7 Things That Won't Affect God's Love For You

7 Things That Won't Affect God's Love For You

But could reflect badly of God's love in you.

We all have those moments that make us lose our cool and question everything we know to be good in this world. I have noticed recently how easily I can get frustrated over some insignificant matter, resulting in my own sudden outburst of anger. In complete honesty, these outbursts commonly include some foul language along with a derogatory remark toward whoever or whatever was the instigator of the matter. I began to take notice of this problem in my own life after first noticing it coming from other people.

There's a certain unattractiveness to a personality that is quick to anger. As a Christian, I have heard the James 1:19 command of "be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry" enough times it seems to go in one ear and out the other. Those three simple concepts, however, can save us from a world of hurt if we just make a point to recognize when we have the most problem with it. It's easy to get mad at everyday frustrations to the point of forgetting how we are supposed to be children of light, showing love to others. When we get mad at the frustrations of life, we can forget that God's love for us is far greater than the impact of these frustrations. So, here are my top 7 frustrations that I realize put a dimmer on the light I should be showing as a Christian.

1. That gossip you heard minutes, hours, days, weeks, or years ago.

Our world is full of gossip. Whether true or not, it can be frustrating to hear rumors going around about yourself or the people you care about. The important thing to remember is God knows us far better than any human. His love for us is not affected by the story going around about you. If you handle rumors with grace and humility, people can see that God's love is greater than that whacked out story about you.

2. A bad hair day

I'll be the first to admit that my hair game is not always on point. Days that begin with uncooperative hair can seem to run a down hill slide all the way through. Don't get me wrong, my appearance is not one of my top concerns in life, but there is something to the phrase "Look good; feel good." People in the secular world today will make their first judgments of us based on appearance. God, however, looks at the heart. God's love for you or me will not be affected by those lousy bad hair days, so let's not let those day's affect how we show God's love.

3. That person driving 20 in a 35

Life as a full time college student/ full time worker is busy; the last thing I need is to be slowed down by some person who's got nothing better to do than drive 20 miles per hour in front of me while I'm already late for work. Anytime this event arises, I can become quite the outraged driver. Road rage is definetly one easy way to turn someone off to the Christ like message we may be trying to send, especially if you've got one of those "Jesus fish" on your bumper. Patience is a virtue. Love is patient. Is getting to where we need to be when we want to be there really that much more important that being a safe and courteous driver?

4. A bad breakup

If you haven't gone through one, I both respect and envy you. If you have, I sympathize with the urge to gossip about, bad mouth, and even get even with whoever the stinker was that broke your heart. Relationships were created by God for good. When those relationships that we think are going to last forever end badly, it can be easy to blame not only the other person, but also God. God sees our every tear that falls and knows the plan He has for us. We are not chained to the doors that close in our lifes. Look to God for the love that is most needed in your life.

5. That bad grade you got from that teacher who is always out to get you

We've all had them, those teachers you just can't seem to please no matter how many hours you've poured into their classwork. It can become so easy to vent out our frustrations toward the way a teacher grades by attacking their personality as a whole. God wants us to respect our authorities, even if we disagree with them. The light that we are called to shine as followers of Christ should not be hidden by malice or disagreement with one teacher. The class will end. We will get through.

6. Terrible Customer Service

You're in a hurry. You're really hungry. You're running low on money for the week. Why not just run through the fast food drive thru and get something cheap? Of course it's times like this when you either have to wait in line a little longer than you had time for, get your food and it's cold and chewy, or end up driving away missing an item in your bag. Bad customer service can turn a good day bad and a bad day terrible. I know how easy it is to turn my focus for the rest of the day to remembering the bad service I had. The better thing to do would be to focus on what good I had accomplished in the day and can accomplish.

7. Terrible Customers

Working in fast food, I have countless stories of customers who have frustrated me to the point of saying things I should not have said. Some people are impossible to please or at least they seem to be. The people I work with know I am a Christian, so every outburst of anger I make reflects badly on my own Christian faith walk. God knows my frustrations and loves me through my anger. Coworkers see my frustration and question my love for others. I would rather reflect well of God's love than voice my frustrations to turn someone away from God.

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It's Time To Thank Your First Roommate

Not the horror story kind of roommate, but the one that was truly awesome.

Nostalgic feelings have recently caused me to reflect back on my freshman year of college. No other year of my life has been filled with more ups and downs, and highs and lows, than freshman year. Throughout all of the madness, one factor remained constant: my roommate. It is time to thank her for everything. These are only a few of the many reasons to do so, and this goes for roommates everywhere.

You have been through all the college "firsts" together.

If you think about it, your roommate was there through all of your first college experiences. The first day of orientation, wishing you luck on the first days of classes, the first night out, etc. That is something that can never be changed. You will always look back and think, "I remember my first day of college with ____."

You were even each other's first real college friend.

You were even each other's first real college friend.

Months before move-in day, you were already planning out what freshman year would be like. Whether you previously knew each other, met on Facebook, or arranged to meet in person before making any decisions, you made your first real college friend during that process.

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The transition from high school to college is not easy, but somehow you made it out on the other side.

It is no secret that transitioning from high school to college is difficult. No matter how excited you were to get away from home, reality hit at some point. Although some people are better at adjusting than others, at the times when you were not, your roommate was there to listen. You helped each other out, and made it through together.

Late night talks were never more real.

Remember the first week when we stayed up talking until 2:00 a.m. every night? Late night talks will never be more real than they were freshman year. There was so much to plan for, figure out, and hope for. Your roommate talked, listened, laughed, and cried right there with you until one of you stopped responding because sleep took over.

You saw each other at your absolute lowest.

It was difficult being away from home. It hurt watching relationships end and losing touch with your hometown friends. It was stressful trying to get in the swing of college level classes. Despite all of the above, your roommate saw, listened, and strengthened you.

...but you also saw each other during your highest highs.

After seeing each other during the lows, seeing each other during the highs was such a great feeling. Getting involved on campus, making new friends, and succeeding in classes are only a few of the many ways you have watched each other grow.

There was so much time to bond before the stresses of college would later take over.

Freshman year was not "easy," but looking back on it, it was more manageable than you thought at the time. College only gets busier the more the years go on, which means less free time. Freshman year you went to lunch, dinner, the gym, class, events, and everything else possible together. You had the chance to be each other's go-to before it got tough.

No matter what, you always bounced back to being inseparable.

Phases of not talking or seeing each other because of business and stress would come and go. Even though you physically grew apart, you did not grow apart as friends. When one of you was in a funk, as soon as it was over, you bounced right back. You and your freshman roommate were inseparable.

The "remember that one time, freshman year..." stories never end.

Looking back on freshman year together is one of my favorite times. There are so many stories you have made, which at the time seemed so small, that bring the biggest laughs today. You will always have those stories to share together.

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The unspoken rule that no matter how far apart you grow, you are always there for each other.

It is sad to look back and realize everything that has changed since your freshman year days. You started college with a clean slate, and all you really had was each other. Even though you went separate ways, there is an unspoken rule that you are still always there for each other.

Your old dorm room is now filled with two freshmen trying to make it through their first year. They will never know all the memories that you made in that room, and how it used to be your home. You can only hope that they will have the relationship you had together to reflect on in the years to come.

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5 Bible Verses That Will Bring You Comfort

Relying on Him will never steer us wrong.


When I take time to reflect on some of the bad things that have happened in my life, and how low I felt during those times, there is always one constant thing that comes to mind for how I dealt with it. Whether we're talking about traumatic experiences that I may not ever talk about, my grandmother (who is also my role model) passing away, or a breakup that left me feeling worthless and lost, what I did during each of those times turned to God.

Everyone has their own set of beliefs and their own forms of comfort, and for me, that is my relationship with God. I am a Jesus loving Christian, and my faith is genuinely what I believe guides me through my life.

There are a number of ways I connect with God, whether that's going to Church, journaling, praying, listening to worship music, or studying His word. Focusing specifically on God's word, when I go through hard times, I try to find a couple of Bible verses that inspire me, bring me comfort, and give me hope.

Here are five Bible verses that, to me at least, help me in different situations and bring me closer to God when I'm feeling or going through...

Grief: Matthew 5:4

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"Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted"

Like I mentioned before, losing my grandma was one of the most painful things I've been through. It's still difficult and still hurts, but around the time it happened, I went through a very rough period of grieving. I actually wrote Matthew 5:4 on my hand every day with a sharpie every single day for a week.

I prayed, prayed, and prayed. I was hoping God would bring me comfort, and He definitely did. I know that no matter what, I can always turn to him for comfort, and that is one of the most reassuring feelings, ever.

Anger: James 1:19-20

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"My dear brothers and sisters, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger, for human anger does not accomplish God's righteousness"

Man oh man, I've felt angry throughout my life more times than I'd like to admit. Sometimes over smaller things, other times over "bigger", more substantial issues.

I'm sure everyone can think of a time they've been angry, probably even recently. What's important to remember about anger, though, is that even though it's not always a bad thing to feel this way, it is possible for uncontrolled anger to be especially harmful. James 1:19-20 is so important to refer to and remember in the times we're overcome with this emotion.

Discouraged: Joshua 1:9

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Haven't I commanded you: be strong and courageous? Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go"

There have been so many instances in which I've felt hopeless and discouraged. Some examples I can think of off the top of my head are when my best friend was battling substance abuse. He was going through such a hard time, he was spiraling (fast, I might add), and he was addicted to some hard drugs.

I would try everything possible to try to get him to get help, and even reach out to those resources myself, on his behalf. I cannot tell you how hopeless and discouraging of a feeling it is to see someone you love go down that path and not want help. But that's just it, you cannot make someone get help if they don't want it.

I turned to God and realized that all I could do was be there for him and remind him his life was valued and that help was out there, should he want it. Joshua 1:9 was, and is a good reminder that God is with us and to stay strong.

Lonely: Hebrews 13: 5-6

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"Keep your life free from the love of money. Be satisfied with what you have, for He himself has said I will never leave you or abandon you. Therefore, we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?"

I once went through a breakup that caused me to feel so lonely. I was very much invested in the relationship and was absolutely blindsided by the split. I felt like I had lost my boyfriend and my best friend with no time to brace myself for it (if that would have even made it easier), and it was a rough time.

There are so many Bible verses that reference loneliness and remind us that we're never alone because God will never leave us, and Hebrews 13: 5-6 is a favorite of mine.

Sadness: Luke 6:21

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"Blessed are you who are now hungry, because you will be filled. Blessed are you who weep now, because you will laugh"

I have been sad on a number of occasions recently, and it's not fun as I'm sure you already know. Luke 6:21 is a wonderful reminder that things will be okay and sad times won't last forever. I think everyone needs to hear that every once in a while, for sure.

God's word has brought me immense amounts of comfort and guidance, and for that, I am so grateful. Hopefully, these verses are able to bring the same to you.

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