"Look both ways before crossing the street" and "Always wash your hands" have been staple concepts instilled in us since we were young. Everyday we were subconsciously being taught numerous life lessons that we did not realize the importance to until we grew into our own person. They may seem simple but the complexity of some of these lessons varies with time and experience. Twenty years later, here are some of the most important life concepts I have tried to demonstrate while attempting to grow up and mature into my own women.
1. Sometimes you have to laugh at yourself & not take things too seriously.
Be silly and put yourself out there. Being “too cool” will never take you anywhere. Don’t take yourself or life too seriously, otherwise it will pass you by.
2. God has a plan.
So take a deep breath. Remember, he never gives you more than you can handle.
3. Your first love will not be your last.
I know it may seem like the end of the world right not but I promise there will be more people to make you smile wider, laugh harder and make you happier than you ever thought possible.
4. Don’t burn bridges…but know when to walk away.
There is a difference between ending a mutual friendship and ending one that is a one-sided. Know your self-worth and if you do decide to walk away-- do it respectfully and with class.
5. Try to look for the good in everyone.
Life is better with a positive attitude. Everyone you meet should have your respect the moment you meet them. They should not have to earn it.
6. Body perception looks different on everyone, so stop comparing yourself to Victoria Secret Angels.
Everyone was built differently. No one will ever look like Kendall Jenner except for Kendall Jenner herself. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL--Exercise in a healthy way that benefits you!! Not for the attention of others… I cannot stress this enough.
7. Your siblings will be the best friends you will ever have.
You may hate them at times but these are the people that know you best.
8. Talk to strangers.
Sorry mom but how in the world are you ever going to grow as a person without experiencing the presence of others? That means putting yourself out there and making the first move to say hello. It might be scary but you might be surprised on what you get out of it.
9. Find a passion and stick with it.
For me that was fitness, yours may be different. What ever you may choose to invest yourself with, I can only encourage you to put your entire heart into it.
10. Be there for your friends and they will be there for you.
Plain and simple, these people are your support system, don't cross them.
11. It’s never too early to say I love you.
Never hold back what you feel. So tell that girl you love her, go in for that kiss, or ask him out-- you never know where it will end up or what will happen tomorrow.
12. Treat yourself and have that second piece of chocolate cake.
Life is too short to only eat salad.
13. Ask For Help.
It’s okay to be vulnerable and this is something I stress early on. People want to help you, so let them.
14. Your parents can tell a fake friend before you can.
…And if you don’t listen to them now, you are going to learn the hard way.
15. School can be hard. So treat it with importance.
Education is one of the most important things in our lives, remember that.
16. Mistakes are inevitable.
No one is perfect. Not even Beyoncé.
17. Never Settle.
You are worth more than how people treat you.
18. It’s okay to stay in on a Saturday night.
Sometimes a movie night is a must.
19. …And it’s definitely okay to go out on any other night.
You are young. Live your life, dance on tables, and sing at the top of your lungs. Embrace that momentary party phase.
20. Have fun.
Go to festivals, fall in love, go camping, dance, go on a road trip, write hand-written letters, take pictures, put your phone down, be in the moment.
