriend's clothes before she threw them out. In his statements, he expressed obvious frustration. </p><blockquote>"I am not an extra large man, and more importantly, a woman my size is NOT an extra large woman."<br>"I'm fitting in something that tells a woman she's and extra large and it's ridiculous."<br>"My point wasn't about the sizes. It's about the disparity in sizing between men and women. The fact that I got into both a men's small and a woman's extra large is straight up sexism. Body shaming sexism.</blockquote><p>When I asked a follow-up question requesting that participants to go more in-depth, that's when things became more clear. 39 percent mentioned that "plus-size" categorizes women in a different and less appealing sounding way that is different than the "desired" and outdated norm. <br></p><p><strong>24 percent mentioned that fat-shaming is unacceptable, but contradicted themselves by fat-shaming in the next breath. </strong></p><p>The fact that there are men, like the one in the new story, willing to speak up about the issue is inspiring. There's still a long way to go but progress is progress nonetheless, as we've seen slowly but surely with the body positivity movement. </p>
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Do you have to shop in the "plus-size" section of the store?
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<p>We all know that sizes can be weird and this data helped reflect that. At one store, you may be a size 10-12 but at another, you're a 14-16. Most of the time, it depends on the store (or brand) and that was expressed by nearly a third of the participants. </p><p>If anything, this exposes the problems and inconsistencies of how measurements are translated into categories of clothing. According to <a href="https://www.today.com/style/jeans-don-t-fit-here-s-explanation-inconsistency-women-s-t100419" target="_blank">Today</a>, brands actually created their own sizing systems in the past and represent who their "core customer" is the most. </p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/7QwlT5f7H1c" target="_blank">This video from Vox</a> also gives a background as to why the current size system is structured how it is. </p><p>To a certain point, this makes sense but the inconsistencies across the board make it difficult for women with different body types to go clothes shopping. </p>
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If the term applies to you, do you feel like it marginalizes you when you're shopping?
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<p>This question was helpful for two reasons — to establish that there are multiple participants that have varying body types, and to find out how many women feel as if they're an outsider, or even insignificant when they're shopping. </p><p>While most stores do have a designated "plus-size" section or options starting at 14-16, <a href="https://fashionista.com/2017/03/fashionista-best-clothing-stores-2017" target="_blank">some popular stores</a> for women do not provide sizes greater than 14, <a href="https://theeverygirl.com/why-a-size-12-isnt-plus-size/" target="_blank">which is the end of "straight" sizes</a>. </p><p>I asked a question prior to this one, "Do you like going clothes shopping?" and 54 percent of the participants mentioned that finding the right size and fit was a struggle regardless of their body type. 11 percent mentioned that staring and judgment from other shoppers affect their shopping experience in a negative way. </p><p>Shopping can be difficult and taxing, no matter your body type. There's no need for stores (and their inconsistent sizing systems) to contribute to that. </p><p>Just think of how much their sales would increase if stores were more inclusive of their sizes. </p>
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Do you think the term "plus-size" can be considered sexist?
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<p>The opinions for this question were pretty split, with the exception of additional input. </p><p>We've seen a history of societal expectations between women and men being enforced with double standards. In other words, what is seen as a negative thing for women is a positive thing for men — a prime example being an active sex life. Where men are praised for being "the man" for having a high body count, women are dubbed as sluts or being promiscuous. Though sizes in the fashion industry are a separate thing altogether, it's the same concept. That being said, I felt that this would be a beneficial addition to the survey.</p><p>As you can see in the data, the phrase "big and tall" was mentioned. In a follow-up question, I asked the participants to explain their answers.</p><p>33 percent mentioned that instead of a "plus-size" section, it's most commonly seen and known as "big and tall." 22 percent mentioned that sometimes "big and tall" isn't specified and that there's just a general men's department that has a multitude of sizes encompassing all body types. 47 percent mentioned that no matter what the men's department is or isn't divided into, the women's department almost always has a section specifically for "plus-size."</p><p>This way, we can conclude from the "yes" votes and the write-ins, that the double standard is very much alive with clothing sizes and how they may be presented in a store. Nine times out of ten, women get the short, less appealing end of the stick. </p><p><strong>I'll leave the judgment up to you — which sounds more appealing? "Big and tall" or "plus-size"?</strong></p>
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New studies conclude that the average size for American women is 16-18, but this is considered "plus-size." Do you feel that stores should evolve and categorize clothing differently to fit the average?
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p>Jordyn Leach, Survey Results</p></small>
<p>The data for this question was pleasantly surprising. Yes, we live in a world where things are constantly changing and evolving but I have to admit, I was skeptical that it would have a positive outcome. I'm glad that the majority of participants are on board with the idea that our stores need to evolve as well — not only with their sizing systems, but what they categorize clothing as. </p><p>The study in question <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/17543266.2016.1214291" target="_blank">can be found here</a>, although I'm sure there are countless others that can be found to support the conclusion that the average clothing size for American women is 16-18. </p>
</div></p><p class="">Although this survey gave us some insight on this topic, the conversation doesn't stop with these 46 women. It's an ongoing uphill battle of body image acceptance and inclusivity in the fashion industry. </p><p>It's 2020, where change is inevitable and norms are not only questioned, but challenged. The question is, is society ready for that?</p><p><br></p>
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5 New Shows And Movies Coming To Netflix This Fall That Will Have You Binge-Watching In Between Zoom Classes
Go buy some popcorn and get ready to stay home and Netflix this fall!
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Many popular TV shows are holding off premiers until spring, so most people are relying on their television subscriptions to get them through a socially distant fall semester.
Thankfully, Netflix was busy filming this past year because there is a ton of new original content coming in the near future. From mysteries to romances, here are some of the best new shows you have to check out this year:
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1. "Enola Holmes"
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<p>Enola Holmes is a young girl who finds her mother missing one morning. With a famous detective as her brother, it shouldn't be an issue with his help. But instead, boarding school is in her future. Can she find her mother and grow into the lady detective she was meant to be? Find out on September 23!</p>
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2. "Emily in Paris"
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<p>Emily just moved to Paris to work at a big marketing firm to give them a needed "American perspective." From relationships, balancing work, and staying fashion-forward, Emily has to juggle all the fun that comes with moving to the city of love. See what awaits Emily's future on October 2!</p>
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3. "Hubie Halloween"
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<p>Adam Sandler is Hubie in this new fall movie. Hubie is the joke of the town, but this Halloween, he is their only hope. People start disappearing, and he is going to try and protect the town no matter what. See if Hubie saves Halloween on October 7!</p>
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4. "Rebecca"
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Taylor Swift Sang 'betty' At The ACMs And It Was The Perfect First Live 'folklore' Performance
I guarantee that Inez is spreading rumors about how fire this performance was.
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The Academy of Country Music Awards were last night and the performances were wonderful, but Taylor Swift's live version of "betty" from her newest album "folklore" really took the cake for me.
<p>This was Taylor Swift's first time back at the ACMs in seven years and she exceeded expectations. </p><p>You might be thinking, "why did Taylor Swift even perform, she's not country anymore?" YES, that is true, however, "folklore" definitely has some songs that could be considered indie/country, including — and ESPECIALLY — "betty."</p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-youtube">
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9 Reasons I Unfollowed All The Fitness Influencers On My Instagram Feed
I don't need to feel bad about myself because of who I follow on social media.
17 September
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Throughout quarantine, something that a lot of us picked up on was working out. With all the free time, it seemed like the perfect opportunity to work on that "dream bod" you've been wanting for years, or to just feel good about yourself.
A common way to stay motivated and keep yourself on-task is to follow fitness influencers on various platforms. For some people, yes, this can be a healthy and helpful way to keep your drive. In other cases, however, this can do more harm than good.
<p>Here are nine reasons why I stopped letting fitness influencers flood my Instagram feed. </p><p><div class="powrload_9edb92"></div>
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1. I have my own goals, and they might not match everyone else's
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<p>We all have our own goals for ourselves, our health, and our body. No two people are the same and no two people have exactly the same goals in mind when it comes to fitness and wellbeing. That being said, the things I want for myself and my body are vastly different from the goals that most fitness influencers advocate for.</p>
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2. My personal progress is not defined by someone else's
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<p>Seeing other people make progress on their fitness journeys can be a source of motivation, sure, but it can also be a hindrance. Sometimes, seeing people progress faster than you are can be a huge downer. It's easy to criticize yourself for not being as toned, as strong, or as lean as someone who has been training for years and sharing their progress online. I want to base my progress on where I was versus where I am, not where I am versus where someone else is.</p>
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3. It's all in the editing
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<p>I think that a lot of us often forget how much editing really goes into professional social media posts. As much as you crop, filter, and edit your personal photos, influencers do exactly the same — if not more! There are FaceTune and Photoshop and endless filters readily accessible, and the only person who really knows how much or how little editing is behind a specific photo is the person who posted it. Personally, there is no point for me to allow myself to become self-conscious by looking at a seemingly perfect photo of a seemingly perfect person. </p>
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4. A pose works wonders
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<p>This goes along with number three. The same way that editing works wonders, so does posing. For example, if you suck in your stomach you automatically look thinner than if you stand comfortably and naturally. Similarly, it is just as easy to stand a certain way to accentuate your legs or glutes or whatever body part you want to look a little bit better for the sake of a photo. The thing is, we all get so wrapped up in doing this that we may fail to recognize the fact that everyone else is doing it too — a picture that looks perfect has a lot more behind it than we realize.</p>
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5. I don't want my confidence to take a hit for no reason
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<p>Social media really can be ridiculously toxic. I am at a point in my life where I am genuinely healthy, happy, comfortable, and confident with my body and my eating habits. I don't want to put myself at risk of falling off the deep end over nothing. Staring at photos of "perfect" people and their "perfect" bodies every day just because that's what Instagram's algorithm places on your feed is never going to be more beneficial than it is harmful. The things you digest online are the things you internalize — are you really sure you want to be consuming media that somehow makes you feel like you aren't enough?</p>
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6. No two bodies are exactly alike
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<p>No two people's bodies are exactly alike, nor do they function in exactly the same ways. Some people have food intolerances, some people are more flexible than others, some have more energy or more endurance than others, and the list goes on and on. The moral of the story is that no two people are exactly the same, and what works for one person will not necessarily work in the exact same ways for somebody else. When you get wrapped up in the things that someone else is doing, it can be easy to lose track of your own path and the things that work for you.</p>
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7. Every body is a beach body
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<p>As mentioned earlier, social media perpetuates certain standards of beauty, and it is easy to drown in them. The fact of the matter is that as long as you feel beautiful and confident with who you are, it does not matter what those six fitness influencers look like. If you find yourself becoming more critical of yourself after looking at pictures of Instagram models and fitness influencers, it is probably time for you to hit the unfollow button so you can learn to love yourself right. </p>
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8. I've had my own struggles and I don't need to go back
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<p>Like most people, I have had my own struggles with insecurities, unhealthy eating habits, and body image — that is not a place I want to go back to. I am speaking for myself here, but I know that personally, it is really toxic for me to spend time looking at photos of people that make me feel less confident or not good enough. I am, at this point in time, comfortable in my own skin, and following those influencers on social media is not worth the potential risk it poses to my wellbeing. </p>
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9. I don't need to look like an Instagram model to be beautiful
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<p>Beauty standards are whack, this we know. So why do we still hold ourselves to them? I don't need to look like an Instagram model in order to be beautiful and neither does anybody else. It's time to start owning that.</p>
</div></p><p class="">Nobody is responsible for my triggers or insecurities, and they aren't responsible for anybody else's either. It is so, so important to take note of the things that do and do not make you feel good about yourself, and then act on those things accordingly. For me, following certain influencers does take a toll on my self-image, so my decision to unfollow them is based on the fact that I am striving to be my happiest and healthiest self, and the only way that I can truly do that is by reflecting inwards.</p><div class="post-pager js-listicle-pager" data-listicle-style="" data-async_load_parameters="platform=desktop&display_ads=1&settings=%7B%22enter_url%22%3A+null%2C+%22no_post_section%22%3A+null%2C+%22ads_breaks%22%3A+%5B3%2C+3%2C+3%5D%2C+%22prevent_last_break_repetition%22%3A+false%2C+%22use_numeration%22%3A+false%2C+%22show_columns_on_mobile%22%3A+null%2C+%22ads_order%22%3A+%5B3%2C+3%2C+3%2C+3%2C+3%5D%2C+%22turn_into_posts%22%3A+null%2C+%22list_breaks%22%3A+null%2C+%22reorder_voting%22%3A+null%2C+%22cooldown_in_seconds%22%3A+null%2C+%22pagination_order%22%3A+null%2C+%22source%22%3A+%22engine_settings%22%2C+%22next_post_url%22%3A+null%2C+%22up_down_voting%22%3A+false%2C+%22allow_url_change%22%3A+null%2C+%22numeration_sort%22%3A+-1%2C+%22allow_url_update%22%3A+null%2C+%22use_pagination%22%3A+false%2C+%22body_text_above%22%3A+false%2C+%22use_ads%22%3A+true%2C+%22items_as_posts%22%3A+false%2C+%22multiple_answers%22%3A+null%2C+%22no_redirect%22%3A+null%2C+%22is_guest_voting_allowed%22%3A+null%2C+%22layout_type%22%3A+null%2C+%22voting_extra_fields%22%3A+null%7D">
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