I'm currently beginning my first year as a college student, and while living on campus has it perks- like newfound independence and 24/7 dining halls- it also brings with it the strange experience of not having your siblings around to annoy you all the time. At the same time, your siblings are getting used to not having you around as well...and without the wonderful distraction that is the college experience, they might not be able to handle it as well as you. With that said, there are several ways you can make sure you and your younger siblings don't drift too far apart while you embark on your grand, academic adventure.
Phone Calls
I find that phone and video calls are the most convenient ways to get in touch with my siblings, especially during short breaks where I'm walking to and from classes. When I'm grabbing a snack at the dining hall by myself, I like to set up my phone so I can FaceTime my siblings and we get to digitally "hang out." (This method is my favorite, as I can simply press the "end call" button when they get too annoying.) Many college students have access to a phone that we carry around with us all day, and instead of plugging in your headphones and playing your favorite playlist for the 900th time, maybe send a quick text message or, better yet, phone call to your siblings so you can hear each other's voices and catch up.
Invites to Campus Events
If your college campus isn't too far away from your siblings, it may be a good idea to let them tag along on campus events that allow non-student guests, especially if these events are free. For example, USF holds a Movies-On-The-Lawn event every so often, and I plan on bringing my brother to watch the movie with me- this will be a great way to catch up and have an enjoyable experience together, while also being able to participate in your school's events. You don't have to do this with every event, but every so often, this could be a good way to involve your siblings in your life and spend time with them. This could also help your siblings become more comfortable and less intimidated with the college experience, and you might just inspire your siblings to follow your legacy and attend the same school!
Care Packages and Letters
We've all heard of the care packages many parents send their college students, almost always packed with fun snacks, heartwarming pictures and small gifts. However, how many college students have thought of sending similar care packages to their family back home? Many younger siblings are also transitioning into new experiences, such as middle and high school, while we enroll in college- and a fun care package may be just the thing to brighten their experience and strengthen your relationship while you are apart. Mailed correspondence doesn't have to break the bank- we all know #thestruggleisreal. Head to the dollar store and pick up some corny stickers, glow sticks, and a funny card, stick 'em in a decorated shoe box and you've got yourself an affordable and adorable care package! If you're far too busy to do that, though, you can always send a simple letter- sometimes all that's needed are heartfelt and genuine words.