6 Things Your Best Friend Has Taught You

6 Things Your Best Friend Has Taught You

2. The ones you trust the most can hurt you the most.
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Best friends, we've all had one. They're your ride or die, your platonic soulmate, your person. Whether you've had the same one your whole life or rotate through, there is a lot that having a best friend can teach you.

1. You're a badass.

Your best friend is always there to pick you up when you're down. They're the first person to remind you how amazing you are whenever you have doubts. Whether you failed a test or went through a bad break-up a real best friend will be right by your side to remind you of your worth. That's why they're best friends with you!

2. The ones you trust the most can hurt you the most.

Friendships end for a variety of reasons. Sometimes it's because your so-called best friend did something you just can't forgive. Unfortunately, it happens. This one's going to sting, but just like a romantic relationship, you don't deserve to spend time with someone you can't trust with your life. Someone else, who really is as great as you are, will come along.

3. A true best friend has your back, no matter what.

Your best friend would wake up at any hour when you need them. They always find time for you when you need it. No problem is too big or too small for your best friend to help with. They will always be behind you, cheering you on or standing right next to you throwing punches.

4. Any time can be a good time with your best friend.

Whether you're at a party surrounded by hundreds or just staying in watching Netflix, being with your best friend is enough to make it a good night. You can make a good time out of anything because just being together is better than being alone. It doesn't matter what you're doing, as long as you're doing it together.

5. Alone time is necessary.

As great as being around your best friend is, too much of a good thing is a bad thing. But don't worry, they'll totally understand if you need a breather. That's why you're best friends, they respect your privacy and your wishes. They'll be ready to go again for whatever, whenever you're ready.

6. The value of being a good friend.

Your best friend is probably a great person, and everything that they give to you has to be reciprocated. If they can be there for you at all hours, that type of love will only stick around if you can give it right back. True friendship is more than just having a personal cheerleader, but a relationship that only works when both people give everything they can. For this person, you wouldn't have it any other way.

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To The Dad Who Didn't Want Me, It's Mutual Now

Thank you for leaving me because I am happy.
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Thank you, for leaving me.

Thank you, for leaving me when I was little.

Thank you, for not putting me through the pain of watching you leave.

Thank you, for leaving me with the best mother a daughter could ask for.

I no longer resent you. I no longer feel anger towards you. I wondered for so long who I was. I thought that because I didn't know half of my blood that I was somehow missing something. I thought that who you were defined me. I was wrong. I am my own person. I am strong and capable and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

In my most vulnerable of times, I struggled with the fact that you didn't want me. You could have watched me grow into the person that I have become, but you didn't. You had a choice to be in my life. I thought that the fact that my own father didn't want me spoke to my own worth. I was wrong. I am so worthy. I am deserving, and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

You have missed so much. From my first dance to my first day of college, and you'll continue to miss everything. You won't see me graduate, you won't walk me down the aisle, and you won't get to see me follow my dreams. You'll never get that back, but I don't care anymore. What I have been through, and the struggles that I have faced have brought me to where I am today, and I can't complain. I go to a beautiful school, I have the best of friends, I have an amazing family, and that's all I really need.

Whoever you are, I hope you read this. I hope you understand that you have missed out on one of the best opportunities in your life. I could've been your daughter. I could have been your little girl. Now I am neither, nor will I ever be.

So thank you for leaving me because I am happy. I understand my self-worth, and I understand that you don't define me. You have made me stronger. You have helped make me who I am without even knowing it.

So, thank you for leaving me.

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An Open Letter To The Friend Who Continues To Save My Life

No one knows me like you do.

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From the day we became friends, we have always had nothing but support for one another. Although we have only really been friends for about seven years now, I feel as if you have always been a part of my life. You know me just as well as you know yourself, and I understand you in the same way I understand my own thoughts and feelings.

You have never made me feel pressured, insecure, or unappreciated. The mutual respect we have for one another is unmatched. We can talk to each other about anything; from some of the most trivial topics to entire life philosophies. We have grown and matured together, and I couldn't be more proud of the person you are today.

We don't always agree on everything, and I always appreciate your fresh point of view, but I have never felt more in sync with another person than I do with you. We share the same birth month, the same age, the same home town, the same anxieties, and many of the same attitudes and values.

I feel as if you know exactly when I want to be alone and when I need company. Since we are both introverted, we understand that the other person needs time to recharge. And when I'm sitting alone with nothing to do, I always get a text from you asking to hang out.

In some of my loneliest, most vulnerable moments, you have been there. When I question how many true friends I really have, you are always sure to make your love for me known.

Through high school, and now college, we have experienced so many life-changing events together. Some that have taught us extremely valuable lessons, and others that have shown us incredible pain and how to grow from our lowest moments.

I want to thank you for showing me what life-long friendship looks like. Thank you for always understanding me and never putting too much pressure on me. I see an incredible future for both of us no matter where each of our lives takes us.

We will always share a unique connection that cannot be separated by any distance. But, for now, I'm glad you're only one text or phone call away.

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