6 Things You Should Start Doing In 2017

6 Things You Should Start Doing In 2017

It's time to make a change in your life.

It’s a new year and that means new beginnings. Whether you are joining everyone at the gym and getting yourself in physical shape or focusing on your mental health to get yourself in emotional shape, the year of 2017 should be all about you. I think I speak for everyone when I say that the experiences we had in 2016 helped us learn a lot of lessons that we should carry into the new year. Here are some of the lessons that I have learned this past year.

1. Learn to love yourself.

I definitely learned to love and appreciate myself more in 2016. I had always had low self-esteem, but I think this past year was the year that I really fell in love with myself. It wasn’t always easy, and there were days when I would look into the mirror and see my imperfections a little more than usual, but I always tried to point out the good I saw as well. I live by the quote “Get up, dress up, show up, and never ever give up” and I can’t tell you how many times I recited that to myself in the mirror each morning. Pep talks with yourself can really boost your mood and help you have a better outlook that day, so I encourage you to try it.

2. Find your true friends and hold on tight to them.

This was a tough one for me. I came from a very small high school, that was full of cliques. People would be friends with people one day, and then hate them the next. Once I graduated and moved to my college town, the people who were never meant to stay in my life slowly started to drift away. However, the people that were meant to be in my life very quickly showed up. At first, I hurt over the loss of my friendships, but then I realized how toxic they were and how blessed I was with the friends I have now. I truly believe that you find your true friends while in college who are meant to be in your life forever. In 2017, find out who truly cares for you and your well being and do not let them go. If they do not motivate you, build you up, and celebrate your achievements, then walk away.

3. Let go of anyone who is causing you pain.

This kind of goes with number 2, but if you have a significant other who is also very toxic, please walk away. I went through a very bad breakup in 2016, and one of my hardest lessons was learning to let go. If the special person in your life is not giving you the same effort that you are back, then tell them goodbye. You do not need anyone in your life who is not going to appreciate what they have. It will hurt, but in the end, you’ll be glad you left when you did.

4. Listen to your mother.

This was another big lesson that I learned. The saying, “mother knows best” is so incredibly true. Your mom can pick out a fake friend or a bad relationship way before you do. Moms know us better than we think, and when we take the time to stop and actually listen to what they have to say, we can realize that they’re actually right.

5. Listen to your friends.

Just like your mom, your friends also know what is best for you. I had a toxic person come into my life towards the end of 2016, and all my friends warned me about him. However, I didn’t listen because I did not see what they saw. Now, looking back, I wish I would have paid attention to what they said because it would have saved me a lot of heartbreak. Your friends know you just as well as you know them, and they know who is best for you when you are looking for a significant other. If they tell you that something just isn’t right about the boy you introduced them to, do not ignore it. Pay attention, and you just might see that they are right.

6. Push yourself outside of your comfort zone.

You’d be amazed at what you can achieve when you step outside of your comfort zone and take chances. When I came to college, I promised myself that I’d do just that and since then, I have been given some wonderful opportunities and met some amazing people. The biggest fear people face is failing, however, when you push that thought aside and think of the many possibilities that could happen if you do succeed, you can accomplish so much. If you fail? Take it as a learning experience. Anything negative can be turned into a very positive situation, it’s just all about how you handle it.

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I'd Rather Be Single Than Settle – Here Is Why Being Picky Is Okay

They're on their best behavior when you're dating.

Dating nowadays described in one word: annoying.

What's even more annoying? when people tell you that you're being too "picky" when it comes to dating. Yes, from an outside perspective sometimes that's exactly what it looks like; however, when looking at it from my perspective it all makes sense.

I've heard it all:

"He was cute, why didn't you like him?"

"You didn't even give him a chance!"

"You pay too much attention to the little things!"

What people don't understand is that it's OKAY to be picky when it comes to guys. For some reason, girls in college freak out and think they're supposed to have a boyfriend by now, be engaged by the time they graduate, etc. It's all a little ridiculous.

However, I refuse to put myself on a time table such as this due to the fact that these girls who feel this way are left with no choice but to overlook the things in guys that they shouldn't be overlooking, they're settling and this is something that I refuse to do.

So this leaves the big question: What am I waiting for?

Well, I'm waiting for a guy who...

1. Wants to know my friends.

Blessed doesn't even begin to describe how lucky I am to have the friends that I do.

I want a guy who can hang out with my friends. If a guy makes an effort to impress your friends then that says a lot about him and how he feels about you. This not only shows that he cares about you but he cares about the people in your life as well.

Someone should be happy to see you happy and your friends contribute to that happiness, therefore, they should be nothing more than supportive and caring towards you and your friendships.

2. Actually, cares to get to know me.

Although this is a very broad statement, this is the most important one. A guy should want to know all about you. He should want to know your favorite movie, favorite ice cream flavor, favorite Netflix series, etc. Often, (the guys I get stuck on dates with) love to talk about themselves: they would rather tell you about what workout they did yesterday, what their job is, and what they like to do rather than get to know you.

This is something easy to spot on the first date, so although they may be "cute," you should probably drop them if you leave your date and can recite everything about their life since the day they were born, yet they didn't catch what your last name was.

3. How they talk about other women.

It does not matter who they're talking about, if they call their ex-girlfriend crazy we all know she probably isn't and if she is it's probably their fault.

If they talk bad about their mom, let's be honest, if they're disrespecting their mother they're not going to respect you either. If they mention a girl's physical appearances when describing them. For example, "yeah, I think our waitress is that blonde chick with the big boobs"

Well if that doesn't hint they're a complete f* boy then I don't know what else to tell you. And most importantly calling other women "bitches" that's just disrespectful.

Needless to say, if his conversations are similar to ones you'd hear in a frat house, ditch him.

4. Phone etiquette.

If he can't put his phone down long enough to take you to dinner then he doesn't deserve for you to be sitting across from him.

If a guy is serious about you he's going to give you his undivided attention and he's going to do whatever it takes to impress you and checking Snapchat on a date is not impressive. Also, notice if his phone is facedown, then there's most likely a reason for it.

He doesn't trust who or what could pop up on there and he clearly doesn't want you seeing. Although I'm not particularly interested in what's popping up on their phones, putting them face down says more about the guy than you think it does.

To reiterate, it's okay to be picky ladies, you're young, there's no rush.

Remember these tips next time you're on a date or seeing someone, and keep in mind: they're on their best behavior when you're dating. Then ask yourself, what will they be like when they're comfortable? Years down the road? Is this what I really want? If you ask yourself these questions you might be down the same road I have stumbled upon, being too picky.. and that's better than settling.

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Forget The Beach, Do These Things Instead

These 25 thing won't break your bank this summer.


When you think of summertime you think of the beach. Going to the beach usually involves a lot of driving and necessary spending. These 25 activities are perfect for summer and will not break your bank.

1. Take A Walk.


As simple as it sounds, take a walk. Walk around your town or neighborhood; you'll be amazed at all of the little things you normally miss whenever you're driving by.

2. Have A Picnic.

Nothing says summer like a picnic. It can be at your local park or even in your backyard; just don't forget the watermelon!

3. Roast s'mores!


Everyone loves a good s'more, and the nostalgic smell of the campfire.

4. Make your own ice cream.

Ice cream is the perfect sweet treat to cool down on the hot summer day, but it can also break your budget. Homemade ice cream is fun, delicious, and will not hurt your wallet.

Here is a sweet recipe!

5. Blow bubbles.


I mean come on, who doesn't love blowing bubbles.

6. Watch the clouds


Whenever you're having a stressful or sad day grab a blanket and head outside and watch the clouds blow by. Make a game out of how many different shapes you can identify.

7. Pick some berries.


Find a local strawberry or blueberry field that allows customers to pick their own berries, it is a lot more fun than it sounds trust me.

8. Go to a minor league baseball game.

Hot dogs, ice cream, and fun memories are all to be had at a local baseball game.

9. Go to a parade.

Your town or a neighboring town most likely has a holiday parade on Memorial Day, 4th of July, or labor day. Go to these parades, you'll get to see all of the local youth organizations, support your community, and maybe even get some candy thrown your way.

10. Watch the fireworks.

Really watch the fireworks, don't try to take pictures that will come out blurry. Live in the moment.

11. Watch the sunrise

It may involve an earlier bedtime the night before, but it will be worth it.

12. Watch the sunset.

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13. Make a slip & slide


Tarp+water+soap=endless fun

14. Paint with bubbles.


This takes blowing bubbles to a whole new level. Add your favorite colors of food coloring to your bubbles grab a piece of paper and blow onto the paper; you'll come away with a masterpiece.

15. Make a bird feeder.

Give back to mother nature by building a bird feeder.

16. Catch lightning bugs.



17. Build a fort.


Let's be real, everybody loves a good fort.

18. Tye-Dye something.

Shirt, socks, blankets, it doesn't matter what it is as long as you have fun.

19. Read.


Go to a local bookstore, run your fingers along the spines of all the books and pick the one that calls to you.

20. Color with chalk.


Unleash your inner artist on your driveway and/or sidewalk.

21. Pick up litter.

Go outside and help clean mother earth, it will not only benefit you but everybody around you as well.

22. Have an absolutely epic water gun battle.

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Grab your friend, enemy, kid, neighbor, parents, whoever you can find and challenge them to a water gun battle.

23. Go camping.

Get back into nature in your backyard, or at a free campsite.

24. Volunteer.


Many of us have extra time in the summer so volunteer your time in your community!

(Dog walking at the local animal shelter is always a great choice)

25. Find joy.


Find what makes you happy, and never stop doing it.

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