Working with kids is very eye opening. I've been working with kids for quite a while now, and children definitely hold a special place in my heart. As a college student, someone who has worked with kids for four consecutive years now, and also plan to work with kids in my career, I have learned a few lessons while working with kiddos.
1. As a nanny, your role is more than "just a job."
Being a nanny, your job is more than just a job. You play a significant role in another family's life. Nannying isn't a job where you can go in for the hours you're scheduled and then not worry about it when you leave. As a caregiver and a nanny, you truly care about the well being of the kids you're watching. If they're having issues, you give your all and want to make the situation the best you can for them. You creatively come up with solutions to issues. You also feel like you are a part of the family. You know what's going on in these children's lives and they look up to you.
2. You can't escape your job.
If you're going out with your friends and having a night on the town, you're probably going to take cute pictures. But before you post them, you think "hmm, maybe I shouldn't post this! I wouldn't want the kids I nanny to see it". You can't escape your job. This isn't necessarily a bad thing though – if you wouldn't want kids to see something you're posting on Instagram or Twitter, maybe you shouldn't be posting it anyways? Kids are sneaky nowadays and are more internet savvy than most of us, so you should always be cautious of what you post online. Not to mention, monitoring what you post on social media is good for your image, keeps you in good standing with your Greek organization (if you're in one), and also keeps your pages clean for future employers.
3. "I bet the little girl I nanny would like that!"
As a nanny, you spend so much time with the children you watch. You learn what they like to eat, their favorite color, shows they like, and what their favorite clothing brands are. You can't help but think "Oh man, should I get this for *insert child's name*? I know she would love it!" I mean after all, it's their favorite brand and their favorite color.
4. You miss being around people your own age.
I love my job, and I enjoy being around the children I nanny, but once the only people you're around all summer is pre-teens, you miss being around people your own age and having mature conversations. Personally, I'd rather talk about something going on at school, politics, or even what your plans for the weekend are not Roblox or what new YouTube video came out. Kids are great, and their innocence is amazing, but you're an adult! Mature conversation is needed!
