One of the cons about studying abroad is that I am away from my best friend and boyfriend for such a long time, Valentine's Day included. I'm sure anyone else in a long-distance relationship can relate to this, whether your significant other is in the military, a different college, studying abroad or separated for some other reason or another. While it's nice to think you should be celebrating love every day, we choose to mark a day on the calendar for the world to show their love and appreciation for each other. Flashback to elementary school, and you probably looked forward to receiving valentines from all your classmates, decorating your mailbox so meticulously, shopping with your mom for the perfect valentines to hand out or opting to make one yourself to show that special someone how much you care. Just because we aren't close to our partner on this holiday doesn't mean we can't still enjoy it and celebrate it. Show love for your pet. For your parents. Or if you really want to celebrate your significant other, try some of these ideas. As they say, "The greatest thing you'll ever learn, is just to love and be loved in return," so why not spend Valentine's Day honoring that, even if there are a few hundred miles between you two.
1. FaceTime (Skype) Date
If you are in different time zones, this could be difficult, but it will be so worth it. Pick a time that works for both of you, and FaceTime each other. I have FaceTimed my boyfriend while he was at dinner, and it was like I was there on a date with him. Sure the real thing would be better, but beggars can't be choosers.
2. Simultaneously Watch a Movie
Make some popcorn, grab a blanket and pop a movie in. Make sure you either call, text or FaceTime so you both start the movie at the exact same time. They won't be there to comfort you if you cry, but sharing a sweet, loving movie can bring you two closer together. This, or the skype date, are great options for money-conscious couples. Maybe even turn it into a movie marathon (I vote Nicholas Sparks).
3. Send an Edible Arrangement
Nothing says "I love you" like chocolate-covered fruit delivered straight to your door or office. They say the way to a man's heart is food, but it can be for a women too.
4. Tickets to an Event
Does your partner love sports? Send him a ticket to a hockey, football or basketball game in the area. Is her favorite singer performing where she is? Buy her tickets, and if she has girlfriends in the area buy two so she can have a girl's night. She will love you for it.
5. Send a love letter
I'm old fashioned; I love receiving letters in the mail. It's more romantic than any text I will ever receive, and shows they put the time and effort into sending it to me. Hey, even make it one of those cheesy handmade valentines.
6. Pamper Her/Him
Send a gift certificate to a hairstylist, massage therapist, or spa. We all get stressed, so what's better than a relaxing massage. If you go for more of a beauty package route, you could even include a little note that says, "You're perfect the way you are, but here's a little something to make you feel sexy/handsome/beautiful.
7. Befriend their friends
Surprising someone in a LDR can be a lot easier if you are able to contact someone that knows them well in the new location: a friendly coworker, a roommate, etc. You can have them buy flowers and leave it in the kitchen or their room for them to come home to. Maybe for a guy, leave a six-pack in the fridge. Just little things to show you care and think of them.
8. Send a V-Day Care Package
You know someone really cares about you, when they remember small details about you all on their own. It's a plus when they can use this to make a little package full of things you love, want and/or need: their favorite tea, some earbuds, maybe a yoga voucher or food voucher. Don't just send flowers or a teddy bear. Make it personalized. Maybe even send them something of yours to remind them of you, could be clothing with your scent on it.
9. Send a Video
Even if you are the worst singer, record a video of you serenading your loved one. If you play an instrument, learn how to play their favorite song or a love song. If you aren't feeling so ambitious, maybe just do it over the phone.
10. Wake-up Call
Call them to make them up in the morning. Hearing "I love you" will likely make them smile and put them in a good mood to start their day.
11. Give a Club Subscription
Whether it be a wine club subscription or Beer of the Month subscription, your boo will be sure to thank you. It's the gift that keeps on giving.
12. Cook Together
Pick a meal both of you will like and get all the ingredients together. Skype each other and follow all the directions together. Open a bottle of wine and light some candles, for a homemade, romantic virtual dinner together.
13. Surprise Purchase
If you know they are going out to dinner, call the restaurant and buy a drink or food on the menu that you know they will like.
14. Buy a Couples Gift
Buy something that is personalized for the two of you, but only send them one part of it. That way it isn't complete until the two of you are reunited.
Long-distance relationships are hard enough as it is, but then seeing happy couples everywhere, and advertisements for Valentine's Day dinner specials is a drag. Whether you're miles apart or separated by an ocean like me, these are some ideas for expressing affection for the one you love. Happy Valentine's Day!
