14 Rules Everyone Should Live By

14 Rules Everyone Should Live By

If you're living it to the fullest, you're living right.

Life gets hard sometimes. Things are never going to be easy, but that doesn't mean you can't do your best to take some of the load off. Whether you're a college student pretending to adult or you're a real grown-up doing real adulting, here are some rules everyone should live by.

1. It's not about what happens, it's how you handle it.

#adulting might be hard, but sometimes you just have to get with it and deal with things as professionally as possible.

2. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for living your life your way.

It's your life. Don't let other people tell you how to live it.

3. Supporting someone else's success won't dampen your own.

A.K.A. being a good person and congratulating other people on their accomplishments doesn't make anything you do less impressive or important. So, be a good person, get excited for other people's success.

4. Grow through what you go through.

Everyone goes through things. Everyone's got their "stuff". The only difference between people who are living their life to the fullest and those who aren't is that the former don't let their "stuff" drag them down. But also remember to be gentle with yourself, you're doing the best you can.

5. Say yes to adventures.

Don't be afraid to try new things. If there's something you want to do, go out and do it. It's better an "oops" than a "what if".

6. You don't have to be friends with everyone, but you do have to be friendly.

Part of being an adult is getting along with people you aren't necessarily a fan of. This is one of those things that my dad always said that stuck with me, and it really does get your farther in life. No one likes someone who's mean to people they don't like.

7. Your mood should not dictate your manners.

This goes hand in hand with being friendly with everyone. I don't care how much sleep you got last night, you should still always mind your P's and Q's.

8. Beauty attracts the eye, but personality attracts the heart.

Sure, being pretty is nice, but if you have nothing else to offer then no one will care how good you look.

9. Fall in love with as many things as you can.

Passion is intriguing. Figure out what you love, but don't stop there. Continue on your journey and keep finding things to be passionate about.

10. All things are possible with coffee and a cute outfit.

If you look good, you feel good. It's basically scientific fact. So, get up, dress up, and show up. (Obviously with coffee in hand because coffee makes everything better.)

11. Start each day with a grateful heart.

Everyone should count their blessings like its counting sheep when they can't sleep. Never forget to be thankful because whether or not you see it, you do have so much to be thankful for.

12. The best accessory you can own is confidence.

You are who you are. Own it.

13. You can't surround yourself with negative people and expect to live a positive life.

Don't allow other people to drag you down. Your vibe attracts your tribe, but that also goes both ways. If you spend your time with people who are negative, you'll reflect that. It's emotionally draining, and you shouldn't subject yourself to that.

14. Bad days build better ones.

Everyone has bad days sometimes, but that only makes the good ones feel that much better. Don't fret over the bad times because there are better things on the horizon.

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My stepdad has done any and every thing for me. From when I was little until now. He was and still is my go-to. If I was hungry, he would get me food. If something was broken, he would fix it. If I wanted something, he would normally always find a way to get it. He didn't spoil me (just sometimes), but he would make sure that I was always taken care of.

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3. He loved me as his own.

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So, dad... thanks. Thanks for being you. Thanks for being awesome. Thanks for being strong. Thanks for loving me. Thanks for loving my mom. Thanks for giving me a wonderful little sister. Thanks for being someone that I can count on. Thanks for being my dad.

I love you!

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10 Pieces Of Advice From My Parents That Have Helped Me Survive This Thing Called Life

I don't like admitting that they're right, but they've helped me through more than they'll ever know.


As I've entered my 20s and have made it halfway through college, I've learned that life can be hard and challenging at times. Like many kids, when I was growing up, I could care less about what my parent's advice or opinions were. Nine times out of ten, I would do the complete opposite of what they said. Once I got older and actually started listening to their advice and put it into perceptive, I learned that they're right more often than I'd like to admit.

1. Don't take things for granted

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I've learned to cherish what I have because I might not always have it. It's easy to take life itself and many things it involves for granted. They've taught me to take a step back from this crazy life sometimes and be grateful for all that I have.

2. Don't be afraid to put your heart on your sleeve


My parents have taught me that if you feel something, don't be afraid to say it or embrace it. If you love someone, then tell them. Don't be afraid to put your heart out there just because you might get hurt.

3. Be vulnerable

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In life, in relationships, in your work. Take risks, get shot down, and then try again. Being vulnerable is scary yet so powerful.

4. You can never have too many shoes


Otherwise known as it's okay to treat yourself. Life is hard, so take care of you. If that means going on a shopping spree every once in a while, then so be it.

5. You're going to be okay

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Whatever it is you're going through, you're going through it and you're going to come out on the other side. It may seem horrible now, but you'll learn from it and be okay in the end.

6. You have to have friends in life


It's important to have people to lean on, especially on your bad days, and to celebrate with on your good ones. You can't just have you or a significant other to rely on.

7. Never be afraid to share your opinion

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Don't be afraid to put your thoughts and opinions out there because they might be wrong. They could have a huge impact on someone or something.

8. Don't stress over things you have no control over

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Everyone is on their own path, which means everything will work out the way it's supposed to, even if it doesn't make sense right now. Again, you're going to be okay.

9. Happy, healthy, wealthy, wise


My dad always says if you tell yourself every day that you're happy with yourself or your life, you're healthy and strong, you're wealthy in love and surrounded by great people, and you're knowledgable or wise, then you can achieve anything in life.

10.  S*** or get off the pot

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My all-time favorite piece of advice. Making decisions can be hard and scary, especially if the outcome could be getting hurt in the end. So, you either make a decision and roll with it no matter the outcome or you walk away.

Thanks, mom and dad for always being a phone call away when I need it! Just know that your advice and words of wisdom don't go unnoticed. For others, your parents have been on this planet much longer than you have and most likely experienced the same situations that you're dealing with. They don't have all the answers, but they are there to help.

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