Throughout my first year of college I have learned some major life lessons from people who I thought were my friends.
I had heard so many stories of people meeting their best friends in the first year of college, for me I hoped I was one of those people. Yet as time went on in the first semester we started to see the true colors of each other and had to forget the friendship ever existed. Finally though my first year went by and I finished, but this year I started off the same way; fake friends I thought I knew for years. Although I have lost some major people in my life I have learned some lessons that each of the lost friends have taught me.
1. It doesn't matter how long you've known them
People are so unpredictable. Tip I've learned is have at least one friend that has been something major with you; they're less likely to leave you as quickly
2. They will act like your "BESTIES" before you enemies
Always have someone to hear you vent about them that you know will never get back to the "fake" friends. AKA mom, dad,aunt,uncle,grandma,grandpa
3. You WILL second guess yourself for leaving them behind, but DONT
Never let all the negative energy keep tearing you down time after time. Leave the past behind you.
4. They will make you out to be the bad guy.
On social media, to common friends, hometown gossips; but ignore all the talk. Because all that matters is the people left standing in your corner
5. It will take awhile for you to get your life back to normal
Be Patience, let life flow the way its gonna and jump on for the ride, cause you never know where it will take you.
After you have left those unbelievably fake people, you will never feel better. Soon you will notice new and exciting people that you think would be good for you, and your right they are and will be; just let time do it's thing first.
