Rarely do we recognize the everyday gifts our fathers give us, and rarely do we appreciate the wisdom both of our parents have. Although the individuals we view as our parents are not perfect -- because no one is -- they try and provide us with the most they can to ensure we become the best versions of ourselves. We learn from their mistakes; we adjust from their criticism; we recognize success from their failures; we determine what is right from their wrongs; and we avoid lust from viewing their love.
Although moms normally receive all the glory, I have learned some of the most valuable life lessons through my dad. It seems hard to be a parent, but I think the best gift you can give to a child is the gift of wisdom: the quality of having knowledge and good judgment, and being wise. Here are some of the wise ways I learned from my dad.
1. Hold on to the good memories.
2. In terms of friends -- quality over quantity.
3. Hard work pays off.
4. Nothing good happens after midnight.
5. Persistence wins out.
6. It is worth it at the top.
7. Laugh often.
8. Buy a boat.
9. Be open to criticism.
10. When driving, and in life, always look at the signs.
11. There is always a bright side to sacrificing something.
12. Never stop learning.
13. Screaming is not the answer.
14. Be forgiving.
15. Practice makes perfect.
16. Know how to ride a bike.
17. Do not ever equate Manchester United to Chelsea.
18. Someone has it a lot worse than you.
19. It is okay to cry during a Disney movie.
20. Life is short, make it count.
21. Commit to your partner.
22. Dream big dreams.
23. Family consists of reciprocated relationships.
24. Our hardships develop our strengths.
25. He will always be my number one man.
Although some may feel there is a limit to what they can talk to their fathers about, sometimes it is worth pushing that boundary. Under the macho image, there is a sensitive heart. I guarantee you will be surprised by the wisdom your parents possess, and how much more insightful they can be about relationships and drama, in relation to your best friends.
Thank you, Dad, for everything you do.
