The first time I met my dog, I never knew I would fall in love with him like I did. At the time, my family had a couple of dogs, so I thought we didn't need any more. The little turd, however, had other plans, and weaseled himself into my heart. He's the cutest, sweetest, sleepiest little thing, and I wouldn't trade him for anything in the world.
14. He gives me lots of kisses, even when I don’t want them.
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Ladies, there is a huge difference between a Christian boy and a Godly man; therefore, it is time to stop settling for the lesser of the two.
So many times I hear girls saying:
“Well, he’s a Christian.”
“He goes to church with me.”
“He listens to Christian music.”
“He went to church camp.”
“He has a favorite bible verse.”
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Well, all of those things are just peachy and there is nothing wrong with doing those things. I mean, they’re all good things to do. But how is his personal relationship with God? How is his prayer life? Does he talk about his relationship with God, with you? Is he truly a follower of the one true God in all aspects of his life? These are some of the characteristics you should be looking for that makes a Godly man.
Ladies, a man will love you great when he loves God greater.
A Godly man will pursue an honest relationship with you. He will be clear of his intentions. A Godly man will worship, pray and passionately praise God with you. Whereas, a Christian boy might open the door for you, a Godly man will open his bible and explore God’s word with you so that you both may grow spiritually, together. While a Christian boy may put on an outward show, a Godly man will live out the love of Jesus daily.
So ladies, are you catching on to this ongoing trend? A Godly man does more because you deserve more.
A Godly man will be a leader. Trust me, I know that in today’s society Godly men are few and far between while Christian boys come in plenty. But you deserve a man who is after God’s heart not just a boy who goes to church. And I know that this Christian boy may seem great and have some really stellar qualities at the time but money and looks fade, whereas, an ongoing love for our savior will not.
The greatest thing a man can do for a woman is to lead her closer to God than himself. (Yes, yes, yes).
So I beg of you, do not settle. Do not settle just because you’re tired of being single, it’s convenient or because you want the relationship your friend has. Single does not equal available and a relationship status does not define you. God uses your season of singleness to prepare you for what is to come. And if you’re dating a Christian boy, he needs to step it up or you need to move on. Wait for a Godly man who is ready to lead you. God’s timing is always better, always. No matter the circumstance. So, do not rush God. (I mean, He is, after all, pretty good at His job). Therefore, turn your full focus to Him and He will direct your path.
“But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” Matthew 6:33
It always shocks every person who hears me state that I do not have any cousins. For some reason, this is just hard for people to really believe when it's actually not something impossible. I think we are all just so used to large families that it sounds weird when people say that they have no cousins. Yet, it is definitely a potential reality, and actually impossible if each of your parents is the only child to your grandparents.
Here are 14 things that you can relate to if you grew up without any cousins.
1. Nobody believes you when you say that you don't have any cousins
I'm serious, for the tenth time.
2. Your grandparents spoil you
With no other grandchildren to worry about, it's pretty easy to do.
3. You don't understand when people say that cousins are your first best friends
My best friend was my first best friend.
4. You and your siblings are always the youngest people at family events
This was simultaneosuly a good thing and a bad thing.
5. You get all of the attention at holidays
Since you're the youngest one around, then distant relatives are always doting over you.
6. Everything you do is deemed awesome by your extended family because there is nobody to compete with
It's much easier to be praised when you aren't being compared to someone similar to your age.
7. You don't know how to hold babies
You're never around them so why would you?
8. Family photos are pretty easy to coordinate
The less people, the easier.
9. Other family members spoil you just because
Afterall, you are the only kid around...
10. The family will make comments regarding the potential for you to have a cousin as a justification for why they aren't doing something for you
When you hear, "I can't buy you too much because someday your aunt is going to have kids and I will have to do the same for them" you cringe and just had to know that all of the attention wouldn't last forever.
11. Birthdays are always a big deal
A perk of not having very many to remember.
12. If your parents' siblings own pets, then you refer to the animal as your cousin
Cat cousins, dog cousins, lizard cousins, and fish cousins can be pretty cool, actually.
13. Sometimes you dream of marrying into a big family
This is to ensure that your kids do grow up with cousins.
14. You appreciate the closeness of your tight-knit fam
Maybe the only thing you would miss if you had a big family is the opportunity to develop such close bonds with the few relatives that you do have.