18 Signs You're A Strong, Independent Woman

18 Signs You're A Strong, Independent Woman

"Here's to strong women, may we KNOW them, may we BE them, may we RAISE them." - Unknown

Strong women are a gift to the universe. They help us live, learn, and grow. They shape who we are even if we don't know them personally. Without them, we literally would not exist. Here's to all the strong women out there - may we raise more girls to be brave, fearless, and proud like you.

1. You believe in yourself and others.

Though it may not always be inherently obvious, you know that you and your friends are capable of anything. You're willing to encourage everyone and anyone who needs an extra push and when it comes to self-motivation, you're willing to give it your best shot.

2. If the path is unclear, you're willing to find another way.

Sometimes the rules aren't clear, or they don't make sense for everyone following them. You're willing to think outside the box and find an alternative solution that will benefit everyone.

3. You're more of a leader than a follower.

If you're willing to find a way around the rules, you're likely more of a leader than a follower. The world was built on strong, independent women, and we have no shame!

4. It's more comfortable for you to do things your own way.

It's not that you have a superiority complex or anything, but sometimes it's more comforting to complete things the most efficient way possible (in your honest opinion).

5. You're a role model to someone.

Even if it's a neighbor, co-worker, a niece, or nephew, you matter to someone. Someone probably thinks you're really cool even when you think you're not looking so hot. Remember that you are always going to be #goals for someone.

6. You're an emotional rock.

People come to you for help, whether it be emotional or physical. You offer a shoulder and stay strong for people who need you. It's one of the traits that makes you so strong.

7. People rely on you.

Whether it be for money, work, friendship, or something else altogether; people rely on you. You're dependable, and people know you won't let them down. You're an important person to know.

8. You're passionate about whatever you do.

You put 100% dedication into everything you do, and people really value that. You know that the job isn't done until you've seen it through to the end. You're not afraid to do whatever you can to get to the finish line.

9. Honesty is something you value.

There is no strength in lying, in faking it, or in two-faced relationships. You know that honesty is important in every single endeavor. You set an honest precedent for everyone around you.

10. You ask for help when you need it.

Part of being strong is knowing how to ask for help. Being strong doesn't mean carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders alone; it means knowing how to delegate and ask for help when you require it. A strong woman did not become strong without the help of other strong women.

11. You get shit done one way or another.

Even when you procrastinate something, you're multitasking and getting work done. Even when you're taking a break, you're actively thinking about something else you have to work on. Finishing things isn't a problem for you, no matter how much time you may need to finish them.

12. Even when you feel like you can't pull yourself together, you do.

You know that tomorrow is a new day and everything will work itself out in the end. Even when it doesn't work itself out, you figure something out and find a different way. You're a perseverance expert when it comes to getting yourself together.

13. You test the limits.

Part of being a strong woman is breaking the bounds, changing the game, and making history. Whether it's arguing for a pay raise, fight for equality, or something more personal, like escaping your comfort zone - there is no test to see how far you'll go.

14. You empower other women, instead of putting them down.

You know that no strong woman became strong on her own. You empower and encourage other women instead of tearing them down. You stand with your fellow #strongwomen, and push them toward greatness.

15. No one needs to tell you how to live your life.

You are strong and independent! You don't need anyone giving you directions or orders. You know this and refuse to accept those who attempt to order you around.

16. Sometimes you put others before yourself, but you still take care of yourself properly.

Part of being a strong person is knowing that there are others you either have to or want to take care of. Despite this, you still know how to engage in self-care. Without it, you know you won't be strong enough to care for the others.

17. Even when you don't feel strong, you hang in there for the people who need you.

Even on your worst days, you keep going. You're not only someone who refuses to throw in the towel until everyone is safe and okay, but you're also someone who makes sure everyone is comfortable and content before truly reeling it in for the day.

18. You know you're a strong, independent woman who doesn't need anyone to tell her otherwise.

Sometimes it's not always obvious, but you know damn well that no one can undermine you. You know when you're right and you know when you're wrong even if you're reluctant to admit it sometimes. You know when people are underestimating and undervaluing you. Know yourself, know your worth.

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Famous black inventors.

There are many black individuals who have greatly contributed to the inventions we use today. Unfortunately I can't list them all, but here are a few:

1. Dustpan

Have you swept any trash into your dust pan lately? Well, you can thank Lloyd Ray for that. He made an invention that helped people to get rid of trash without getting their hands dirty.


2. Mop

The picture that comes to mind is of the school custodians that so helpfully keep the institution’s floors clean. Thomas Stewart created a mop that could wring out water.


3. Lawn mower

While John Burr didn’t create the lawn mower, he improved it to what is now. Burr invented the rotary blade that made it easier to get the grass along the side of buildings.


4. Clothes dryer

George T. Sampson also improved an invention. Before him, ventilators would be be used to dry clothes. However this ended up in the clothes smelling like smoke, being dirty and sometimes catching on fire. Sampson’s improvement helped clothes dry better and not catch on fire. He received a patent for his invention in 1892.


5. Automatic gear shift

Not much is known about Richard Spike but he did create an array of inventions. If you hate driving a stick shift, thank Spike for the automatic gear shift.


6. Ice cream scoop

“I scream, you scream, we all scream for ice cream.” Alfred L. Cralle created the ice cream scoop after noticing the difficulties ice cream servers had scooping ice cream with a regular spoon, into a cone. We have Cralle to thank for our nicely rounded scoops of the yummy, cold treat.


"We must never forget that Black History is American History. The achievements of African Americans have contributed to our nation's greatness." - Yvette Clarke
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Good Hair: Black Women And Their Hair

Don't touch my hair

In my English class, my teacher was free to decide what he wanted to gear the material towards, and he chose African American literature. I was immediately excited to hear this; I took an African American Studies class last semester and it was probably one of the most interesting courses I’ve ever taken.

I dove into the material, seeing reflections of myself and my black identity in each text and video. His discussions made sense to me, just as African American Studies had; it felt like all my suspicions and inane feelings about society’s view on Black people were being confirmed.

Our most recent discussion in English was about Chris Rock’s documentary “Good Hair”. The documentary went through the various different ways Black women tamed their hair in order to make White people feel more comfortable. Being raised with twist outs and natural, curly puffs, much of the information was new to me; relaxers seemed harsh and dangerous, and weaves were worth more money than I could even imagine.

My classmates, being White, shared similar sentiments. But the root theme of the documentary hit home for me; the idea that Black women are made to be uncomfortable in their own hair in order to fit into White people’s image of perfection.

I continue to feel every day, regardless of endless compliments, insecure about my hair and whether it looks good. Yes, this is a normal trial a woman goes through, but as a Black woman, your hair is more than just a look. It is your identity, your culture, your defining feature.

It does not listen to you. It is stubborn to pull back into a pony tail, and no other Black woman’s hair is similar to your own. It can do anything you want it to while at the same doing nothing you want it to. It surprises you with its ability, beauty, and texture, but at the same time society continuously forces it down your throat that it is not real beauty.

Society tells you your hair is too loud, too big, and too crazy. It tells you to relax, make it straight, make it something they can understand. It tells you there is no way you’re getting this job if you come in this office looking like that.

In an interesting dichotomy, society tells you that while it not acceptable, its exotic.

“Can I touch your hair?”

“How does it look like that?”

They revoke your permission to protect your body by reaching out as if you an animal in a cage. They touch your head as if it does not belong to you, as if your body is the property of White America. It’s meant to be a compliment of your beauty, but as long as there are good intentions, it’s okay, right?

My hair is my personality. Its giant, uncontrollable, and crazy. It blows in the wind like it has no sense. Its happy to be free and large on my head. It is a permanent part of me that will never go away even if it physically does.

In the end I almost felt like I was leading the discussion because I felt so passionately about the subject. To think people see your natural hair as a threat is a bizarre yet inane notion to think about. While Black culture is again becoming trendy, it makes me wonder how much America really appreciates it. Is it just another effort to control Black people by feigning love for their culture? Will they truly understand what hair means to a Black woman?

Probably not, but we can only hope.
Cover Image Credit: Olivia Griffin

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