In January of 2000, my life changed for the better. My best friend was brought into this world. He's now 16, and we all know how teenage boys respond to love and advice from their big sister. These are just a few things he needs to hear from me.

1. I care about you more than I care about myself.

You're my little man. I've loved you since the day I met you. Heck, I even had mom change your name while you were in her belly. You're my brother. You're my best friend. I want the world for you. I'd take a bullet for ya, kid.

2. Be the man you'd want me, or your daughter, to have.

Always respect women. Always treat others how you'd want to be treated. Never forget that. You've seen me through countless amount of breakups and heartbreaks, you've seen qualities that make up a good or bad boyfriend. I have confidence that you will be the perfect husband someday.

3. Learn from my mistakes.

I know I've made a lot of them, but take them into consideration and take the lessons I've learned, and use them in your life. I want you to learn from every decision I've made, bad or good.

4. Continue to work hard.

You're brilliant. You're a go-getter. Never lose that. Keep getting good grades, keep pushing yourself. I know you will succeed with whatever you want to do, just never give up.

5. Be nice to mom & dad.

I know being a teenage boy sucks, and you enjoy being a pain sometimes. But, they love you. I love you. They're your parents and they will be there for you through thick and thin, just like how they were there for me through heartbreak, bullies, my college decisions, friendships ending, etc. Involve mom in your life, be kind in response to what silly things dad says.

6. Never stop making me laugh.

Our weekly FaceTime sessions are what get me through my bad days. You have the ability to make me laugh with almost anything you say. Not many people can do that. So, I need you to know that I might still be calling you when we're states away with families of our own because I need my little brother to make me smile.

7. The right girl will come along.

But first, I must approve.

Some day, you will find the perfect girl for you. Just know that I will need to approve and will need to do a quick background check. No girl will be able to get away with hurting my little brother.

8. You're the best, and I know you best.

I mean for real, we went through awkward stages together. I know what kind of person you are, I know what kind of food you hate, I know how to make you laugh. I know you better than anyone, and that means I will always be here. I'll always know how to help you. I'll always be your best friend.