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I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years, and there are so many things that we have learned, as a couple and individually. Likewise, I have friendships that have taught me so many lessons as well- however, sometimes it can be hard for many people to maintain them. I asked a random group of people about their best relationship/friendship advice, and this is what I was told:

1. Trust.

The one thing each person I conversed with had this in common: trusting eachother. Whether it be friendships or your love intrest, trusting the other person is a major step in countinuing a lasting bond. If you cannot trust the person for simple things, it may not be the best idea to have a relationship with them.

2. Make time for each other.

This in itself is pretty self explanatory. College years are especially trying on one's schedule, but if you love them, you are going to make time for them- plain and simple.

3. Always Be Yourself.

Applying mainly to friendships, this is also important in your love life as well. There is never an instance where, if they truly wanted to spend time with you, a person would enjoy getting to know or fall in love with the wrong person. Physically you may be who they think you are, but if you are not that way on the inside as well, you are setting up for a disaster.

4. Always pretend like it's the first date.

Never lose that excitment you had the first time you two went out, or the nervousness you had right before you held hands. Never become complacent with what you have.

5. Go out at least once a month.

Again, make time for each other. It does not have to be food, but find a place where neither of you have gone before, and go there.

6. Fight through the boring days.

Because they will happen. Not everything will be "adorable" or "exciting". There are times where all you do is sit on a couch for hours together, or maybe not see each other for a few weeks/months.

7. If it is not going to matter in two weeks, it probably should not matter now.

It is truly excruciating to watch couples and friendships end over petty disagreements. Pick your battles, and please pick them wisely.

8. When you fight, put yourself in their shoes.

One of the biggest mistakes a person can make is if they do not try to understand what another person is going through. Even though something may have upset you, it may be a clever thought if you think as to why they did what they did in the first palce.

9. Love them, despite their mistakes.

Things happen, and mistakes are made-- by you and the other person. Some mistakes are a than others, but if you can also see your imperfections, then their failures may not be as important than to begin with.

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I Asked Random People To Give Me Their Best Relationship Advice, And Here Is What I Found

It's easy to start relationships, but keeping them? We need advice for that.

1. Trust.

2. Make time for each other.

3. Always Be Yourself.

4. Always pretend like it's the first date.

5. Go out at least once a month.

6. Fight through the boring days.

7. If it is not going to matter in two weeks, it probably should not matter now.

8. When you fight, put yourself in their shoes.

9. Love them, despite their mistakes.

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And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

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1. The importance of traditions.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

3. How to give back.

4. What the word "community" really means.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

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Email the professor

Attend the first class

Keep attending class

Have a backup plan

Remember that everything works out at the end

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