College is a place where an individual grows in every way imaginable. College, as it is intended to be, is a place to learn. However as I reflect on my last four years in college I realize I learned a lot more than I ever intended on learning. Despite the fact that I’m about to receive a Bachelor of Arts Degree in International Relations and Criminology, I still struggle to define basic terms within each respective field. I learned a lot, but I learned a lot more about life than I did any international trade agreement or Ponzi scheme. When I soon depart from college, I leave understanding that only such an institution at such a time could have taught me such things. So here are the most important things college has taught me.

1. Be yourself no matter what.

In high school I always tried emulating that of the “cool” and “popular” people in hope of being “cool” and “popular” too… it never worked. However, when college came around no one knew me and I knew no one so there was no one to emulate and no one I had to worry about being accepted or rejected by. I had no choice but to be myself. To my surprise within no time I had a solid group of friends and everyone on campus knew me and liked me. Though I was and still am socially awkward, people were still attracted to me because I was being authentic. Now I understand that authenticity is key. College taught me to be myself no matter what.

2. Networking is life.

In college you come across people from all types of backgrounds. Some of those people have friends or relatives who work in fields and areas of your interest. Talking and getting to know such people not only helps you gain a friend but a potential future employer or job reference as well. Networking not only leads to great future opportunities, but a very enjoyable and memorable college experience as well. College taught me to always be open to meeting and talking to new people.

3. Persevere.

I cannot tell you how many times I have wanted to drop every assignment and study guide, pack up and move back home. Especially as a first generation student, this test of life we call college tests you in every way imaginable. However, every time I wanted to call it quits I was reminded of why I was in college in the first place: to help my family out and make a difference in the world. Jeremiah 29:11 says “For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.” I’m always reminded that I was placed here for a reason. Therefore, I need to live it out and see what those plans are exactly. College has taught me that right before you decide to quit, push a little hard because your blessing, your purpose, is right around the corner.

4. Advocate for yourself.

I have met countless people who are afraid to speak up for themselves. A professor will give them a grade they did not deserve yet they say nothing. Both professors and students can be extremely hard to get in contact with, yet people sit around waiting on a response. You have to take initiative and ensure you are getting the grade and college experience you deserve and are paying for, even if it means knocking on some office and dorm room doors to get what you need. College has taught me to take initiative for myself.

5. Pura vida.

Pura Vida is a saying I picked up during my time studying/living in Costa Rica. It translates to ‘Pure Life’ in English, however, it means living and enjoying life to its fullest. Everyone has their own version and view of Pura Vida. To me it means doing your best and letting God do the rest. This has become my mantra. College has taught me to do all that I can and when I can do no more, trust that God will carry me the rest of the way.