High school seniors are given every imaginable perspective about college, from movies and TV shows, to older (and clearly wiser) siblings. Amongst these perspectives, some lies are woven in, allowing high school seniors to view college in a totally false light. Here are some of the biggest lies that high school seniors are told about college.
1. College is just one big party.
Sure, if you hang out with the right crowd, you're bound to find a few individuals that enjoy their fair share of parties. But, generally speaking, everyone (yes, that includes you too) is at college to learn, mature, and graduate on time. With the exception of the crazy party schools like Arizona State University, and Notre Dame, most "parties" are just a group of friends relaxing.
2. College is so much more challenging than high school.
Look, this obviously varies from campus to campus, but generally speaking, if you were smart enough to get accepted, you'll be smart enough to stay in. The only real way that most students wind up with a GPA nearing sub-zero is if they severely lack discipline and time management. If you are in any way responsible and accountable, you won't give a second thought to that pesky GPA.
3. Dorm life is terrible.
As Dwight would say, "false." Dorm life is completely what you make it. I was lucky enough to land two roommates that are respectful and responsible, but everyone has small faults. Sure you'll get annoyed, and you'll be annoying, but if you can just remember that you are all in this together, life will be so much more peaceful. No, this by no means indicates that you have to be best friends, in fact you probably won't be, just be respectful and kind, as you would have done to you.
4. You'll never have privacy again.
Well, actually, this is pretty close to true. Although you may not have your own bedroom in college, or your own apartment, there are still lots of places to get away from the noise and stress of life. The library at your university could be your best friend in a time of need. The noise level is regulated, the smell of books will put your mind at ease. Side note: the library is typically one of the latest places open on campus.
5. Working while you're in school is nearly impossible.
This would really depend on your own study habits, but generally speaking, holding down a part time job with 10-20 hours per week isn't that challenging. In fact, in my own experience as a student worker, I've found myself wishing I could work more than 20 hours a week. Having a small part time job can keep you busy, and opens the door for making new friends. Oh, and it might help pay off that seven figure student loan debt.
6. You'll miss home.
I'm not trying to say you won't miss home, but you shouldn't. I love my parents with all my heart; I'm thankful for everything my parents have done for me, and am proud of the way I was raised. But, if I said I missed home, I'd be lying. College has enabled me to become independent and discover myself. I have grown and matured more in my first year of college than nearly all of my life at home. As nice as it is to visit the "old folks" now and then, coming back to campus is more than just a thirty minute drive - it's a migration back to my own life.
