Busy women are a breed of their own. They are the one's that have things scheduled from 8 in the morning until 8 at night. They may seem distant or uninterested in relationships but this is completely false. It's not that they don't care, they just have a lot going on. Women with a full schedule require a different kind of relationship, so here is what they want you to know.
1. She’s not ignoring you.
It’s not that she doesn’t want to text you back or return your calls; she’s got a lot going on. She will get back to you as soon as possible, but be patient with her.
2. Her time is valuable, and your time with her is valuable so use it wisely.
She doesn’t have a lot of free time but that is probably obvious. So when you do get the chance at a chunk of her time, use it wisely. She doesn’t want to “figure something out” she wants to go somewhere, do something. Use the time you get with her to make memories she can remember while she’s on the run and missing you.
3. She needs support.
The busy girls need your support, almost more than others. She needs you to keep her sane and remind her that she can do everything she jumped into. You are her rock, if you give her the support she needs, she will give you the world.
4. If she invites you to events, take the opportunity.
You may feel like you don’t know all of her since she is always somewhere else. If she has the chance and invites you to events with her, she wants to show you what she’s involved in. This is her way of bonding with you while she is out and about. She wants to show you part of her life, take this opening.
5. Her schedule is unconventional.
The time she has available is not the norm so don’t be surprised if she asks for a 6 p.m. coffee date. She often times has midnight phone calls too. Bottom line is that you have to be prepared for anything at anytime.
6. It’s not about having time, it’s about making time.
The busy woman in your life may not always have the time for everything, but she will always make time. The important things will permanently be on her calendar. The busy woman is the queen of moving things around to fit how she wants, allowing time for the big things. She will make time for you.
7. Her heart is being pulled in a lot of different directions, but know she is fighting to give you as much as possible.
She has a lot of things on her mind and her heart, but she will give you everything she can. She will fight for your relationship with tenacity, but you need to know how to handle her lifestyle and what she needs from you. You mean a lot to her and her schedule will always include you.
Busy girls deserve just as much love as the next girl. Be patient!
