4 Hints That He Just Might Not Be That Interested In You
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4 Hints That He Just Might Not Be That Interested In You

If he’s not clicking that like button, he’s not liking what he’s seeing.

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4 Hints That He Just Might Not Be That Interested In You
Priscilla Du Preez

Does he like me? The famous question everyone asks when they start talking to someone. The only way to find this answer is through their actions. Here are few hints and tricks to figure out if that guy is actually interested, or just passing time.

1. He never asks about you.

When a guy isn’t that interested in a girl, he’s not going to ask questions about their personal matters, family, hobbies, what they like to do in their spare time, etc. The guy could honestly care less about the girl’s life. He’s probably more interested in giving himself something to do because he’s bored. Sorry, but the girl's just there to kill time. It kind of sounds awful, but yes, if he’s not asking you questions and the majority of the time talking about himself, maybe that’s a sign to ditch the guy.

2. He talks about other girls.

If he ever talks about other girls he’s interested in, talked to in the past, or attracted to, maybe it’s time to rethink that whole crush you have. If he starts talking about these subjects then he most likely sees you as a friend. Think about it, has a guy that’s ever been interested in you talked about other girls he’s involved with or has been? The only exception to this rule is unless the girl asks about it. If you decide to ask him about his past or current relationships, go ahead, but be careful, because figuring out if he likes you more than a friend just gets a whole lot harder.

3. He never likes any of your social media posts.

Maybe he repels technology and he doesn’t even use social media, but this one is for the guys that do. Think about it this way, if a guy likes a girl, he’s going to like her most recent posts, maybe even comment. So, what does a guy do if he’s just not that into her? He’s not even going to click on her social media accounts, he probably won’t even know what her username is.

Sad to say ladies, but if he’s not clicking that like button, he’s not liking what he’s seeing.

As shallow as it may sound that liking an Instagram photo, or liking a post on Facebook, is an indication of someone being into you, it is what it is. In this day and age, everything revolves around social media. It might sound ridiculous but think about it – when a girl likes a guy, she’s going to like his most recent posts and keep tabs on his life. If a guy likes a girl he will do the same thing as well.

4. He says things like, "Hang out?"

“Hey, want to hang out?” said the guy never. If he’s never asking to hang out or making an effort to plan outings with you, realize he’s not interested. If you’re always the one asking to go out or start to feel like the only one putting any attempt at pursuing the relationship, maybe you should stop. If a guy really liked a girl, he would honestly “move mountains” to hang out with her. Guys do everything with an intention.


If he really wanted to talk, he would text or call. If he really wanted hangout, he would make plans. If he was only interested in you, other girls would never come up in a conversation. When you post that cute selfie that you’re proud of, his username would pop up in your notifications, so trust me when I say guys do everything with intentions.

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