All I want for Christmas is my two front teeth so I can whistle correctly. Not really, though this was a real wish at one point in my life (though I still can’t whistle).
What do I really want for Christmas? Time. What do I want to give for Christmas? Time.
Here’s why:
1. Experiences last.
Memories are greater than things. Time itself may be fleeting, but the invaluable adventures will forever shape the moments that make life sweet, whether it’s a camping trip or just a conversation.
2. Time is sacrificial.
Time communicates more than willingness to spend money. It shows that someone will give up other to-do lists, obligations, or meetings just to be with you.
3. To celebrate each other’s joys.
I want to be there in the small victories and in the big victories of life, and want you to be there too. The big moments lie in the little moments, where you can experience joy surpassing any feeling of temporary happiness.
4. Notice each other’s hurts.
The holidays are cheerful, but can be reminders of the trails of a tough past year. The “being there” principle speak volumes.
5. To celebrate the most wonderful time of the year.
The holidays are better together, and after all, things are just things.
Presence trumps presents, always.
