20 "Good Labels"

20 "Good Labels"

20 labels I’d actually like to become

Labeling: assign to a category, especially inaccurately or restrictively

Labels for people are everywhere these days, and most are perceived as bad. We make them for people and we receive them from society. We walk out the door and wear them on our sleeves. Stereotypes are probably the biggest cause for labels. We have all been there; some labels we wear with pride and others we try to bury. Some of them are true and some are false. Ultimately we do have the ability to decide which labels are actually true for us (and what we allow to affect us). Sometimes we lie to ourselves; we try to cover them up or deny the possibility of it applying to us. There are probably many “bad” labels that truly do apply to me, and maybe even some good ones that aren't entirely true. My goal is to change the bad and replace it with one that I wouldn’t mind being applicable. Many people will tell you not to let labels define you, but I want them to. I want to strive to be a good person and I want my good qualities to define me.

With that being said, here’s 20 labels I’d actually like to become:

1. Kind

2. Creative

3. Protective

4. Strong

5. Stubborn

This one might not seem like an ideal label, but I can say it's honest. Not only honest, but it's benefited me several times getting what I want.

6. Optimistic

7. Empathetic

8. Adventurous

9. Smart

10. Awkward

11. Bold

12. Confident

13. Humble

14. Personable

15. Loving

16. Funny

17. Loyal

18. Interested

Some may call this nosy... that would be true in my case. Nosy, but also, being intrigued and fully immersed in what situations I'm put in. Curiosity can get you in trouble but can also be the best teacher.

19. Honest

20. Original

Or weird or whatever term you prefer. It seems boring to be the same as everyone else. I don't mind being weird as long as I'm genuine.

Along with a few unmentioned others, these are labels I would want and hopefully, one day can attain. I would be even happier if they were all real, not just the occasional impression I give off to some people. These are labels I also hope to give people– instead of ever assuming the worst from someone. They’re positive and can be encouraging–giving someone just a boost of self-confidence.

I hope when you go to place a label on someone you choose one of these, or maybe a better one. I also hope if someone is calling you one of these that you won't scowl and tell them how bad labels are. I hope you wear these with pride, because there is such a thing as a "good label."

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To The Friends I Won't Talk To After High School

I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.


So, for the last four years I’ve seen you almost everyday. I’ve learned about your annoying little brother, your dogs and your crazy weekend stories. I’ve seen you rock the awful freshman year fashion, date, attend homecoming, study for AP tests, and get accepted into college.

Thank you for asking me about my day, filling me in on your boy drama and giving me the World History homework. Thank you for complimenting my outfits, laughing at me presenting in class and listening to me complain about my parents. Thank you for sending me your Quizlets and being excited for my accomplishments- every single one of them. I appreciate it all because I know that soon I won’t really see you again. And that makes me sad. I’ll no longer see your face every Monday morning, wave hello to you in the hallways or eat lunch with you ever again. We won't live in the same city and sooner or later you might even forget my name.

We didn’t hang out after school but none the less you impacted me in a huge way. You supported my passions, stood up for me and made me laugh. You gave me advice on life the way you saw it and you didn’t have to but you did. I think maybe in just the smallest way, you influenced me. You made me believe that there’s lots of good people in this world that are nice just because they can be. You were real with me and that's all I can really ask for. We were never in the same friend group or got together on the weekends but you were still a good friend to me. You saw me grow up before your eyes and watched me walk into class late with Starbucks every day. I think people like you don’t get enough credit because I might not talk to you after high school but you are still so important to me. So thanks.

With that said, I truly hope that our paths cross one day in the future. You can tell me about how your brothers doing or how you regret the college you picked. Or maybe one day I’ll see you in the grocery store with a ring on your finger and I’ll be so happy you finally got what you deserved so many guys ago.

And if we ever do cross paths, I sincerely hope you became everything you wanted to be. I hope you traveled to Italy, got your dream job and found the love of your life. I hope you have beautiful children and a fluffy dog named Charlie. I hope you found success in love before wealth and I hope you depended on yourself for happiness before anything else. I hope you visited your mom in college and I hope you hugged your little sister every chance you got. She’s in high school now and you always tell her how that was the time of your life. I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.

And hey, maybe I’ll see you at the reunion and maybe just maybe you’ll remember my face. If so, I’d like to catch up, coffee?



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I'll take feeling good over meeting your standards. Thank you.


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I would be lying if I said I didn't fall victim to countless beautiful women who post their swimsuit photos looking like they stepped out of Vogue magazine. I would be lying if I said I didn't struggle with my own body image and have to remind myself daily that it's okay to not fit their mold. I won't lie to you. We live in a world that feels the need to comment on every inch of our skin rather than focus on more important issues. Shut off the noise and ignore the words that are given in hate. You have better things to do than focus on their negativity.

Make your own mold.

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