Nanny, babysitter, childcare giver — no matter what you call them, they are constantly being questioned and ridiculed by other people. But what these people don't know is how difficult it is to take care of kids. Not pets, but actual human beings. It's one thing if it is your child or one in your family, but someone else's kid? Now that's heck of a lot of pressure. With that said, there are just some things that you should never say to these caring individuals.
1. When are you going to get a real job?
I may not be a sales associate or have any other occupation with a fancy name, but the last time I checked, this was a job. I went on an interview, I met the families and I am getting paid. In fact, I probably make the same, if not more, money than those other people. If that isn't "real" then I don't know what is. Just like the other people in this world who have jobs, I come home from work sore, hungry and tired.
2. Do you want a baby right now?
If anything, I definitely do not want babies anytime soon. I basically get to play mommy every time I go in to work, and it isn't as much fun as it seems. Don't get me wrong, I love my job, but it is very hard. Being a nanny is the best form of birth control, that's for sure. If and when I want children in the future, I will be well prepared because of my many years babysitting.
3. How much money do you make?
Does it really matter? Definitely not. This isn't some contest of who's richer. Whether it's a salary or an hourly wage, I am still making money. It shouldn't matter how or how much. I make enough to support myself and even buy a few drinks at the bar when I go out with my friends. In the end, that's all that really matters. Money doesn't buy my happiness; that's for sure.
4. How many kids do you take care of?
It could be one child or 10 children, but this isn't a competition of who can take care of the most kids. Yes, I may have more experience taking care of one age range of children than other nannies do, but in the end, we all have different skills. It doesn't matter the amount of children; it just matters how well you take care of them. Always remember, quality is more important than quantity.
Never underestimate the importance of nannies, and always give them the credit they deserve. If you steer clear of asking these things, then you are bound to have many nannies to choose from. Unless you want to burn some bridges, I would take this advice to heart. You never know when you will need someone to watch your kids, nieces or nephews.
