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14 Tips For Living With A Roommate

Roommates can be people you barely talk to, or the best friend you take on late-night Walmart trips.

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14 Tips For Living With A Roommate
Reagan Paterson

Moving into college is a huge transition. It's an even bigger transition when you're moving in with someone you may not even know. Living with a roommate can be tricky, but here are some tips to help it go a little smoother.

1. Compromise is necessary.

But one of you shouldn't have to compromise more than the other.

2. Don't be afraid to speak up.


Especially when it comes to what will make you happy, but don't be overbearing either.

3. The first week sets the tone for the semester/year.

Be open and engaging.

4. Figure out ahead of time how you both feel about guests/lights/music/borrowing things.


It's better to be safe than sorry.

5. A clean room is a happy room.


6. Be friends, not just roommates.


Go out to eat/see a movie/shop together. Go to school events together. It'll make everything easier.

7. Schedules, schedules, schedules.


Be respectful of each other's needs and crazy hours.

8. Know the value of communication, but also silence.


You have to be comfortable talking about both important and trivial things. You also have to appreciate comfortable silence when you're studying/doing homework.

9. If one of you wants pancakes at 11pm, get pancakes.

College goes by quickly and memories are more important than that one extra hour of studying.

10. Give your roommate a fair chance.

Don't just make your mind up in the first week that it won't work out.

11. Try to be friends.

...but also realize that you don't have to be best friends if you just don't click well.

12. Let each other have space.

If you start getting irritated, get out of the room to study or hang out with other friends.

13. Be honest (but nice) when they ask if an outfit looks good.

14. If your roommate ends up being a good fit for you, don't take the time you have living together for granted.

You'll look back and wonder where the year went/wish you could do it all over again.

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