Wondering if you and your little are a match made in heaven? Are you guys on a "Hi, how are you?" kind of basis or is it much more than that? Here are a couple of signs I picked up on that confirm my little and I are indeed, a great pair.
1. Your conversation is meaningful & honest.
You never engage in surface level conversation. Who the latest pregnant celebrity is or how you “went too hard” over the weekend, are never the topic of conversation. Your topics usually include: how your family is doing, why you had a disagreement with your best friend, things you’ve been struggling with, or maybe something that’s been on your mind that you need genuine advice on. You guys are always there to listen to one another, no matter what. The first time my little and I hung out, I think I left learning a solid month’s worth of information about her.
2. You love the same foods.
She is a total foodie and she isn’t afraid to own it! You both low key follow food accounts on social media and tag each other in posts like, “triple chocolate molten lava cake”—wow, my mouth is watering. You could talk about food for a solid 25 minutes and after the conversation you’ll probably plan to make the recipe together over a glass of wine, while unintentionally getting really deep about something you didn’t know about one another—happens to us all the time. Shout out to my little who would never turn down a late night dessert run, and as she would say, “Is that even a question?” I knew I landed a good one!
3. You are both always down for anything.
Whether it’s coming over to chat for a bit while one of you get’s ready to head out for the day or it’s a sit down dinner together, she doesn’t care when and where, as long as you guys are together. Even if it meant going to the same place every week for dinner, she would do it—my little and I never have a problem doing that, especially if it’s Whole Foods.
4. You know you’re still going to be in each other’s lives once this is all over.
She isn’t part of your life for just these four years; she’s here for the long haul. She’ll still text you to tell you the latest about her boy situation and she will most definitely call you to catch up, even if it’s just to hear your voice. Trust me, she’s going to be standing in that church with everybody else on your wedding day. Heck, maybe she’ll even be one of your bridesmaids. Despite the fact that in about a little over a semester I will be graduating and leaving to start the next chapter of my life, my little will never stop starring in every chapter of my book.
