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18 Things I Learned In 18 Years

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18 Things I Learned In 18 Years
Koraima B. Gonzalez-Diaz

1. Timing is a very, very funny thing.

2. The universe is infinitely better at sorting out your messes than you’ll ever be. Have patience and trust the fact that things will work themselves out.

3. The first boy you like isn’t necessarily going to like you back.

4. If he calls you beautiful over text message, but ignores you in person, drop him. You deserve consistency and more importantly, respect.

5. Sometimes a person hundreds of miles away can make you feel better than the people sitting right next to you.

6. It is not selfish or inconsiderate to put your own needs first- it is a way to protect yourself, and the only way you’ll survive in this world.

7. Your family may drive you crazy and push every button you have, but more often than not, they’re some of the only people who actually mean it when they say they love you.

8. Everyone is deeply sad about something- everyone. That includes the pretty senior you walk by in the hallways and that moody boy that sits behind you in your English class. Keep this in mind whenever you come across a person that doesn’t sit well with you.

9. Fake it ‘til you make it.

10. Love everyone with all you have. Be kind, be gentle, be considerate. Those are the qualities that truly make a person beautiful. But do not take it personally when someone doesn’t give you the same level of care that you would give to them. Take it as a sign to put less of your love into them and turn it towards other people instead.

11. Always, always, always trust your instincts. Your body can sense bad energy a lot faster than you can.

12. You deserve to have people in your life who appreciate and accept you for all that you are. As soon as someone tries to change you, leave and never look back.

13. Do not bare the entirety of yourself to a single person. Your soul is incandescent, and humans have the tendency to destroy anything that shines.

14. Life is constantly changing; the world is constantly moving. As a result, you are constantly evolving. You are growing physically, spiritually, and emotionally as a human being every single day. That takes a lot of work. Be proud of it.

15. Find something that starts a fire in your heart and run with it. Do not let anyone or anything stop you from following your ambitions and embracing who you are.

16. You will hear a lot of advice and words of wisdom throughout your life. You will come across lists and poems and stories and books that all try to tell you how to be happy and live a good life. But the most important thing you’ll ever need to remember can be summed up in two words: love yourself. Get up every single day and fall in love with the person you see in the mirror.

17. Nurture your soul and body. Eat good food, go on adventures, surround yourself with only positivity.

18. Live. Take care of yourself, because in the end, you’re all that you’ve got.

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