5 Things High School Band Taught Us Band Kids

5 Things High School Band Taught Us Band Kids

Band is a experience like no other but you learn more than just how to play music.

Everyone has their go-to activity where they end up spending most of their time. For me, and about 100 other kids in my school, the activity was band. From spending hours in the heat during band camp to freezing in the bleachers during football games, every day was a new experience and new adventure. Thinking back to these memories I begin to learn what being in band really teaches you, outside of just music. Here are 5 things that bands kids learn during high school band.

1. How to Loosen Up

If you are an anxious, introverted character like myself being in band is the best way to learn how to open up and let go of some worries. It may be because band offers a new outlet to express yourself or maybe it's just because you'll make some friends who are incredibly outgoing and wonderful.

2. Be More Accepting of Quirks (Yours and Others)

Being in band, especially if you went to a larger school, opens up doors to meeting more and more people each year. These other kids will become your family and you will love them for everything they are, including all their little quirks.

3. Become a Leader

Whether you play 1st part or 4th part, being in band will give you leadership skills. You may notice that these skills begin to kick in during high school itself but they will stick with you for years to come. I mean who else is supposed to whip your section into shape? Or provide a helping hand when they need help figuring something out?

4. Time Management

You have class until 2, rehearsal at 2:15, work at 5, and 3 assignments and a paper due tomorrow but it's all under control. At least that is what you'll tell yourself after having a mild breakdown. Although, all this hectic scheduling isn't always a bad thing. You will start figuring out a system that will work best for you and manage to still have time for social interaction and a reasonable amount of sleep at the end of the day.

5. How to Win With Pride and Lose With a Smile

At the end of the day no matter a win or lose you are creating some of your most cherished memories with people that were strangers not too long ago. When you here your school's name over the loudspeaker at a competition you can feel your heart swell to the size of a balloon and nothing will really matter for awhile except for the fact that you make go deaf from the screaming from your bandmates. The hours of rehearsal and running the same sections over and over have paid off and you get to share this moment with a group of people who have gone through it all right next to you. It is an indescribable feeling. Except sometimes you don't win. Of course, it is only understandable that everyone may be a little bummed but that doesn't stop anyone from jamming out on the bus and going out to Mcdonald's afterward, even if it is nearly 1 in the morning. No one can guarantee a win or a loss but that doesn't change that fact that this is something you love and can't wait for the next time you pick up your instrument or step onto a marching field.

Cover Image Credit: Triad High School Band

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This is it early 2000's babies, a compilation finally made for you. This list is loaded with things that will make you swoon with nostalgia.

1. Not being accepted by the late 90's kids.


Contrary to what one may think, late 90's and early 00's kids had the same childhood, but whenever a 00's kid says they remember something on an "only 90's kids will understand" post they are ridiculed.

2. Fortune tellers.


Every day in elementary school you would whip one of these bad boys out of your desk, and proceed to tell all of your classmates what lifestyle they were going to live and who they were going to marry.



You could never read this book past 8 o'clock at night out of fear that your beloved pet rabbit would come after you.

4. Silly bands.


You vividly remember begging your parents to buy you $10 worth of cheap rubber bands that vaguely resembles the shape of an everyday object.

5. Parachutes.


The joy and excitement that washed over you whenever you saw the gym teacher pull out the huge rainbow parachute. The adrenaline that pumped through your veins whenever your gym teacher tells you the pull the chute under you and sit to make a huge "fort".

6. Putty Erasers


You always bought one whenever there was a school store.

7. iPod shuffle.


The smallest, least technological iPpd apple has made, made you the coolest kid at the bus stop.

8. "Education Connection"

You knew EVERY wood to the "Education Connection" commercials. Every. Single.Word.

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The "Naked Brothers Band" had a short run on Nickelodeon and wrote some absolute bangers including, "Crazy Car' and "I Don't Wanna Go To School"

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This one video game caused so many sibling, friend, and parent rivalries. This is also where you learned all of your super sick dance moves.

11. Tamagotchi


Going to school with fear of your Tamagotchi dying while you were away was your biggest worry.

12. Gym Scooters


You, or somebody you know most likely broke or jammed their finger on one of these bad boys, but it was worth it.

13. Scholastic book fairs


Begging your parents for money to buy a new book, and then actually spending it on pens, pencils, erasers, and posters.



Who knew that putting yogurt in a plastic tube made it taste so much better?

15. Slap Bracelets


Your school probably banned these for being "too dangerous".

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