Love can not be define but can be felt. Love makes you so crazy things that can not be explained. Love is beautiful but so painful at times. Love creates turmoil inside your brain and heart to only make you want it more. Everyone needs love, and everyone seeks for love in some time of their life. The best feeling of accomplishment is when you actually find that person. When you think of the reasons as to why this stranger has become such a big part of your life, you first do not know what to say but then hundreds of reasons flood through your mind and heart; eventually, you can not keep from feeling the excitement that this person has given you.
Over time this person is not just a boyfriend anymore to you, but he matters in your life. You love him. You need him. He becomes the one. But how do you know for sure?
Flirtation
It is typical that most couples reach a point after getting together and not flirt as much as when they first met and tried to impress each other. There is nothing wrong with that because every relationship is successful in its own way. For me, I know he is the one when he can still make me blush after a year being together. I love the fact that sometimes I can catch us flirting with each other. It just shows that the chemistry is still there.
Distance
You are not clingy or dependent, but being away from him, you feel as if there is someone missing. You miss him and wish to be by his side, to hear his laugh, to feel his touch, and just be in his presence.
Eyes
It is frequently mentioned that the eyes are the window to the soul. When you look into his eyes, it feels as if you both can hear and feel exactly what he is thinking. Not only that the eyes play such an important dynamic in your relationship. When you talk to each other, when he looks at you directly, it shows that he is listening. His eyes also tell you his mood, and if he is feeling down, it is a natural instinct for you to want to cheer him up. The best part about the eyes is when you go out together, but your eyes stay onto each other, even if you are across the room from one another.
Future
Some people might say that they are too young or too busy to think of settling down, and that is true, but in my opinion, if you find the right person, you will be willing to make time and commitment just to have them by your side. At a point when you and him begin to plan things out together ahead of time, it shows that you are serious and that you want to have him in your future. It can be something small such as going to a place you both have not gone to before, or to something big, such as building a family together. Someone once told me that if you have been with a person for six months or more, and you still do not see them as something more then they might not be the right one.
Love
You love him, and you can not express it enough. You want to show the world the treasure that you have found. You want to tell him how much you love him, and sometimes, there is this intense feeling that you wish he can feel exactly how you feel just to prove the strength of your love for him.
But all five of these do not mean anything without the best part of the cake, and that is his love for you in return. Distance, eyes, future, love will not occur if he is not there to give back to you just as much devotion as you have given him. And you know he is the one when he also feels just the same way as you do. Relationships are difficult, but when it is with the right person, it will be more natural, and it will feel easier.
