We all have a big, but not all of us have a boyfriend. Sometimes our big is so magnificent that she can fill this void with no problem.

Read these 32 signs to know if your big is your boyfriend or not (she probably is, though).

1. When you met each other for the first time, you knew it was #biggieboolittlelove at first sight.

2. During spoils week, she wasn't very good at hiding her identity because she didn’t want to see you in distress about who your beloved big would be.

3. You knew who she was the whole time, but you pretended like you didn’t in order to make her feel like she was being secretive. 

4. She got your whole family (both greek and blood-related) involved in this new relationship by including everyone in the spoils process.  

5. You have pet names for each other.  

6. Actually, you never call each other by your first names.  

7. You guys brag about each other to all of your friends. 

8. Sending “good morning” or “hope you have a great week” texts with your special big & little emojis has become a habit. 

9. You have separation anxiety from each other even when it’s barely been a week. 

10. Both of you constantly learn from each other. She learns from you, and you learn from her. 

11. You have a song.  

12. You get excited whenever your phone lights up with a text from her. 

13. When you’re bored you craft for each other because you know it will always be appreciated. 

14. Even when she isn’t home, she always keeps her doors open for you to go to her house when you need a break from the dorms.  

15. Both of you go a bit above and beyond when it comes to gift-giving.

16. She will take you to get your favorite kind of food and join you in eating it (even if it's breaking the rules of her special diet)!

17. You love to match. 

18. You even have matching PJs.

19. You're good friends with her roommates, whether they are in your sorority or not, because you go to her house so often.

20. You skip classes for each other if one of you has something serious to take care of. 

21. Being star-struck by your big is an understatement. Even after a year of knowing her. 

22. Multiple pictures of you two have been your phone/computer background or profile pictures.  

23. Seeing each other unplanned around campus immediately brightens your day and puts you in a better mood. 

24. You plan big trips together. 

25. Staying in and having movie night together often times sounds much more appealing than going out. 

26. You guys are so similar and have so much in common that it seems a bit unreal. 

27. She was basically your savior first semester of freshman year because she immediately took you under her wing. 

28. You've thought about having/have had an engagement-styled family photo shoot together.

29. Your big is your number one fan, just as you are hers.  

30. Although you both get super busy, you know how important it is to make big/little time. Even if it has to be studying in the library. 

31. You grow to be possessive over each other, but deep down you know that nobody else could have a relationship like yours.  

32. You start to tear up and get a minor panic attack when you think about her graduating. What the heck will you do without her?!