To say I’m a Drake fan is not exactly the proper term, I'm more of an appreciative follower. I am one of the few people who remember him acting on the hit TV show "Degrassi: The New Generation" and will never forget the earth-shattering moment when "Jimmy" got shot.
Recently, Drake has released many recent hits, such as "Back to Back" (Meek Mill diss), "Jumpman," and, of course, "Hotline Bling."
"Hotline Bling" is an infectious song and now a required party-starter, however, despite the fire beat, the message does not carry such a positive meaning. I understand that artists are able to express themselves, but sometimes this freedom of choice can become a curse rather than a blessing.
- Constantly reminiscing will only make things worse.
- “You used to call me on my cell phone, Late night when you need my love...” Yes, I did call you when I felt lonely, but now I have risen out of that phase and have moved on.
2. Please don’t get emotional because you’re still stalking my social media.
- “Ever since I left the city you—, You got a reputation for yourself now, Everybody knows and I feel left out...” Most likely he never unfollowed you on Instagram, still vicariously lives through your Snapchat, and is trying not to be the first like on Facebook.
3. For all the Aubrey Grahams, women are allowed to decide what they wear.
- '"Cause ever since I left the city, you started wearing less and goin' out more…” Thank you, Mr. Graham, for pointing out another flaw in society’s mindset. The myth of women being able to dress without being criticized only makes us more empowered to wear something to our satisfaction, regardless of your opinion.
4. Taking inventory of the friends I have won’t make you a supporter, but will get you a restraining order.
- “…Hangin' with some girls I've never seen before…” Please inform me if there is a rule that your ex boyfriend is supposed to know ALL past, present, and imaginary friends ever passing through your life. As far as I know, whoever happens to be present when you’re around will be the only people you encounter.
5. Don’t let the haters stop you from doing your thang.
- There isn’t a burden for fulfilling your dreams. “Going places where you don't belong… Running out of pages in your passport…” I’m pretty sure anyone would love to travel to their dream vacation or bed. Don’t worry about what other people think, JUST DO IT!
6. Wondering does not mean I’m actually doing what you believe.
- “These days, all I do is wonder if you bendin' over backwards for someone else, wonder if you're rollin' up a backwoods for someone else…” To remind people on how a breakup works, eventually you are able to get over the person, even if certain things remind you of them. You might meet someone later who makes you happy, and what you do with them is your business. Therefore, if your special friend is incapable of knowing what you do with them, every minute or hour will have to continue to be a problem.
7. Don’t define “being a good girl” for me.
- “Used to always stay at home, be a good girl… Right now, you're someone else.” Society believes to be categorized as a good girl is to stay home with no R-rated movies, a nun's habit as your pajamas, and a lock and key on your private parts. In my opinion, you just have to act with sophistication when in public, but it is up to the person to make that choice.
Anyone believing you’re unable to improve yourself after your “perfect” relationship should recognize that possibly, you were the obstacle to your prosperity. Now, not all relationships end this way, but for the situations like this, you should realize that your ex shouldn’t dictate what occurs in the afterlife. Just let the person be the "best you ever had."
