Going into my fourth and final year of my undergraduate career, I've learned far too much to fit into one article. I've learned a quite deal about myself and have changed to be a better human being. Some things I've learned have shaped me to look at the world differently. If you look back at the person you were before you entered college and the person you are now, you probably won't recognize yourself. That's because change happens: whether it's for good or bad. As students, school consumes our lives and we fight to be able to find ourselves while also trying to be successful in the future. All that said, I'll do my best to summarize everything I've learned in a listicle.
1. Don't waste your time on people who aren't worth it.
Four years goes by faster that you would ever imagine. Remember to put yourself first and make sure you have healthy relationships with the people around you. Cut poisonous people out; they're not worth it.
2. Keep your head in the books, but also remember you're a human being.
Yes, you should study, but also make room once in a while for something to do for yourself that isn't focused on school.
3. A degree is more than just a piece of paper.
Your grades are important, depending on what you want to do after your undergraduate career, but employers often look for experience as well. Remember that finding internships or jobs are important for developing your skills as an employer in addition to school.
4. Work hard for yourself, not to please others.
You made the decision to go to college so be successful to please yourself. If you're attending to please others remind yourself that what you do is for your success in the future, not theirs.
5. Having loans is often inevitable.
The prices of college education are higher than they should be, so no matter what you may walk out of undergrad owing money. Don't panic about it. You'll be okay.
6. Mental health is so important.
Your well-being is the most important thing you have to take care of. Don't be afraid to talk to people if times are getting rough. There's always an option.
7. Remember: you're allowed to have fun.
College is also about having fun and trying new experiences. There's a whole range of clubs, activities and organizations to join. Making connections and meeting new people is key to being successful in jobs outside of undergraduate.
