College is an important time where you grow and figure out what to do for your career. Academics and classes are vital for your future, but there are also some things you need to make sure you don’t miss out on in these four years. You will most remember the experiences you have and the friends you make, so here are the five biggest aspects of college to keep in mind.
1. A trip abroad.
Not every student has room in their schedule or extra money to study abroad, but you should try to make an effort to at least visit another country. Maybe you could join a friend for a week when they study abroad, or if you live in northern Vermont like me you could just hop over the border and visit Montreal. Travel and experience the world before you settle down and commit to a house or job.
2. Choose an experience over studying for once.
I’m not saying go out and party the night before every test, but schoolwork shouldn’t have to come first every single time. It’s important to be responsible and study for that huge midterm coming up, but if your favorite band is in town and it’s your only chance to see them, give yourself a break. I chose not to go see Dave Chapelle when he came to our local theater because I had a biology test the next day. Guess what? I did poorly on that test anyway and missed out on one of my favorite comedians. You won’t remember that test, but you will remember that concert, spontaneous trip, or other experience with your friends.
3. Take a class just because it interests you.
Trying to fit all the requirements into your schedule is stressful, but you can always find an opening to squeeze in a class you aren’t required to take. The range of courses available to you is unbelievable, and it’s sad we don’t have the chance to take more advantage of it. I won’t be able to take a class outside of my requirements until senior year, but when I get the chance I may take “History of Rock and Roll” or join a yoga class.
4. Try out for something you’ve never done before.
Stepping outside your comfort zone is tough, but purposefully putting yourself at a disadvantage can help boost your confidence. I went to a session for my school’s Swing and Salsa Society, which I have never even attempted before. It was really fun and I was able to meet a lot of new people. Although I never went to another session, I was proud of myself for following through with it.
5. Graduate with no regrets.
As you walk onstage to accept your diploma, you should be proud of all you have accomplished in the last four years. This part of your life has ended, so there is no sense in regretting any decisions you have made. Those mistakes have made you stronger, so don’t worry about that internship you wish you had gotten or that cute person you should have talked to. Focus on this huge feat you have completed and get ready for a whole new adventure of taking on the real world.
Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself to make this the best four years of your life. Wouldn't it be sad if your life peaked before you hit 30? There is so much more to look forward to, so enjoy your college years. Work hard, and know when to play hard.
