In the two decades and one year that I have been alive, I have loved, laughed, lost, and learned. A lot. And though I do not have it all figured out and I have plenty more to learn- here are 21 things I have figured out so far…

1. Nobody actually has it all together.

2. Take the time to value your friends.

Tell them you love them every chance you get.

3. Think before you speak or post.

4. Your parents more than likely know the answer.

And they actually always have. I deserve a lot of "I told you so"s!

5. Plans are a lot more productive when you're passionate about what you're doing.

6. Loving yourself is important.

Take care of yourself!!!

7. Don't take things too seriously.

Learn to laugh at yourself. It's good for the soul.

8. Refuse to settle for anything less than you deserve.

9. Don't sweat the small stuff.

10. Take the time to have some fun.

11. Find something consistent that brings you joy and never let it go.

12. Forgiving is important.

Grudges are way too heavy to hold.

13. Sometimes, you're wrong and that's okay.

14. Smile- even if you don't want to.

15. Life is a real great thing, so don't take it for granted.

16. On the stressful days, grab yourself a coffee and get stuff done.

Pro tip: Dunkin Donuts is just as good as Starbucks and wayyyy cheaper. You're welcome.

Pro tip #2: If you get iced coffee, ask for sugar syrup instead of regular. If not, the sugar doesn't melt and makes your drink crunchy. You're still welcome.

17. Learn to manage time well.

18. Be honest.

With yourself and others.

19. Look for the bright side, even if you don't think there is one.

20. Yes, you should go ask to pet the dog. Always.

21. God's plan never fails and is better than anything we could imagine for ourselves.

I'm excited to see wisdom I gain and life lessons I learn in the next twenty-one!