If you attend college in a state that's completely different from your own, this one is for you. Out-of-state students go through an experience that many of our in-state friends simply can not relate to, but at least we can relate to each other.
1. Every other student pretty much gets to go home all the time.
Aside from the other rare out-of-staters, all your friends are probably close to home and can drive home whenever they wish. But it’s ok, we’re fine, we don’t miss home at all!
2. You probably encounter a lot of new slang or trends.
Depending on the state you’re in, you may come across a multitude of new terms, slang, or trends that you are not familiar with. Quite an adjustment.
3. People look at you crazy when you don’t know their favorite local place.
I am sorry that I have not been to the totally ~legendary and amazing~ places that you love so much! Believe it or not, I have my own favorite places in my own state that are just as legendary and amazing.
4. You’re probably more independent than your peers.
Being away from your home means one main thing: you really have to become independent from your parents. We can’t go home just to do laundry or ask for grocery money.
5. Most people can’t comprehend your homesickness.
Being homesick can hit you as hard as a real sickness- and not many people understand what it’s like to be a plane ride away. There's no real cure for homesickness in college other than going home, and many of us simply don't get that luxury.
6. You have an automatic connection with other out-of-state students.
And if you find one from your actual home state, it’s a miracle! It’s relieving to find people who actually understand your situation on a personal level.
7. The weather is probably different.
If the weather of your home state is completely different from your school state, each season will hit you like a bus! Be prepared for some new clothing adjustments.
8. You're tired of getting the same old response when you tell people where you're from.
“So why are you here?” - a question meant with no offense - but gets old to constantly answer. I’m here because I’m here and maybe I'll tell you the details later. Thank you.
9. People say you have an accent
Even if you don’t hear it, your friends who have lived in-state their whole lives will probably tell you that you have an accent. (And in reality- it’s usually them with the accent!)
10. Everyone wants to know all about your hometown, because they probably haven’t been there.
If you’re from somewhere far away, chances are that most students you meet have never heard of your hometown. People often ask you about it like it's a different world.
11. You probably root for other sports teams.
While everyone at your school probably roots for the same few professional teams, it’s very possible that you don’t! Sports seasons often illuminate just how out-of-state you are.
12. Going home is like a vacation.
Whenever you’re finally able to book a trip home, you look forward to it like a vacation! A lot of in-state students just don’t understand the advantage they have in this aspect.
13. People from in-state tell you where they live like you know where it is.
If I have told you that I’m from a different state, chances are that I’m not familiar with your small town in the middle of nowhere. Try again later!
