So I've been single for most of my college career (3 years to be exact). There were always moments that I thought, "Hey a relationship would be nice about now." But I am so glad I stayed single not only until I was ready, but until I found the right person to be with, but I've learned a few things along the way.

1. It's fun to be alone

It doesn't really seem like it but being alone is healthy, especially hearing your parents tell you that you need to get out there and find someone. You get to learn to be with yourself when no one seems to want to be around you. Some people have a hard time being alone because their mind can wander to the darkest places when it's quiet. But finding the time for yourself is refreshing. It's okay to discover new things about yourself.

2. Falling in love with yourself

Loving oneself is probably the most important thing a person must do before getting into a relationship. The truth is that no one can ever love you more than you love yourself. You cannot rely on a person to tell you how amazing you are especially if you don't believe it yourself. You do not need a person to complete you because you already complete yourself.

3. Getting over what your exes have done to you.

It's hard having trust when you have been hurt so many times. But trusting this new person you are in a relationship with is important. Trusting them is hard considering your past but you have to trust this one... because they've done nothing to break that trust you've worked so hard to build.

4. Feeling happy for others

Yes, the single life can be rough but you should never be a downer for those that are. Learn to be happy for those that found a someone to be with. It's not a ploy they've been planning to make you feel miserable.

5. Do not settle

Being single for such a long time, I was lonely a few times. From that, I learned to not be settle for less than I deserve. Settling could could lead to an unhealthy relationship where the feelings aren't mutual and someone ends up getting hurt.

6. A relationship is not the only source of love

I hope this is obvious to most people. Your family, your friends, and your pets love you. Don't think that just because you're single, you're not being loved. Love is everywhere, always. There are people all around that will love and support you through the worst.

7. Realizing you are free

One of my favorite parts of being single has been the realization that I have the freedom to do whatever whenever I wanted to without having to answer to anyone.