People always comment on my old soul. For a while this comment bothered me. People weren't saying I reminded them of a mature high schooler because my elementary school self would have reveled in the joy of that compliment. Instead they were saying you may be 4’6" and 9 years old, but you remind me of my 71 year old grandmother. Time made my heart grow fonder, and I now embrace my old soul with a badge of pride. Here are 5 perks of being an old soul:

1. Being wise beyond your years.

You were told this your whole life. From a young age, I had an innate desire to understand the meaning of life and my purpose within it. Consequently, I search for knowledge to help myself make sense of the world.

2. Connecting with multiple generations.

You have friends of all ages. My friendships with my 92 year old friend, Tilly, and my 93 year old neighbor, Florence, are two of my most cherished friendships that stemmed from a mutual love of ice cream cookie sandwiches, baked goods, and handwritten letters.

3. Unique interests.

Many of your interests are atypical for your age. I may watch the Bachelor on Monday nights, but I can also sing both the I Love Lucy and Green Acres theme songs. My favorite musician is Frank Sinatra, and my idea of fun is culinary experiences and afternoon teas.

4. Constant reflection.

You spend a lot of time reflecting. Through inner reflection I am constantly “tweaking” myself. Being introspective also makes me my worst critic; I’m the first one to identify my mistakes, which often allows me to turn mistakes into lessons.

5. Meeting new people.

You enjoy meeting new people. I love hearing people’s stories. Early on, I realized how expansive the world is and by meeting new people I feel connected with humankind.