As Meredith Willson first sang in 1951, it’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas. It’s the time of year where we all flock to shopping malls, watch cheesy Hallmark movies in our spare time, and sing Christmas carols in the shower. It’s easy to lose sight of the things that really matter amid all the chaos of the holidays. As you go about your festivities this year, try to keep these things in mind.
1. Be kind to others— even retail workers
Holiday shopping can be really difficult and frustrating, but please remember not to take your frustration out on retail workers. The lines may be long, the product you want might be out of stock, but in the end, it probably isn’t the cashier’s fault.
2. This is the time of year to spend time with your family
Spend as much time as you can hanging out with your family this December. Family is what the season is all about, and you might not get to see them as much during the rest of the year.
3. Presents aren't the most important thing
Yes, it is the season of giving. However, you shouldn’t feel obligated to spend tons of money buying gifts, and you shouldn’t expect to receive endless amounts of presents. The holiday season is about so much more than gifts.
4. It's okay to go off your diet
It’s normal to indulge in some holiday treats and gain a couple of pounds during the holidays. Don’t feel guilty baking cookies and indulging yourself at holiday potlucks. The things you’re eating aren’t the most important part of the year, and it’s okay to let loose.
5. Take some time to relax
This is the busiest time of year. There’s shopping to do, people to see, and if you’re in college, tests to take and projects to turn in. It’s easy to forget to take some time for yourself during the holidays, but do your best to remember. The holiday season will be much more enjoyable if you spend some time relaxing.
6. Holiday traditions are important
Don’t neglect your traditions, no matter how busy you get. Holiday traditions are some of the most special parts of the season. I know that some of my favorite memories throughout the years stem from my family traditions—Black Friday shopping with one of my best friends in the middle of the night, driving around town looking at Christmas lights with my sister, and watching "Gone With the Wind" with my mom on Christmas Eve, to name a few.
7. It won't last forever
Enjoy every minute of this holiday season, because it will be over before you know it. Remember to appreciate every minute you spend wrapping presents, watching Christmas movies, and hanging out with the family you don't get to see during the rest of the year.
