"Little kindness and courtesies are so important. In relationships, the little things are the big things." —Stephen Covey
In long term relationships, it's the little things you do for each other, day in and day out, that mean the most. They are a way of reminding your significant other that you care, and that you're thinking of them. They are a way to show your appreciation, and to remind your best friend you love them in your every day life. Little things you do for them make the biggest difference in their life — and your relationship.
Here are 33 little things that you can do to strengthen your relationship:
1. Playing their favorite song in the car when you know they need a pick-me-up.
2. Making the bed.
3. Cooking their favorite meal.
4. Compliment them.
5. Write sweet and random notes, and leave them in unexpected places.
6. Have a TV show that you only watch together.
7. Always show your appreciation — remembering to say "Thank You," for the little things will get you far.
8. Celebrate each other's successes.
9. Back scratches.
10. Make 'movie nights' a regular thing.
11. Ask them how their day was — every day.
12. Read together.
13. Randomly send them an old picture of the two of you.
14. Work out together.
15. Pick a chore they hate doing, and do it for them.
16. Make an effort to connect with their friends.
17. Play board games together.
18. Make them laugh when you know they need it most.
19. Include them in decision making.
20. A random text saying, "I'm thinking about you," goes a long way — cliché or not.
21. Never stop holding hands.
22. Spend time away from your phones.
23. If you live together, try to always go to bed at the same time.
24. Think about a quirky thing they do, and tell them why you love them for it.
25. Cook or bake together.
26. Do something they ask of you, when they ask you to do it.
27. Pick up their favorite drink or candy bar when you stop at the corner store — just to remind them that you're always thinking of them.
28. Try new restaurants together.
29. Text them lyrics to a love song that reminds you of them.
30. Put their towel in the dryer while their showering.
32. Say, "I love you" — a lot.
And most importantly...
33. Pray together.
"For who hath despised the day of small things?" — Zechariah 4:10