As my sophomore year comes to an end, I realize how much I've learned over the last two years. There have been high ups and really low lows, but I wouldn't change a thing about my experiences.
1. Socializing is hard.
My freshman year, I was in a quad in a non-traditional dorm. I figured that since I'd be living with three people, I was bound to have a large friend group. That didn't happen. College taught me that just because your roommate has friends, that doesn't mean that you do too. You have to put yourself out there. As terrifying as it may be for some, it will be worth it. I promise.
2. Food really is not worth what it costs.
I think we all know the food memes and videos that are circulating, praising how enjoyable food is and the effects of being deprived of it. But as good as it is, it is SO expensive! Having a variety of restaurants around school may sound like a plus, but believe me, they will drain your wallet.
3. Your friends will be there for you no matter what.
There were multiple occasions when I literally ran into an academic building late at night, in my pajamas, to comfort a friend. If you're there for your friends, they will be there for you. Let's face it: everyone is after the same things (acceptance, love), which means that if you're willing to be there for them, you can talk to them about anything and everything.
4. Crying is acceptable (and expected).
If college has taught me anything, it's that crying makes you stronger. Having the bravery to break down does not make you weak; it makes you human. Often times, you're not the only one who is need of a "crying sesh". And yes, that is a thing.
5. Professors are on your side.
This semester I had a psychology professor who was just amazing. Not because her class was easy, but because she actually cared. She made sure to communicate individually with each of her students and started every class with a 5-10 minute vent session. She would ask "how are you?" and each of us had the chance to share whatever was going on in our lives. She was big on mental health and told us if we ever needed to take a "mental health day", she would be happy to catch us up on what we missed. Needless to say, she was invested in more than just our academic performances, and that made a huge difference in my attitude about professors. Keep in mind that no two are the same.
6. Honesty is more effective than excuses.
If you're skipping class to go to a sports game or a concert, don't tell your professors you're sick. Just tell them that you have plans. Believe me, they'll be more lenient with you because you've told the truth than they would be if you lied. And they'll find out. They always do.
7. Adventure is waiting; take advantage of it.
College is about exploration. It's a time in your life where you can be anything you want. You can go wherever you want. You can say what you want and do what you want. The responsibilities of life suddenly fall into your lap, and while that is overwhelming, it's also incredible. Don't let the overwhelming feelings cloud your ability to do what your heart desires.
8. Opportunities in college may not be available later on.
This can be applied to many aspects of college, but in particular, studying abroad is a must if your school offers it. The chances you'll have to take a vacation to another country or continent will be reduced once you're working full time. Do what you want when the opportunity is there; there is no better time than now.
