6 Things Your Best Friend Has Taught You

6 Things Your Best Friend Has Taught You

2. The ones you trust the most can hurt you the most.
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Best friends, we've all had one. They're your ride or die, your platonic soulmate, your person. Whether you've had the same one your whole life or rotate through, there is a lot that having a best friend can teach you.

1. You're a badass.

Your best friend is always there to pick you up when you're down. They're the first person to remind you how amazing you are whenever you have doubts. Whether you failed a test or went through a bad break-up a real best friend will be right by your side to remind you of your worth. That's why they're best friends with you!

2. The ones you trust the most can hurt you the most.

Friendships end for a variety of reasons. Sometimes it's because your so-called best friend did something you just can't forgive. Unfortunately, it happens. This one's going to sting, but just like a romantic relationship, you don't deserve to spend time with someone you can't trust with your life. Someone else, who really is as great as you are, will come along.

3. A true best friend has your back, no matter what.

Your best friend would wake up at any hour when you need them. They always find time for you when you need it. No problem is too big or too small for your best friend to help with. They will always be behind you, cheering you on or standing right next to you throwing punches.

4. Any time can be a good time with your best friend.

Whether you're at a party surrounded by hundreds or just staying in watching Netflix, being with your best friend is enough to make it a good night. You can make a good time out of anything because just being together is better than being alone. It doesn't matter what you're doing, as long as you're doing it together.

5. Alone time is necessary.

As great as being around your best friend is, too much of a good thing is a bad thing. But don't worry, they'll totally understand if you need a breather. That's why you're best friends, they respect your privacy and your wishes. They'll be ready to go again for whatever, whenever you're ready.

6. The value of being a good friend.

Your best friend is probably a great person, and everything that they give to you has to be reciprocated. If they can be there for you at all hours, that type of love will only stick around if you can give it right back. True friendship is more than just having a personal cheerleader, but a relationship that only works when both people give everything they can. For this person, you wouldn't have it any other way.

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18 Things That Happen When You Get A Good Roommate

Not every roommate story is a bad one.
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Whenever you hear about roommate stories, they're almost never good, and they usually scare you into never wanting a roommate. "Did you hear her roommate steals her clothes?" "Her roommate doesn't shower!" "Wow, her roommate doesn't talk at all, and doesn't do laundry." From what I hear, there are more bad stories than good. That is why I consider myself lucky, because my roommate is nothing like one of those bad stories. When life hands you a good roommate after talking to about 40 girls through Facebook, a few things happen.

1. You always have someone to talk to.

2. You know each other's schedules, and whenever you both have a break is an exciting time.

3. You'll never have to dance alone.


4. You always have someone to do something with, even if it's just walking down the hall.

5. You both look out for each other, because this is your first time without your parents.

6. You always have a shoulder to lean on when things get tough.

7. Borrowing each other's things is a daily thing.

8. You TRY to help with each other's homework and assignments.

9. They're encouraging when it comes to boys. (Unless they're a f*ckboy.)

10. They're your biggest support system and your personal cheerleader.

11. They never forget to wish you luck on a big exam.

12. They accept how gross you are in the morning and not so pleasant sometimes.

13. You both know each other's favorite and least favorite things.

14. Leaving each other notes saying goodbye before class if you don't see them is normal.

15. Saying goodbye for breaks is upsetting.

16. Not seeing them all day is upsetting.

17. You have more pictures together than any of your other friends.

18. You found a best friend for life.

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22 Signs The Girls You've Met In College Will Be Part Of Your Girl Gang For Life

To the lovely ladies I've met in college that I can never imagine my life without again

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Let me just be the first to say, I honestly don't know how I survived the majority of my life without you guys.

Attending college out of state in a completely new area and not knowing a single soul, I was petrified of the idea of starting over. I had a great group of friends at home, and I wasn't ready to begin this new chapter of my life. Hearing my parents and family friends talk about the people they met in college only stressed me out even more because, what if I didn't meet "my people?"

Luckily, that's when you guys came along, and my life was changed forever.

1. You genuinely care about each other's happiness.

2. Talking 24/7 is absolutely necessary.  You basically have a 2nd boyfriend.

3. You know absolutely everything and more about each other...even the details that may be TMI.

4. Regardless of how dramatic it is, you can rely on one another for advice on absolutely anything.

5. You can't go more than 2 days without seeing one another...it's just not allowed. It feels like your 2nd boyfriend has mysteriously gone missing.

6. And when you go out together for a girls night, all hell breaks loose.

7. The best way to solve your problems is with each other, and a full glass of wine.

8. Somehow you lasted 18 years without them in your life, and you wonder every day how that was possible.

A friend like you is something I've always prayed to find, and I am so thankful I did.

9. You willingly shower each other with compliments like it is your job.

10. They give you that reality check every here and there when you are being more than overdramatic.

11. When something amazing happens, you immediately go to one another to celebrate.

12. They're always your support system no matter what.

13. They'll most likely be in your bridal party because they're the only people who will keep you mentally sane.

I wouldn't want anyone else beside me on my special day.

14. Staying mad at each other for long is just not even slightly possible.

15. You probably hate the same people, for the same reasons.

To the boy who screwed over your best friend, the girl who's secretly in love with your boyfriend, and the professor who gave you a bad grade, me and my best friend most likely talk about you!

16. No one will ever mistreat them, because they would have to go through you first.

17. You're right beside them when something intense is about to go down.

Neither of you will ever go through drama alone anymore, you've always got a go-to girl.

18. They're always loyal to you and your friendship, and fortunately, they're stuck with you forever.

19. Some of your best memories are with each other.

20. They always feel like sunshine when they're around.

The people who feel like the color yellow are the type of people you always want to keep in your life.

21. You will never allow a boy to make each other cry.

22. You remind them daily how much their friendship means to you.

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