We all dream of finding our soulmate. From the time we are old enough to understand what love is, it's almost as if we are on a mission to find that one special person who will complete us. Love is at every corner we turn and the driving force behind everything we do in life. We hear about it, talk about it, see it and dream of it. Finding love is never planned, and will happen at the times that you least expect it. Somewhere between those late night Facetime calls, and early morning breakfast dates you will realize that you can't get enough of a person.
But how do we know when we've found the person? We could be in countless relationships, but how do we know when the person we're with is different from the rest? It takes a special kind of person to spend an entire lifetime loving, and leave us dizzy with excitement for years to come. So how do we know when we've found the one?
Here are 15 tell-tale signs that you've found your soulmate:
1. You can be yourself around them.
When you fall in love with someone your little quirks and embarrassing moments are the last things you want to hide from them. They will appreciate and love the things you may not love about yourself, and make you feel confident with the person you are. No amount of corny jokes or secrets told will make them love you less.
2. You can communicate and work together.
One of the most important parts of a lasting relationship is being able to communicate with each other. When you've found the right person, you will be able to talk to them about everything you're feeling and they will always do their best to understand. No level of tension will be too hard to handle because you'll know how to compromise and make things better together. Sure you'll get into fights here and there, but they'll always end with an apology and some good, old fashioned, make-up-cuddles.
3. You support each other.
For better or for worse, you are there for each other. Whether your partner is going through something that is difficult to handle, or they're venturing into a situation that they're not yet comfortable in, you are there for them and let them know they are not alone- as they do for you. From crazy ideas to hardships and struggles, you lift each other up and support each other through all of your life ventures.
4. They give you endless butterflies.
From the moment you realized you loved them, the butterflies have never gone away. The simplest things they do can put a smile on your face. From their eyes, their laugh, to the way they hold your hand while they drive, they always make you feel loved and lucky to be by their side.
5. You don't feel insecure in the relationship.
Any doubts or insecurities you had in other relationships are a thing of the past. You know that you can trust your partner, and there is no doubt in your mind that they are all about you. You never need to question their love because even when they don't say it, you know they love you and always want what's best for you. They also let you eat their food, and that right there is dedication.
6. They make you want to be a better you.
Ever since they came into your life you are constantly striving to become better and do better. While any good partner will support you and what you do in life, a great partner will always push you and encourage you to become even better. They give you the confidence to go farther in life than you had ever imagined.
7. You can tell them anything.
From the secrets that you keep in the darkest corners of your mind, to the long rants about your tiring day at work- you can talk to them about anything. Your childhood memories, embarrassing stories, and greatest fears are all just words waiting to be told to them. No matter what you say they will never judge you, and you know you always have someone to go to when you need to get things off your chest.
8. You see them in your future.
When you imagine your future, they are always right by your side walking with you every step of the way. You want to grow with them, build a family with them, be successful with them, and most importantly spend the rest of your life loving them. There is no person you'd rather become old and wrinkly with.
9. There are no boundaries.
When you can fart in front of them and laugh it off, it's safe to say you've found yourself a keeper. And lets not forget the strange desire to pop their pimples for them.. now that's a whole new level of comfort.
10. Lazy days can be the best days.
While a fancy dinner date or a night on the town is nice, it's not always needed to have a good time. Sometimes the best dates are the ones where you can lounge around in your pajamas and enjoy each other's company. Netflix and chill isn't just for hookups, its your Friday night go-to and you love it more than anything.
11. You miss them whenever you're apart.
Even though alone time and night's out with friends are always fun, your lover is always in the back of your mind. You wonder how they are, what they're doing, and how their day is going. At the end of a long day, it's always them who you want to curl up and fall asleep next to.
12. When they're happy, you're happy and vice-versa.
Nothing brings your more happiness than that of your partner. Whenever something good happens for them you want to celebrate with them, and their smile can brighten your entire day. Similarly, when they're sad, so are you, and it will hurt to know they are in pain or go to sleep knowing they're lying awake hurting. When you've found the one, you will be emotionally connected.
13. They are the first person you want to share things with.
Whenever something happens in your life, they are the first person you want to tell. Whether you're bursting with excitement and want them to be the first person you celebrate with, or are faced with a difficult decision and need someone to help you work through it- they will always be the first person you turn to.
14. Their friends become your friends too.
Having the stamp of approval from your lovers' friends is one of the best signs that you've found the right person. They are the people who know them better than anyone and only want what's best for them; so if they think you'll make their friend happy that is a major sign your love will last. And it's also always a huge plus when you can hang with their friends and vice-versa.
15. You find comfort in their presence.
No matter what is going on in your life, having them with you can always silence the things that stress you—even if only for a little while. When you're with them nothing else matters. They make your darkest days bright again, and always know how to make you feel safe and secure. Their love is all you need to feel at peace with everything around you.
