From changing diapers to building Lego castles, I’ve done it all. Although I’ve only worked with children for a short while, I gained knowledge that I believe is important to share. Sure, they’ve annoyed me now and again. After hearing, “Why?” after you’ve repeated yourself several times is enough to annoy anybody. Along with that, I definitely don’t miss changing poopy diapers. Those are just the best, aren’t they?
Despite their tantrums and booger noses, there are, in fact, some meaningful observations I have made:
1. They will play with anyone, no matter who they are.
The concept of hate is taught over time. Before a certain age children will play with anybody who is willing to play back despite their age, religion, or gender. They don’t care who you are, honestly. All they want is to enjoy your company and for you to enjoy theirs. If you are nice to them, they will be nice back. Wouldn’t it be great if the world worked this way? Although it may not be the safest to put complete trust into a stranger, it's truly inspiring that they don't allow their judgment to skew their views of others. They can't see the true danger that exists in today's world, so they live blindly. This type of ignorance is dangerous, yet beautiful.
2. Their emotions are raw and uncensored.
When a young child giggles with joy, it is real. They don’t obtain the ability to “put on a front,” or fake a smile. When they bawl their eyes out, even if it’s over something seemingly minuscule, that is sadness in its purest form. When they fall to the ground while screaming and crying, they mean it. Although this is seemingly annoying on the surface, if you look a bit deeper, it is truly beautiful that they can express their true emotions without fear of judgment. Speaking of the fear of judgment, that brings me to my next point.
3. They speak their mind.
You just got an ugly haircut? A child will let you know. I once had a four-year-old point out that I had “red polka dots on my face” while referring to my acne. This is not always a bad quality, though. Speaking one’s mind is an important quality to obtain this day in age. Although there are certain comments they should keep to themselves!
Children do not see the world the same as we do, and I believe that it’s beautifully tragic. It’s beautiful that humans are born with these qualities naturally, but it’s tragic that they dissipate into adulthood. Maybe we should open our eyes and see things the way children do, and we may realize that this way of thinking will improve our quality of life.
