21 Things I'm Grateful For On My 21st Birthday

21 Things I'm Grateful For On My 21st Birthday

Aside from the beers and sideways drivers license, there's much more beyond this birthday to be happy for.

Today is my 21st birthday, so what better story to write than what I'm most grateful for. Every year on my birthday I feel loved because of my family, friends, coworkers and people I spend my days with. Saying happy birthday doesn't take much out of someone's day, but it sure does mean the world to that birthday person.

In honor of my big 21, here are 21 things I'm grateful for.

1. A healthy, happy family

Family is everything to me. I'm extremely grateful for my healthy, happy, close-knit family. I would be nowhere without their consistent love and support for everything I do.

2. Education

More specifically, Bowling Green State University is something I'm thankful to be a part of. Education is a beautiful thing and I will never take that for granted.

3. My friends from home

I have friends that have stuck to my side through thick and thin. I still have my high school best friends still to this day, you all know who you are. They understand my childhood and practically have grown up with me. I'm grateful to have such a close-knit group of friends who still stick together, even with the distance.

4. My friends from college

I couldn't imagine who I'd be without meeting my friends I've met in college. They're hilarious, caring, clever and driven individuals that have single-handedly made me a better person and opened up my eyes more. They have grown with me throughout all our college careers and I'm grateful to have met each and every one of them (you know who you are).

5. My big, warm bed

At the end of each and every long day, I have a nice warm bed to dive into. Some people aren't as fortunate to have one and every day I am grateful to have one to come home to.

6. Traveling

The world is a beautiful place and to have the privilege to travel to wherever my dreams go truly paves a wonderful road of experiences and learning opportunities. I love traveling and I'm so grateful to be able to explore this world.

7. Music

Music heals the mind and soul; it has the power to take you away from reality. I think I would lose my mind without listening to it and for that, I am thankful.

8. Health

I can run, jump, skip and am a fully functioning woman. Some people are less fortunate or sometimes not able to do things due to poor health. Once you think about it, it's truly a blessing.

9. Technology

I think technology is amazing. It allows you to be able to do just about anything at your fingertips. It keeps people connected, entertaining and a concept I'll never fully understand. Because of technology I can speak to others across the world, make connections and discover new things daily.

10. My morning cup of coffee

There's nothing better than a cup of coffee in the morning. Simple as that.

11. Work

I love work, I love my coworkers, and I love that I get to do what I enjoy on a daily basis. Work puts me in a wonderful mood and I enjoy talking to each and every person that walks through those doors. I'm grateful that I enjoy working and am good at what I do.

12. My singing ability

Although I don't use it to my full capability all the time, I was blessed with a beautiful singing voice. As I said before, music heals the heart. I'm grateful for my talent every day, even if I don't acknowledge it daily.

13. My ambition and drive

If I want something, I'm going for it at full speed. I've grown up and have been taught that if I want something, I have to go and get it. Here I am, 21 years later and fully motivated to get whatever my heart desires.

14. The ability to laugh at me

I love people with humor and I can take a joke pretty well. I think it's good to laugh at yourself now and then. I'm grateful for people who make me laugh, even if it's at me.

15. All animals

How can someone not adorable all animals? They're fluffy, cute, nice and beautiful creatures. If it wasn't for other obligations, I'd have a farm of millions of animals and sit in the middle and play with them all day. Don't think I'm crazy, I know that's everyone's dream.

16. My car

I worked hard for my car and purchased it with my own money. It can get me to any place at any time. I used to not have a car and I realized just how much you need one. I'm grateful for my car and happy I'm able to drive and function with one on a daily basis.

17. My hometown

Twinsburg, Ohio is something I may have taken for granted, but being away from my hometown shows me how comfortable I am living within it. It's everything I've known growing up, making memories and meeting people in. I'm grateful to grow up and living in such a nice city.

18. My roommates

My college roommates have taught me how to live with others, share my things better and most importantly share something with me that I haven't with anyone else. It's' not easy living with friends at times, but I'm grateful for all my past, present and future roomies.

19. Big hoodies and leggings

This is my daily outfit. Yes, I'm always comfy. Yes, I look like a potato. And yes, I wouldn't know what to wear without these clothing items. It's the little things.

20. Outside

This may seem vague, but being outside is something that makes me happy. The smell of fresh cut grass, smelling like bonfire on a warm summer night, the sound of rain hitting the pavement. I'm grateful I can enjoy being outside and enjoy life while doing it.

21. Birthday celebrations

It's just another excuse to surround myself with everyone I love and have a great day!

Cheers to 21 years of life!

Cover Image Credit: Jillian Monczynski

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6 Things I Didn't Really Need in My Freshman Dorm, And 6 Things I Wish I Brought Instead

I promise you, being Pinterest-worthy just doesn't make sense in a dorm.

As I packed up my dorm room and unpacked it all once I got home, I kinda felt stupid. I moved in with 2 cars full of stuff (yes, I know how extra that sounds and yes, it was indeed that extra) and I didn't end up needing half of it. Now, I'm swimming in stuff I need to get rid of while holding on to the stuff I didn't realize I would need and ended up buying mid-year. No matter how much you think you know everything, first-time dorm residents, please listen.

6 things I DIDN'T need but swore I did

1. All my personal books

I mean, I'm an English major and I love to read, but no one, and I mean no one, A) has free time and B) uses that free time to read in college.

2. Keurig

There's a coffee shop I can use my cafe credits at on my way to class. I never woke up early enough to brew my own coffee, and I never craved it bad enough in the afternoon to feel like I needed to make my own immediately. It was nice to make tea with though.

3. Dishes and Silverware/Excessive Mugs

All you need is 1 mug and a couple of water bottles. I promise you paper plates and plastic silverware are all you need.

4. An overabundance of office supplies

I didn't use all those fancy office supplies in high school, so as much as I love them, I have yet to reach for them in college.

5. T.V.

The T.V. I had was only slightly bigger than my laptop screen and the wifi at my dorm wasn't good enough for streaming. I hardly used it, but I know others used theirs a lot. Just a personal preference!

6. Tons of wall art

I totally believe wall art has the power to make a dorm room feel less institutional, but I wish I had brought more pictures from home to make my room personal. Pinterest dorm rooms just aren't real, and they aren't what you want when you're homesick.

6 things I wish I had bought before school started

1. ID Lanyard

I personally love these ones from Vera Bradley , but honestly, any way you can carry your ID, money, and keys all in one is a life changer.

2. Earplugs/Eye Mask

Dorms are loud even during quiet hours and sometimes your roommate stays up later or gets up earlier than you do. Amazon couldn't ship these to me fast enough.

3. Wireless Headphones/Earbuds

Personally, I'm an earbuds girl, but either one does the trick. It's nice to not have to deal with cords and to be able to connect to any of your devices without an adapter.

4. Laptop Shell/Stickers

Almost everyone ends up ordering stickers to put on their laptop to express themselves to those around them. On a practical level though, you're probably going to have the same laptop as 5+ other students in your lecture and you will probably throw your laptop in a bag and run at some point. A shell and some stickers will provide more protection than you realize. Check out http://www.redbubble.com for some great options.

5. Small vacuum

This is especially important if you get a rug. Sweeping is not pleasant, and the vacuums at your dorm are probably older than you are.

6. Pictures from home

Like I said before, wall art isn't going to comfort you when you want to go home. A picture of your dog or best friend sure will though.

Cover Image Credit: Lauren Gherna

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6 Perfect Ways To Start Your Day And Have The Same Routine As Successful People

After some researching, I found what we should do every day as soon as we get up.


Mornings. I hate them. My dream is to wake up every day after 9 am, eat my breakfast (full of chocolate) and take a nap after that. But, when I read what the routine of successful people are in the mornings, I learn they get up early, eat healthily, exercise and do more things before 8 am. Conclusion, mornings are essential to meet goals and create empires.

After some researching, I found what we should do every day as soon as we get up in order to set up our day for success.

1. Wake up early.


Talented people wake up early. We are talking about 5 and 6 am. It hurts, doesn't it? It makes sense. You cannot build a company or run an organization starting your day after midday. The world moves in the morning; people go to their jobs in the mornings, students go to school in the mornings. The first hours of the day are essential to accomplish any plan.

Also, if you want to have some business with people in other countries, most of them are a couple of hours ahead of us. Starting earlier helps.

2. Eat healthily.


Energy. We need energy in the mornings. Eating well is the first step. I know it is easier only to drink a cup of coffee or buy breakfast in any fast food restaurant, but any of them helps. A good meal is essential; you can try oats, eggs or fruit. I like to drink green juice (spinach, broccoli, parsley and apple) because it is natural and good for my stomach. Then, I eat some oats.

If you do not have too much time, you can make a smoothie with some protein and banana. I am not telling you to not drink coffee; the point is to eat something first. Also, eating an apple in the morning can make you feel more awake than a coffee. Do not forget to have a healthy snack for the middle of the morning.

3. Exercise.

I have talked many times about how hard it is for me to exercise. You can imagine what it means for me to think about going to the gym in the morning. The truth is that exercise helps to have more energy and when you exercise, your body releases chemicals called endorphins. Endorphins help you to feel happy and experience less pain. Also, if you are like me, and you do not like to exercise, you can start your day doing what you like the least. The other good point is that while exercising you lose weight and stay healthy.

4. Yoga.

Yoga sounds better than being sweaty and running in a gym. At least with yoga, we are laying down, meditating, stretching, finding our peace and ourselves. I like yoga; it is good exercise and it helps us to be better people. Starting the day with some relaxing routines is not bad at all.

5. Start with what you hate the most.

I have learned that if you start your day doing what hate the most, you will feel better the rest of the day. It really works. For example, on my weekends, I wake up, and after my breakfast, I cook, clean or laundry. I do not like any of this housework. But, when I finish, and it is only 11 am, I am so happy that it was worth it.

You can do the same in your job. If there is a call, cleaning to do, a meeting or any assignment you hate, do it in the first hours. After that, your day is only going to be better.

6. A hobby.

Sometimes, it is hard to have some time to do what we like. After working eight hours, it is not easy to have the mood to use our time practicing a hobby, or there are too many people at home, or we have to take care of the house.

These days, I have to go in earlier to my job; I live far, and I do not want to get stuck in the traffic. The point is I have one hour in the morning to use doing whatever I want. It is excellent because it is time I do not have later.

I am not going to lie. I am not the best example of successful morning people, but I try my best. So far, I wake up early (because of my job), and I eat healthily (I am always on a diet) and I do what I hate the most first. I need to work with the exercise phase, but I think I am closer than ever. My last tip, if you do not want to overeat sugar or chocolate in the day, eating some in the morning helps with the anxiety and it is less fattening to eat than later in the day.

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