5 Ways Dating In College is Hard
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5 Ways Dating In College is Hard

Dating in college is so hard as a girl trying to conquer the dating scene these are just some things I have found to be difficult when dating during your college years.

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5 Ways Dating In College is Hard

College is a time of living your best life, but dating in college can be very hard at times.

Ghosting

There is nothing worse then waking up in one day to being left on read. When you snapchat/text them they still leave you on read until you never hear from them again. It can leave someone wondering what exactly went wrong, they can feel confused because as far as you knew everything was ok... until it wasn't. It does not take much to tell someone that it is not working out, not to mention it will make the person feel better to know what happened instead of constantly wondering.

sex is expected 

In my experience if a guy takes you on a date sex is expected. It is like the boys will actually be mad at you for not putting out on the first date.

You cannot say what you feel in the fear of "being crazy"

There has been so many times boys have done me wrong, and instead of telling them exactly how I feel I just suffer in silence. Girls get the label of being crazy just because they explain how they feel, and I think that is a shame.

There is never a label to anything

You can spend everyday with a boy for the past couple of weeks, spend the night with him, and text him constantly. However, the minute someone brings up the idea of defining the relationship things get weird and awkward.

You have to date boys who simply put are not it

When you are casually dating you can get discouraged quickly, you have to go through a lot of duds before you find a potential boyfriend.

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