Venturing into a new world is terrifying; you have no idea what to expect or what sort of people, problems or pressures you'll face. I think the thing I worried about most was leaving my family and friends to surround myself with a completely new group of people. However, I feel like the best way to adapt is to hit the ground running at full speed. I began to speak to people in my hall, on the street, and during classes. The first week at Ohio University taught me not only a lot about the community I was joining but about myself, too.
1. It’s OK to be homesick.
Everyone is experiencing the same thing: venturing out in the world without the people who were there from the start. Nobody will judge you for excusing yourself for calling mom to tell her about the quiz you bombed or FaceTiming grandma and grandpa to tell them about all the clubs you are joining. Until you get in the swing of things, it’s going to be difficult and that’s OK.
2. Get involved.
Down time is not only more means to think about everyone back home, but also to feel the need to fill your time with trouble. Ohio University offers some sort of club or organization for nearly every passion or interest you could think of. I recommend joining at least one thing you’re passionate about, and then one thing that coincides with your major. It’s also a great way to meet people that are similar to you and enjoy the same things. Make your time here valuable; future employers are going to look to see what you were involved in.
3. Get over being shy.
A lot of people moved away without anyone from their hometown coming with them. I know it’s intimidating to talk to someone you’ve never met before, but making a new friend can be as simple as extending your hand and asking for their name. Nothing is going to come from hiding in your dorm. Join clubs, go to sporting events, talk to people at parties – meeting people from all sorts of different backgrounds is one of the best parts about college.
4. School is your job.
I was able to get away with doing the least amount of work possible and still get good grades during high school. Here, I’m looking at spending two to three hours of homework, taking notes or studying per week per class. That makes up the hours of a full-time job. It’s important to take the advice your teachers offer – they’re not just lecturing, they are giving you the best ways possible to pass their class. Also, attendance is one of the major keys to success. Think about how you’re going to feel during that 8 a.m. if you decide to hit the bars the night before.
5. Enjoy the journey!
A lot of people do not get to experience college, whether it’s staying on campus or commuting. You’re presented with so many opportunities to expand your knowledge and learn about the world and your place in it. You would not be here if you were not meant to be. The bad days will come, but remember your ultimate goals and never lose sight of where you see yourself in five, six or 10 years.