Trust is like any important tangible item. You can have it in a safe place, but there is a possibility of it getting lost or taken away. You can buy a new one, but it'll never be the same or have the same meaning. Trust isn't any different. Once lost, it's gone.
1. It'll never be the same.
No matter how hard you care about someone, once they have lost your trust, you never 100 percent trust them again. And if you say you do, you're only lying to yourself.
2. There will always be a "what if"
What if it happens again? What if they lie again? What if they hurt me again after I try to trust them over? These will always be questions in the back of her mind. Don't make her have these.
3. There will always suspicion.
You could say you're going to Taco Bell to get something to eat and we"ll think, "well is he really doing that?" and contemplate to follow you and I'm sorry for that but we're girls and we're just crazy at times.
4. There will always be opportunities to bring it up.
Once you lose someone's trust, any time in an argument or discussion, we will want to bring it up. But that only hurts you both because you're living in the past instead of moving forward.
5. There will always be suspicion.
You could say you were leaving Wal-Mart twenty minutes ago and it took you 30 minutes to get home, when you only live 10 away. Where were you in between? These things pop in our heads, even though we don't want them to.
6. We will always question your body language.
You could just be having a bad day, and want to be alone. But we think you are up to something you shouldn't be and that's not OK.
7. Social Media.
Favorite another girls tweet? You just thought the tweet was funny, but we think way more into it. Which is just dumb on our part, but we still do it.
8. It will never be the same.
No matter how hard you try to trust someone again, after losing it, it'll never be the same. I'm not saying that there won't be a way to make it work because it is possible. It will not be the care free relationship it was before and there will be more guards, but it can work. It just takes a forgiving person and two people who are dedicated to making it work.
9. It ruins her.
Not only can she not trust you now, but she questions everything about herself. She starts to believe she's not good enough or didn't offer what she needed to or she would've never lost your trust in the first place. Don't ever make a girl feel this. It not only ruins her current relationships with people, but also every relationship in the future. It makes her question if she can trust anyone, and that's not OK.
