18 Signs You're A Strong, Independent Woman

18 Signs You're A Strong, Independent Woman

"Here's to strong women, may we KNOW them, may we BE them, may we RAISE them." - Unknown
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Strong women are a gift to the universe. They help us live, learn, and grow. They shape who we are even if we don't know them personally. Without them, we literally would not exist. Here's to all the strong women out there - may we raise more girls to be brave, fearless, and proud like you.

1. You believe in yourself and others.

Though it may not always be inherently obvious, you know that you and your friends are capable of anything. You're willing to encourage everyone and anyone who needs an extra push and when it comes to self-motivation, you're willing to give it your best shot.

2. If the path is unclear, you're willing to find another way.

Sometimes the rules aren't clear, or they don't make sense for everyone following them. You're willing to think outside the box and find an alternative solution that will benefit everyone.

3. You're more of a leader than a follower.

If you're willing to find a way around the rules, you're likely more of a leader than a follower. The world was built on strong, independent women, and we have no shame!

4. It's more comfortable for you to do things your own way.

It's not that you have a superiority complex or anything, but sometimes it's more comforting to complete things the most efficient way possible (in your honest opinion).

5. You're a role model to someone.

Even if it's a neighbor, co-worker, a niece, or nephew, you matter to someone. Someone probably thinks you're really cool even when you think you're not looking so hot. Remember that you are always going to be #goals for someone.

6. You're an emotional rock.

People come to you for help, whether it be emotional or physical. You offer a shoulder and stay strong for people who need you. It's one of the traits that makes you so strong.

7. People rely on you.

Whether it be for money, work, friendship, or something else altogether; people rely on you. You're dependable, and people know you won't let them down. You're an important person to know.

8. You're passionate about whatever you do.

You put 100% dedication into everything you do, and people really value that. You know that the job isn't done until you've seen it through to the end. You're not afraid to do whatever you can to get to the finish line.

9. Honesty is something you value.

There is no strength in lying, in faking it, or in two-faced relationships. You know that honesty is important in every single endeavor. You set an honest precedent for everyone around you.

10. You ask for help when you need it.

Part of being strong is knowing how to ask for help. Being strong doesn't mean carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders alone; it means knowing how to delegate and ask for help when you require it. A strong woman did not become strong without the help of other strong women.

11. You get shit done one way or another.

Even when you procrastinate something, you're multitasking and getting work done. Even when you're taking a break, you're actively thinking about something else you have to work on. Finishing things isn't a problem for you, no matter how much time you may need to finish them.

12. Even when you feel like you can't pull yourself together, you do.

You know that tomorrow is a new day and everything will work itself out in the end. Even when it doesn't work itself out, you figure something out and find a different way. You're a perseverance expert when it comes to getting yourself together.

13. You test the limits.

Part of being a strong woman is breaking the bounds, changing the game, and making history. Whether it's arguing for a pay raise, fight for equality, or something more personal, like escaping your comfort zone - there is no test to see how far you'll go.

14. You empower other women, instead of putting them down.

You know that no strong woman became strong on her own. You empower and encourage other women instead of tearing them down. You stand with your fellow #strongwomen, and push them toward greatness.

15. No one needs to tell you how to live your life.

You are strong and independent! You don't need anyone giving you directions or orders. You know this and refuse to accept those who attempt to order you around.

16. Sometimes you put others before yourself, but you still take care of yourself properly.

Part of being a strong person is knowing that there are others you either have to or want to take care of. Despite this, you still know how to engage in self-care. Without it, you know you won't be strong enough to care for the others.

17. Even when you don't feel strong, you hang in there for the people who need you.

Even on your worst days, you keep going. You're not only someone who refuses to throw in the towel until everyone is safe and okay, but you're also someone who makes sure everyone is comfortable and content before truly reeling it in for the day.

18. You know you're a strong, independent woman who doesn't need anyone to tell her otherwise.

Sometimes it's not always obvious, but you know damn well that no one can undermine you. You know when you're right and you know when you're wrong even if you're reluctant to admit it sometimes. You know when people are underestimating and undervaluing you. Know yourself, know your worth.

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I Won't Forgive The Anti-Semitic Students Of Spain Park, Not Yet

Maybe it isn't time for an apology.

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I am Jewish. It is something I have never been afraid of and something I value as much in life as I do with my family and friends. Throughout my life, though I have witnessed hate of the Jewish people and jokes made about Jewish people.

In high school, I had to listen to jokes about Jews and the gas chambers and was asked because I was Jewish if I could do someone else's math homework.

To say I had to deal with anti-Semitism in the South does not come close to describing what I had to go through. As time went by the jokes stopped and I thought I would not have to deal with instances of prejudice or bigotry but I was wrong. Growing up as one of the only Jewish people in my friend group and in high school it made me consider myself strong and ready for college but in my freshman year I had to go through other jokes about my religion and even in sophomore year had to witness someone I thought was my friend make a joke about my religion because "he thought it was funny."

I let the instances of anti-Semitism serve as times when I could prove people wrong I learned to forgive and forget.

But I had to witness other acts of hate towards Judaism while in college. From swastikas on a fraternity house, a synagogue shooting, the BDS movement and more hate speech, the hate towards Jews have seemed to grow and I do not understand why. I get hurt each time I hear of an instance but it has not allowed me to view my Judaism any differently. However, there was an occurrence that has affected me in a different way.

It happened in my home state and it has not sat well with me.

On Monday a video surfaced of multiple high school students making anti-Semitic and anti-Black comments. The video featured a guy turning around the camera multiple times to show he was laughing and thought it was funny while others made comments about concentration camps, what would happen if Jews ruled the world and asking what the world would be like without the Holocaust. The students were from Spain Park in Birmingham and have gathered quite a reputation online.

To say I am filled with anger, disappointment, and embarrassment is an understatement.

This is my home state and these students are not only disrespecting the Jewish and Black people in the state of Alabama but throughout the US and possibly even in the world. I am hurt by this instance but I am not ready to forgive these students just yet.

After the video was leaked online some of the students sent messages to the person who uploaded the video apologizing. That I took as a mature gesture until I read the apology from the girl in the video. The apology asked if the user could remove the video because it would ruin her life and reputation. It was later found out that the female student is the daughter of the manager of the Toyota dealership in Hoover after the manager posted an apology.

Any remorse I had going for these students was now gone.

They were not sorry. They were sorry that they got caught and were facing consequences. They gave the apology that your parents made you say when you did not want to apologize. They did not care about who they had harmed or what they had said, they cared because they had to face consequences and they know that this mistake would follow them for the rest of their life.

I'm at a loss for words.

I don't know how to feel. I know someone will tell me I am overreacting but how am I supposed to approach this? What they said was wrong and there is no proper way to express frustration for it. I know people get offended by certain things but some things are not meant to be a joke. So I hope what you said was worth it and was fun to say because it will follow you for the rest of your life. Some lessons are best-learned overtime and it looks like you will have a chance to reflect on these events.

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