Being laid back is a great characteristic to have. It gives you the ability to handle great amounts of stress without turning into an emotional wreck. You have no time for girls who gravitate towards drama. You understand that being chill has nothing to do with being careless, but has everything to do with living life to the fullest and going with the flow. You just wish more people could understand that too.
1. You instinctively take the blame in most situations
As a person who always tries to keep the peace, you may find yourself taking the blame even when it's not your fault. You may also tend to over-apologize when you are at fault.
2. Messiness doesn't really bother you
You would much rather get an extra twenty minutes of sleep rather than attempting to come up with a perfect hair, makeup, and outfit combination early in the morning. You probably tend to go for the same type of outfit most days. But hey, you know what works best for you, so why make any changes? It's called being confident in yourself, not being lazy.
3. You’re a lover, not a fighter
If you tried, you could probably make a great case in your favor and win arguments. But when someone comes at you and fights your beliefs in an aggressive way, you'll always determine that a fight isn't worth the headache and decide that it's better to simply drop the issue.
4. People mistake your easygoing attitude for weakness
Because you have a personality that avoids drama and fighting, people have a tendency to try to walk all over you. People can take advantage of you because they know you wont try to fight them.
5. You can come across as uncaring at times
You understand that not everything is worth stressing over. This cold perception of being uncaring comes from those who aren't as laid back and have a hard time understanding due to opposing viewpoints. You care - you just don't feel the need to stress over every situation that comes your way.
6. You struggle with being on time
You can be bad about keeping track of time. You occasionally show up late, but rarely allow for it to bring you down or stress you out.
7. You're not overly emotional
You don't sweat the small stuff. You see life as simple, and have a temperament that doesn't stress over insignificant things like getting the wrong drink at the drive-thru or seeing someone wearing the same shirt as you.
8. You never make the plans
You never get your way because you let other people make the decisions. It's not that you are incapable of making the plans, it's just that it really doesn't make a difference to you either way. You allow others to choose to avoid the struggle of potential conflict.
9. You're the first to forgive
You're typically the first one to get over the disagreement. You aren't the type to hold grudges, and will try to do everything in your power to resolve the issue. Since you hate being in conflict, arguments with you don't tend to last long, and at times, you may apologize even if you're not at fault.
10. You're rarely the first one to finish
You may take a little more time than others, but this isn't necessarily a bad thing. While others may think that you procrastinate on most things, you really just know how to balance everything you do and concentrate on the deadline. As long as you finish on time and do it right, that's really all that matters.
11. People forget to recognize your feelings
Since you don't always express how you feel to others, most people assume you're fine all the time. But sometimes you just need for someone to ask if you're okay.
12. No one knows how to react when you're not chill
Your friends are so used to the tolerant, happy-go-lucky nature you have that when you get angry or upset, they don't know how to handle you.
